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25 was good, insurance costs often go down, you're more likely to now be seen as a responsible adult by default. Your body is probably not rapidly deteriorating.

The best I have for you all at that age is, you're probably not feeling a effects of age yet, you can probably still party and most of your friends aren't married with children so you probably still have people to party with.

30's you recover more slowly, your friends start getting sparse as they start their own families.

40's you have to work to not fall to sloth, energy isn't a given, you have to schedule to get time with your friends

50's you need to start being careful about how you do things. your friends have grown children, if you don't do body maintenance you will fall into disrepair and it's hard AF to get out of that. Many people find stuff they used to enjoy eating now causes them discomfort. Your knees, back, ankles might pop when you get out of bed or occasionally when you go up steps

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It's a great age. It's also a great time to start building good habits. If I could go back, I would have spent so much more time developing better sleep and workout habits. Lack of sleep and working out has absolutely wrecked me.

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sh.itjust.works

ayo. old head here.

At 29. I had a pact with myself to kill myself before my 40th birthday.

I'm 43 this year.

If you take one piece of advice away: life is always worth living, there's always a tomorrow, no matter how bad you feel that feeling is not forever and things can change and you can change them.

I have struggles, doubts, frustrations, rages, disappointments, set backs, failures and, indeed, depression. But I lived. And even today I had a bad moment, I was feeling super low - but this evening I had a wonderful time with some friends and came home to my wife who I adore.

You made it to 25 and I knew a few people who didn't when I was 25. Now I'm forty fewer people have made it with me.

I miss them but we get to see what's next. You get to see what's next.

Enjoy being 25, 26, and beyond

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I'm glad you're still here and thank you so much for the words of advice/encouragement.

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lemmy.ca

43 this year too. 42 was a wild ride and 43 isn't shaping up to be any less crazy.

If I could offer only one piece of advice, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proven by scientists, where as the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience.

And no, there was no copying, nor pasting involved, I just remember that "song" very well. If you don't know what I'm talking about, it may be worth looking up, because as I've gotten older, the advice in that "song" has only become more accurate, more true, and hit home a whole lot harder year after year.

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Happy finally-considered-an-adult-by-car-insurance-and-rental-companies day!

I'm sorry you don't want to be 25. In my experience, 30 is far better, so just hang on and do your best 🤗

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Are we supposed to get a second time through our 20s? If so, I got ripped off man.

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Hey, think of it this way, you still have SO much to discover for the first time. Take it from and old fart, really get to know yourself, be ok with yourself. Don't take shit from anyone.

And if you have someone special in your life, make every moment count. Are we happy? Healthy? Stable? Ok let's not argue about which movie we'll watch who gives a shit anyway.

I wish you all the best dear stranger, grab life by the horns because before you know it it'll pass you by just like that.

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Well I'm more than 25+25 and would not want to be 25 either but don't worry, it will only last a year. Just hang on.

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Happy birthday! I remember turning 25 and feeling so old. Now I'm in my thirties and it rules. Well, the world sucks, but on a personal level, don't sweat it. You've got plenty to enjoy now and plenty to look forward to.

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The only thing that changes in your 30s is that you stop giving a fuck, but that changes everything.

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30s. Those were the fun years. Am 61 now and NGL, once you hit 50 and get gray and wrinkles.. you find that people will give you even less shit. Which is amazing! Some say that it's the aches and pains that come of age that suck the most, but I've always been a bit on the clumsy side with a high pain threshold, so it's been a constant since I was a teenager.

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protistreply
retrofed.com

I'm in my mid-40s, and I feel like peak me (so far)

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Yeah that was my vampire age - like if I could have stayed any age, 45 was it. Looked so good, felt so good. Sex drive like a teenager (maybe nature trying to make me reproduce before menopause?). I do think that may be the physical peak. Like, I still feel really good but 45 was it.

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piefed.social

I would also trade this guy's nut to be 25 again!

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lemmy.world

.........ok, but now I'm curious. Who is this time lord who offers time travel in exchange for testicles?

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lemmy.world

Back in my day, the exchange rate was 100 foreskins per miracle. Not sure what that is in testicles.

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zaphodreply
sopuli.xyz

I think the problem is that the timelords don't take left testicles.

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Maybe there is no right testicle and it's just two left testicles?

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For most people, their peak physical potential is between 25-35.

And peak mental potential is older than that

Enjoy

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lemmy.zip

Happy birthday and don't cry when 30 comes

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osannareply
lemmy.vg

I’m nearly 40. What do I win?

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Nah, the real tragedy is turning 27, that's when you no longer get discounted rates on the speed train here in Germany 🥺 Gotta ride around as much as I can before it's over for me in October.

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I'm in my 40s and each decade of my life has been better than the last. You live and learn. You make mistakes. You grow. You can use that experience to make your quality of life better.

Cut out toxic people, start an exercise routine, learn how to cook good meals, practice your time management skills. Not that I haven't wasted most of today watching AEW, but I did some sprints this morning so I'm resting.

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lemmy.world

Oh what I would give to be 35 again, when you're 36 like I am you'll understand how good you have it

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aussie.zone

36? Luxury! When you reach 37 like I am you'll really understand how good you have it.

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37? Ha! I was there, Gandalf. I was there three thousand years ago. I was there the day the strength of men failed.

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My lot passed around an antique sword cane - when you hit 25, it was yours till the next 25. Wonder who got stuck with it? (Sorry.)
Am 75 now, btw, shooting for the full century.

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I actually am enjoying my 30s more than my 20s. But your mileage may vary.

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There is only one way stop growing older I'm afraid

My grandma always said 'getting old is fun. Being old is not.' And 'I guess it beats the alternative' and a legendary 'folks I'm getting old' at the ripe old age of 98. My immediate response was 'well that took you a while then'

Anyway, you're 25, you'll be fine, also happy birthday!

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I really disagree with this. Except the child part, 25 year olds are basically children whose brains have just finished maturing

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lemmy.world

Congratulations, you're one quarter of a century old now.

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You're in the prime of your life. This is where your life begins. Enjoy the ever living fuck out of it.

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lemmy.world

But now you can rent a car in the United States! Unfortunately you have to be in the United States to do it

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feddit.org

Oh honey...

it's just one day, and then you will be 25 years and a day, and two days,...

Anyway have a great Day of Honor and lots of cake :)

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Pretend that yesterday you were 40 and you just woke up this morning 25 again. Imagine how young, energetic, hopeful you'll feel being back in your young body again. Go for a run.

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fedia.io

You're older than you've ever been and now you're even older.

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Happy birthday! You don't need to enjoy your birthdays. I didn't for years. But you made it and keep your head up my dude/dudette!

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lemmy.world

Genuinely disappointed at the lack of prime numbers in my future, why would prime number theorem do us dirty like this??

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sh.itjust.works

I am very pleased to inform you that 2027 is next year.

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Twenties are hard. Looking back, sure I would live them again with the knowledge I have now. But never again without this knowledge. This knowledge exists because I lived through my twenties, and they were hard.

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aussie.zone

I feel for you, I’m 54 and I wouldn’t want to be 25 again.

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Don't worry. They'll catch up with us eventually.

And everything will be on fire.

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Don't worry friend, in the blink of an eye you'll be saying the same thing about 30.

Besides 25 is a great time. You're likely early in your career so you've got plenty of choices still to make and probably not that much tying you down, and you've likely still got plenty of healthy years left with your body, especially if you put in the work and keep it fit.

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But why! It only gets better and better from here!

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I'd say it gets better but that hasn't been my experience so far.

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Speed jive, don't want to stay alive when you're 25

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depends where you are right now, earning a degree, have a job? graduated but not able to find one?

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