What are some good things to purchase to add a new distraction to my life?
What is a new thing, a new something that you have recently gotten into, or that you have been a long time participant in, that you find very entertaining and fun and time consuming and distracting?
What things would we need to purchase to get into that thing?
How did you get into that thing?
![email protected] can easily become very involved.
But for other activities, fishing, watercraft (motorized or not), woodworking, ham radio, and civic advocacy (ie public transport, housing, anti-corruption). All of these can easily be a lifetime's worth. All but the last one do require obtaining equipment, but the best part is that the equipment is often readily available on the used market.
If you had to pick one of those for a newcomer to get into, which one would you recommend?
Of the grandparent commenter's list, civic advocacy, hands down. It is infinitely the most important.
And (at least for me) the most rewarding!
It very much depends, I think. Ham radio was really helpful to me during 2020 because it was a social activity that was compatible with distancing requirements, and is a great way to talk with people afar. As in, other continents but also local folks as well.
Fishing, watercraft, and woodworking all have different prerequisites, like a nearby body of water or the space for equipment. They also require some logistical planning, like fishing licenses, how to identify and prep fish, and where to source wood. These things are often easier to learn if you know someone who already partakes in the activity.
But for civil advocacy, that one has no tangible result that you can put in the living room, earns no awards or points, and puts you directly in the public spotlight, ugly as it may be. And yet, despite all that, it has the potential to impact the greatest number of people in the most accessible way. Paraphrasing a Greek proverb, to commit to this endeavor knowing full well that it will never serve to yourself a benefit, that is a sign of a great and virtuous citizen. Such actions speak loudest.
All the activities I've listed are activities that hone personal development, and can be passed on to another generation, just in case you wanted even more engrossment. I'd say the greatest challenge is just getting started, taking that first step, whatever the activity may be.
Mistakes will be made early on, but this isn't amateur aviation or bomb disposal where the consequences are dire. Sometimes you just have to send it and keep at it.
I used to sink hours into home brewing. If you like fancy beers, you can make your own with little more than a stew pot and a bucket.
Classy stuff. Right up there with prison toilet wine. If only someone could come up with an idea for beer with citrus in it.... lol.
Fuck fermented bread soda.
Well, everybody's entitled to their opinion, and mine is that you're acting like kind of an ass.
What's your problem? Let people enjoy stuff that has no effect on your life. You sound miserable internally and to be around, maybe go reflect on yourself a bit
We are in the age of really cheap, but high quality guitars. You don't have to own an exorbitantly expensive gourmet brand like Gibson, Fender, Martin, or Taylor. There are lots of companies making very fun, playable, and CHEAP guitars.
If you want to play electric, there are companies like Firefly, Harley Benton, and Donner, making terrific guitars for less than $200.
If you like acoustic guitars, you can buy really nice new ones for under $500, but if you buy used (which I recommend for an acoustic anyway), you can find lots of nice 20-40 year old guitars from Yamaha, Washburn, Alvarez, Takamine, and others for less than $200.
Then comes the distraction part of learning to play, and practicing. It can take a lifetime, but if you are committed to it, you will be rewarded by steady satisfying progress for your entire journey.
Doing it, can confirm.
Check out www.justinguitar.com for top quality, free beginner's course.
Justin is great, he's probably taught more people to play than any other single human.
That's the other thing - once you've got a nice guitar for cheap, there are all sorts of great resources on the Internet. The best guitar teachers in the world are all over YouTube, offering lessons, tips, tricks, licks, and more, for FREE!
Go learn to SCUBA dive. Being 100 feet under water is amazing.
My wife passed away February 28th 2019 and I was lost in life. I wandered into a shop and was certified to dive on June 16th after a few classes. By January 16th 2020 I was Advanced Open Water certified and on June 28th I was Rescue certified. I actually want to become certified to instruct and use my underwater videos to pay for teens and young adults who have survived sexual abuse to become certified to dive and hopefully be able to provide them a set of gear.
I personality am a survivor of mental, physical, and sexual abuse. Diving has been the best thing in my life and in less than 100 dives I have seen things that people with thousands of dives haven't. It has also helped my mental health more than anything else I've ever tried. Now I just want to be in the water every chance I get.
What you need to get started is training. Dive certification will run around 500. You can find some shops that charge a bit less and some that charge more. The biggest thing in the agency alphabet soup is to find a shop that truly teaches and then plan to do advanced certification as well. If you can travel to do the Advanced Open Water certification do it, a week somewhere warm with some diving is worth it.
Things you should really buy: mask, fins, and snorkel. Buy it before you start the class. You can go on Amazon and buy any cheap mask and snorkel set where the mask has a tempered glass lens/lenses. Skip the dry top snorkel, they don't really do much other than cause issues (I have a design for one that would be amazing but need to prototype it first and don't have the ability/funding right now.)
For fins you need a scuba fin, I prefer ones made for dive boots rather than barefoot ones. Then you can walk around in the dive boots and have more grip and a little protection vs being barefoot. The fins I use are Cressi Pro Light but if I was to buy a set today I would look at the SEAC Propulsion S. And buy yellow or orange fins, trust me.
After that a dive computer is a really smart buy. You have a couple choices there and they can get expensive. A good basic computer is the Cressi Leonardo series or the Mares Puck Pro + Series. I started started with the Mares Puck Pro and just updated to the Mares Quad CI but will use the Puck Pro as a backup. You can use the app that comes with the dive computer but if you use Android and want to keep all your logs in one place even if you change computers (and you probably will if you get started) DiveMate is worth it. It works with tons of dive computers and you can still have signatures in your logs. I haven't used paper logs since my first certification. If money is no object the Garmin Descent Mk3i is one I (and many others) have drooled over.
Next is BCD and Regulator set. I'm looking at the Scubapro Hydros Pro with Air2 for my next BCD. Regulator I would suggest is the Scubapro MK25 with the G260. I use the MK20 with the G250, it's a tank and works great. Grab a console with depth gauge and pressure gauge as well, if you can get one with a compass as well all the better.
I think yours is a wonderful story. SCUBA is amazing, and you can get deeper and deeper (no pun intended) into it and the gear.
As far as its therapeutic value, what are your thoughts on having people who have suffered a trauma engage in a sport that has serious safety risks? You need to keep your wits about you under the water and mistakes can be harmful. I’m glad this seems to have worked well for you but I wonder if it might be risky for a broad population.
I've found that the trauma actually causes hyper awareness and it's not uncommon. https://www.simplypsychology.org/hypervigilance.html
Also while it has its risks similar risk is associated with many activities, but diving is generally a group activity and stresses the buddy system to reduce those risks. A properly trained diver who has certified to depth over multiple dives is probably safer diving that getting on the highway in a vehicle with hundreds of random people of dubious skill and training.
My plan is also to overtrain. There are operations out there who pump out divers who do not have good training and later on need retraining. My class sizes will be no more than two, always. Because I'm not doing the training for profit I can spend as much time as needed to go over all of the little details and train them with the knowledge a rescue certified diver would have in their arsenal with them only being open water certified.
I'm also planning to mainly deal with people who have been referred to me by counseling services or other therapy programs. Funding for non-profits is difficult to begin with so training and equipping a random person who makes claims of abuse isn't likely to happen.
https://www.doghousediving.org/the-doghouse-diving-vision/frequently-asked-questions-and-the-answers/
Cool, I see you’ve thought it through. Perhaps abuse survivors appreciate risks that they can control. Anyway it’s certainly a physically active and very stimulating sensory experience that gets people outdoors so I can’t imagine that’s a bad place to start in terms of mental health and healing. Wish you the best of luck with it.
3D printing.
Get a used printer or build a new one (building it teaches you a lot about how it works).
Start downloading models... toys, gifts, tools.
Start seeing what little things you can fix and improve around your home.
Encounter something you need to print, but can't find anywhere to download... Get into CAD and start making your own models.
Also there's a nice side effect if you get into 3D printing: it's suddenly really easy for your family/friends to buy gifts for you. There's never enough filaments you could have.
I haven't the courage to fix my 3D printer sitting in the garage (classic core-xy), should I buy a cheap laser one instead? One with that liquid that solidifies under uv light.
No no, don't do that. If FDM (classic filament printer, as you say) is a hassle for you, then SLA (a UV resin printer) is not for you at all. It's way more involved, requires protective gear as the resin is toxic while uncured, and requires a ventilated work space. Also, generally SLA is waaaay slower than FDM, due to significantly increased resolution.
They're just intended for different use cases and different requirements. In most cases they're not an equivalent substitution for each other.
Thanks! I had forgotten about the toxicity, that's why I never tried ABS...
The hassle isn't the printing itself, it's just that I don't have the pc with the marlin code and all that any more, I built my printer so everything had to be adjusted and tweaked... And as I built it myself there were shortcomings, very fun and instructive but maybe I should just buy an old working one... Compatible with that expensive E3D full metal hotend :-)
Haters gonna hate, but buying hardware capable of running my own offline AI has been my best money per hour investment ever. However, I got into it after reading all of Asimov's robots stuff, after an avid interest in compute hardware, and after having followed a few AI safety/general researchers. I got into it for customised learning, but that quickly expanded into many other explorations. Particularly I have advanced techniques for exploring AI thinking structures that are a lot of fun to play with. I play with images, video, 3d modeling, writing, agents, chat, roleplaying, and training.
I love doing AI prompt engineering, so I get it big time. In my case, though, I just do anime-style imaging with SDXL, IL, and SD 1.5 models. I use a website for my RP desires (not one with age verification, different topic for a different time), however, but I'm decent at prompt engineering, though.
I really hope that you know that these are not sentient entities.
That's clearly something you researched deeply, and I can't blame you for that. That's way over my head in some parts, likely because I don't understand it as much.
Wait, so are you saying there are living entities that are named after the Greek Gods in your AI model? What's the Queen of Hearts?
I'm not really sure what you're saying if I'm being honest mate! That image the model generated, what did you type to generate it? "Woman face chromatic lighting?" But without any vowels? I'm not sure I understand why not having vowels is significant here, isn't that just typo correction?
Oh mate I'm really sorry but I think you might need to step back a bit from these chatbots. They're not sentient, they're not gods. I think it would be healthy to stop using them, just for a little while.
Holy cow... I wonder how that could do very well with Mistoon Copper XL, which is an IL model. Does it work like that, or does Pony have it better?
Also, in terms of Pony, I've been wanting to test an anime-style Pony model, and wouldn't mind trying it myself.
What kind of hardware does this require?
A barbell, plates and a rack. Lifting has changed my life immeasurably for the better. It was something to do during covid instead of just drinking, but now it has become my passion
I got into lifting. Which got me into fashion because I needed a whole new wardrobe once my clothes became too small for me.
Downside of lifting: dumptruck ass and no pants that fit
Dumptruck ass is an upside.
But the pants thing is real. I got a nice pair of jeans and outgrew them in like 8 months.
I'm buying as much as I can second hand now because I've not even reached my final form.
If you live in an area that gets a lot of snowfall, buy a zamboni. Keep it in a garage. Then, when a big ice storm hits, your time will arrive! Take your zamboni to the city streets! While the city ice crews are trying to melt the ice, you'll be out there thickening and polishing it to a glimmering shine! You'll be the ying to their yang. The negative to their positive. You will be the balancing element in nature! Buy your zamboni, and take to the streets!
That would be the most fantastic thing if I lived in such an area, but alas, I do not.
Photography. Yes you can do it with your phone, but a proper camera makes the process much more intentional. It can cost a fortune, but it can also be relatively cheap. I started off with a little digital camera when my daughter was born to document her kid years, now I'm dragging large format sheet film cameras up mountains on camping trips. Any mirrorless or DSLR from the last decade will get you going. Also photography pairs so well with basically any other hobby and sometimes can provide the motivation to do the other thing. Tons of YouTube videos and channels on the subject.
Biking. Great as a way to get around town in a healthy way. Brings about that joy of being a kid just ripping around the neighborhood. Then I started getting more and more into mountain biking, which has been a fun rabbit hole. Progressed slowly to avoid injury, and now I'm ripping blacks at the bike park and just raced my first enduro last month.
Running. Trail, road, whatever, just run. The best stress relief imaginable, and the best time to work through whatever is in your head. You'll feel better, maybe not always in the beginning but after a run definitely. Buy some shoes and off you go.
Climbing. Noticing a physical activity trend here. Climbing is awesome though. Such freedom of movement, it's like self weighted vertical yoga. Bouldering is a great place to start. No ropes or technical ability required, just bring a friend to a gym and they'll get you started. From there you can get your own shoes, get a membership, learn to top rope, meet some more experienced climbers, go outside with them, learn to lead ... another deep rabbit hole.
Hope those give some inspiration!
Gameboy Advance
Lego. My son is 8 yo now and I really enjoy building sets with him, or even alone. There are lots of advanced sets issued for adults and I'll buy the 5000 piece model of our local suspension railway soon 🚟..
I have never had the patience for Lego.
I remember trying to do, like, when I was a kid, and just getting really frustrated at the directions, and just making swords and other fun stuff instead.
Which is weird because I really enjoy assembling Ikea stuff, and I'm very good at it.
I will remember! Might take some time though.
Try 52 book?
A book a week, for a year is the premise.
I just go into charity shops and buy random books off the shelf, it's very, very hit and miss.
That's part of the fun.
Obviously I have my favourite genres/authors, this method means I either learn names to look out for or, avoid
I got back into hobby electronics after life getting in my way for 20ish years. And wow things are a lot more available and out of the box than before.
Lately I've been getting into I²C peripherals. They're pretty cheap too. Wanna build an X that does Y? Adafruit probably has some breakout board for you that does what you need. Hook it up to your platform of choice (Raspberry pi, arduino, etc etc) via four wires (well, 2.. I just run power from a raspberry pi as well) and you're good to go.
Optional: Combine it with a 3D printer to make chassis and mounting platforms.
I now have a raspberry pi that knows its absolute orientation, altitude, and position. I'm currently working on PWM input for receiving inputs from an RC radio I happened to have. After that it's PWM output to control servos. I might build it into a semi autonomous RC plane/drone or similar. We'll see where this project takes me.
Hiking shoes and poles. Spending time out on trails will be my next attempt at healthy coping.
Meshtastic.
I got some meshtastic devices, but I don't really see the use case outside of sending text messages to the nobody else that is connected to the meshtastic.
It’s the HAM radio of texting.
One (1) library card. No purchase necessary. Can do it online in minutes and with a free app like libby have access to more interest than you could ever satisfy.
Fleshlight. As far as getting into it spits enough.
Planting native plants and checking out the cool bugs that show up.
Cross stitch :)
R36S handheld retro game console. You'll be investing in SD cards & alt software while searching for roms & ports of games you already have.
It's pretty great.
already have one actually really like it next game on the list is Zelda a link to the past
The why not welcome yourself to the wonderful world of boutique flashlights! ![email protected]
cat cat kitty-cat kitty-cat-cat cat-cat-cat cat kitty cat
one need money
i got into it by going :3 and adopting a cat
I have had many wonderful cats in my life, and I do not currently have a cat, and I have not had one for some time.
Maybe I should get a cat.
Get litter mates. They teach each other to play nice so you don't have to.
I bought an analog camera (Canon EOS 300) for like 15 euros at a thrift store a year ago and luckily it worked. It has kinda kick-started my interest in photography. Analog photography is quite expensive tho, so a better recommendation would be to buy a cheap used DSLR. Personally I bought a Canon EOS 40D at MBP for like 80 euros, but anything like it would probably be fine.
A camera from 2008 doesn't sound like something that would still be relevant today, but honestly it's a great device. It's kinda like an old manual car in camera form. If you know what you're doing you can absolutely take amazing photos with it. It has all the buttons and options you might need, just not the fancy new stuff like face tracking autofocus, sensor stabilisation, EVF, etc.
My dad (who is a more professional photographer) let me use his professional grade lenses on this thing and the results are absolutely stunning. But even something like Canons 50mm lens is very decent. Will it beat anything modern? Probably not. But you sure can learn and take stunning pictures with it. Since then I got a more modern camera as well, but honestly the 40D still keeps surprising me. It takes a bit more effort to get something good, but it is also super rewarding.
The best thing about digital photography is that you can keep trying your shot with different settings for exposure, aperture etc. it's a great way to learn what works best in what situation.
I read this and my only thought was "Factorio". Oh well.
Get a shitty motorcycle and fix it up and ride it. You'd be amazed at what you can do with some time and and a couple youtube videos.
if you don't have one a steamdeck.
'Tis the season for over-the-top programmable RGB holiday light displays choreographed to music.
https://kno.wled.ge/
https://www.xlights.org/
(I haven't gotten to the "choreographed to music" part of the hobby yet.)
You need a bunch of WS2812 or similar LEDs, esp32 microcontrollers, wires, power supplies, mounting hardware, etc.
I thought about something like that because I live in a geodesic dome home and it would be really great to be able to program my house to look like a gumdrop for Christmas, or a pumpkin or a skull for Halloween.
I'm just worried that I would annoy the shit out of my neighbors in the process.
You live in a geodesic dome house. Clearly, you already don't care what anybody else thinks!
(That's kinda awesome, BTW.)
I like it for a lot of reasons, but the lack of right angles makes interior decoration a nightmare.
Almost every angle in the house is like 60 degrees, which doesn't play well with mostly rectangular furniture.
Ah, well, in that case, furniture-making should definitely be among your new hobbies.
I wonder how long it would take me to be able to build the beetlejuice style furniture I would need for everything to fit in my house, lol
Gun, bullets, gun range.
Then reloading equipment for all your center fire fun.
A little groove box. Like the Roland T-8 or Novation Circuit.
Few hundred bucks will get you a used one. Super fun to sit around and make your own simple beats and songs. No musical knowledge required!
I'm a big proponent of modern affordable musical electronics. If you like it, it's a fun little thing to do. If you love it, there is endless depth to pursue in many directions. No natural rhythm or understanding of melody needed. It's fun to just sit and tweak knobs and notes until you like what comes out.
I also recently discovered this website called "Strudel REPL" that let's you code electronic music in your browser for free. Another fun way to check out the hobby without spending anything.
Watching movies. There's so many movies, both good and bad. Sometimes bad movies are fun too, especially horror.
Others have mentioned video games. I've gotten into emulation using Batocera. Can be installed on old hard drives/raspberry pis.
Depending on your space/climate, gardening and/or growing mushrooms.
I've been looking more into home improvement and homesteading.
I also just tend to get fixated on random things that interest me and go down rabbit holes.
Hockey, started in my late thirties, couldn't even stop at the time.
Great exercise.
What do you need to purchase? Gear.
Minecraft. Build a cool base in the side of a mountain or in a tree with a ton of secret passages. I play it with my kids and enjoy it just as much as they do.
Flashlights really do seem like an endless rabbit hole to sink into. They’re surprisingly affordable too - there are tons of Chinese models in the 30–60 euro range that outperform name brands costing over 100 euros.
You could even turn it into a challenge: try to research the absolute best everyday carry flashlight for yourself and see if it arrives in the mail before you’ve already found a better alternative.
VR. Spend all day in another world.
Therapy.
Like, I'm gonna be real with you for a second. I've had this little crash out before, but I have actually tried to get therapy, and I have been given an appointment, and I showed up to the appointment, and the therapist fucking did not.
I have literally gone to multiple locations through insurance-approved things, and I have waited my time, and I have made the calls, and I have sent the letters, and I have sent the emails, and I have responded to the emails, and I have done all of the things. And I have been unable to get therapy, and I have decided that, since the universe will not allow me to have therapy, I'm not allowed to have therapy.
That's wild. Please keep trying. You. Are. Worth. Every. Effort.
Eta: in the meantime: meditation, some sort of art (paint, photography, pottery, mosaic, a coloring book, sketchbook, doodle, journal, short story etc).
In my experience, majority of therapists are garbage. I've experienced the same, but once you get one who actually shows up and is actually good at what they do, it's worth it.
Rubik's cube
Get a jet Ski.
And a second one
Play The Long Drive. Lookup nothing. Play in the dark with loud sound.
Video games ^^/$
Skipping/jump rope. Great exercise, crazy fun and an endless amount of tricks and combos to learn.
I'm tyring to eat less animal food so have been buying odd vegan ingredients for cooking and substitution. It's fun.
A friend of mine got me interested in playing Tamagochi (Paradise). You can get the latest release on Amazon, though it's more expensive than older gens.
Idk if you like building stuff, but I collect cardboard from packages and turn them into 3D weapons. I do the same with recyclable trash. I take garbage and make art out of it, usually making sci-fi spaceships. And I put them on display around the house. To me, it's very fun and my absolute favorite hobby.
air fryer and fidget toys
If you draw or dabble in the arts try out Water Mixable Oil Paint! No turpentine or odors, it's real oilpaint but it can be cleaned with water!
Nothing beats oil paint, it's crazy, amazing and humbling, you can probably spend a lifetime and still have new things to learn. After the initial cost (say 200€ max if you keep thing normal) it can be a low cost hobby too if you don't go crazy.
A podcast app. And go hard into podcasts. I’m like 11 years into a podcast listening campaign and I’m still not finished. Started with the As. I’m now into the Ps.
Collect and categorize memes. You already have everything you need so the bar to entry is low.
Not a purchase but I started an affair with a married woman. Boy it's a rollercoaster!
Yeah that is really awesome. They are so passionate in bed.
how about donate all of your shit and stop buying things