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Last night, I suggested switching to Signal in my family group text

I have a weird switcheroo situation. My family came across no worries but my friend group, nobody switched.

I deleted all the meta bullshit a while back and went 100% signal, let everyone know where they could reach me and so far 1 person has contacted me via signal (in about 6 months). Feels kind of shit tbh.

Still cant understand why people stay on those platforms full of ads and horrible UI when soooo much better alternatives are out there.

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1 year into navidrome with dilligent tagging and rating, and this is how someone has the perfect theme song when they walk into a room, every SINGLE time.

I use Symfonium to do the same thing.

My rating system is a bit loosey goosey because its hard and tedious to catagorise music into more that 5 levels. Its mostly defined by how much/often I would listen to a song because that seems like a good base line.

Songs sonetimes get upgraded / downgraded on the fly and then siphon in / out to the respective playlists.

  • 5 star: high energy, 99% wont skip, will listen to hundreds of times again
  • 4 star: any energy just a good song, will listen to many times again
  • 3 star: indifferent, might be a hit on the right day in the right mood, wouldnt listen to more than once a week
  • 2 star: not for me, can understand why others might like it, wont make it in to any of my playlists
  • 1 star: absolutely fucking not, mark for deletion (hyper commercial pop like the overplayed shit through the 2010s mostly fills this category)

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Theoretically speaking, if one wanted to sail the seas while being not very tech savvy – is using a VPN (Mullvad) enough? I would never, of course… but theoretically?

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You could start by using the connection test on the mullvad website that checks for 3 different leaks.

VPN use is not illegal (yet).

Your ISP can still match your internet traffic to the act of torrenting - however they can not know what you are torrenting and the act of torrenting itself is not illegal.

Theoretically - using torrents to download free use material like you are going to do is 100% legal and above board. So what if you are choosing to use a VPN while doing it?

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My analogue month: would ditching my smartphone make me healthier, happier – or more stressed?

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Its hard to balance staying informed and staying away from political content these days.

I personally have a few key word filters on lemmy and still cant avoid all the news about whats happening in the US, Iran, Gaza etc.

I just want to know whats going on in the world so I can adapt accordingly but man its nothing but doom, depressing, downright scary times.

And I dont even have any other social media except for lemmy. I cant imagine the people also dealing with tiktok, meta and all that shit too thats designed to make you feel as shit as possible for engagement.

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If you are formerly religious, how did you leave your religion and what made you do it?

I was raised in a lutheran family and had to go to church until I was a teenager.

It was always so boring from the beginning so it never had a hold on me and I remember thinking something along the lines of "If I was god I would be so pissed off that I have to listen to this shit (horrible singing and people sucking ass) every week."

From that day on I made a pact with god that if he exists, I will never bother him cause hes got enough people screaming for his attention like a bunch of toddlers.

So anyway now we catch up for a beer every few months to blow off some steam and he gives me the next weeks lotto numbers as a thank you

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It's not fair that only women get to be "fun sized."

The equivalent stigma that women get shamed for is the inverse of mens, that being a "large" or "loose" vagina.

Women already have many sexist things to deal with that are a bit more sinister than your tic-tac being laughed at. Look up the "Husband stitch".

Although I think you already knew that and are either searching for something to get angry at that doesnt exist or rage baiting.

Either way, are you ok man?