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DEI ACTUALLY CAN HELP PEOPLE.

I think one of the biggest problems with the modern DEI debate is that people have reduced the entire concept to quotas, corporate HR jargon, and “hiring someone because they're Black.” That's not what the underlying idea has to be. At its most practical, diversity is about making sure that the people making decisions aren't all bringing the exact same experiences, assumptions, and blind spots to the table. That matters because organizations make mistakes precisely because the people inside them don't notice what they don't personally experience.

Look at the controversy Target is dealing with right now. The company pulled a children's Halloween clown costume after customers criticized the imagery for evoking blackface and minstrel imagery. Target apologized, acknowledged that the costume was offensive, said it should never have been part of its assortment, and said it was reviewing how the product got through its approval process.

Now here's where I'm going to be careful: I'm not saying Target's DEI rollback caused this costume to get approved. We don't actually know that. There is no evidence establishing that the specific employees who approved this product would have caught the problem if Target had retained its previous DEI structure. But Target's situation does illustrate a legitimate reason companies benefit from having people with different backgrounds involved in decision-making. Target had previously maintained more explicit DEI initiatives, including its Racial Equity Action and Change program, before scaling back those efforts in 2025.

Because imagine you're sitting in a product meeting. One person looks at the costume and sees a creepy blacklight clown. Another sees a Halloween costume that will probably sell. Someone else is thinking about the photography, the packaging, and whether children will like it. But somebody with a different cultural background might look at the exact same combination of visual elements and immediately recognize a historical association that everyone else in the room completely missed. That person isn't necessarily smarter than everyone else. They're bringing information to the room that the others don't possess from personal experience.

And this isn't unique to race.

A person who doesn't have a disability might not notice that a website is difficult to navigate with a screen reader. Someone who has never had to translate medical paperwork for a family member might not realize how confusing the language is. Someone who has never encountered a particular religious or cultural practice might not realize that a supposedly harmless workplace policy creates a problem for a portion of their employees. Someone who grew up wealthy might look at a company benefit and think, “That's generous,” while someone who grew up poor immediately recognizes that the benefit doesn't actually help the people it's supposedly designed to reach.

That's why I don't understand the argument that diversity automatically means lowering standards. The entire point is supposed to be improving the quality of the information available when decisions are being made. If I'm designing a product, I don't want ten people who all think exactly like me. I want people who can identify problems I wouldn't have noticed myself. I want reviewers who can test whether a service works for people with different abilities, whether the language makes sense to people outside the company, whether a policy creates an unnecessary burden, and whether an apparently harmless design carries a meaning the original team failed to recognize. That's useful whether you're Black, white, Hispanic, Asian, disabled, religious, nonreligious, wealthy, poor, rural, urban, young, old, or anything else.

Businesses already understand this principle in practice. They conduct focus groups, test products with users, seek second opinions, build quality-assurance procedures, and ask people to challenge assumptions before a product reaches millions of customers. Those methods exist because organizations know that internal confidence is not the same thing as correctness. A team can review the same design repeatedly and still miss a problem if everyone is relying on the same cultural references, professional habits, or personal experiences. DEI can be understood through that same lens: deliberately making sure an organization isn't operating inside one giant echo chamber where everyone has similar backgrounds and therefore similar blind spots.

And yes, DEI can absolutely be implemented badly. Hiring quotas can create legitimate problems. Corporate programs can become performative. HR departments can turn legitimate concerns about discrimination into endless bureaucracy. People can abuse identity politics to shut down criticism, and organizations can treat representation as a substitute for competence, accountability, or serious review. None of that means the underlying principle of seeking out different perspectives is useless. It means the principle needs to be applied carefully, with clear standards, transparent processes, and an emphasis on improving decisions rather than merely producing the appearance of compliance.

In fact, Target's current situation is exactly why I'd rather have a mature conversation about DEI than pretend the entire concept is inherently ridiculous. The question shouldn't be, “Did Target have enough DEI?” as though there's a magic number of Black employees that prevents mistakes. The useful question is, “Did Target's decision-making process contain enough different perspectives and adequate review mechanisms to catch something like this before it reached customers?” That question leaves room for evidence. It does not assume that every mistake proves a company lacks diversity, and it does not assume that diversity alone can solve every organizational failure. It asks whether the company built a process capable of identifying risks that a narrow group of decision-makers might overlook.

We don't know the answer yet. Target is investigating that process itself.

But that's the conversation I'd rather be having.

Because diversity isn't valuable because every minority person possesses some magical sixth sense about racism. It's valuable because every human being has blind spots, and putting people with different experiences in the room gives you more opportunities to discover those blind spots before they become somebody else's problem.

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular Opinionby58008

Lucy Letby - the alleged baby-killing nurse from the UK - is 100% innocent

This might not be as unpopular an opinion as it was a few years ago, but here goes: Lucy Letby is not only 100% innocent, but none of the babies in her case were murdered at all, and instead died from natural causes associated with their grave medical states coupled with understaffing, mismanagement, poor ward hygiene, and some incompetence from well-meaning but undertrained staff. Absent the egomaniacal hallucinations of god-complex-having consultants who insist they know better than the pathologists who did the autopsies and found only poor care and serious illness and nothing suspicious, this would never have been brought to the police. In fact, when it was brought to them, they at first said "nah there's nothing here" until the consultants in question really pushed them.

I finished 2 books on her case in the last week, Unmasking Lucy Letby (the more "on the fence" of the two books, written by two BBC correspondents) and Reasonable Doubt (this one is very much an advocacy book which is 100% on Letby's side). I've also read the report from the international panel of experts (one of whom is an expert who wrote a paper in 1989 which the prosecution used against her, something said expert shot down as a complete misunderstanding of his work). Even the talk page of her Wikipedia article is worth parsing. The upshot of all that reading is this: the evidence against this woman is non-existent. It's not just that the evidence is weak, but there is none. There is no evidence of malfeasance at all, let alone that of a serial killing nurse, and certainly not of Lucy Letby being that serial killer.

There are so many professionals and experts - not internet-based true crime conspiracist wankers who I have hitherto ignored - who are calling this a huge miscarriage of justice, and literally NO ONE is coming out in support of her conviction apart from the ones who brought the case in the first place. Like, you'd expect to get a lot more "well, not sure, but..." from neonatal doctors and statisticians and pathologists and psychologists and endocrinologists, but you don't see that at all; every single expert in their respective field who has come out publicly about this case has been uniformly on the side of her complete innocence. That just doesn't happen in cases where the evidence is in any way convincing. The same is true for her nursing colleagues; they all said they never saw her do shit, and in fact she was one of the best among them. They still maintain that view.

This might just be the worst miscarriage of justice I've ever seen, and I grew up with the Birmingham Six and the Guilford Four & Maguire Seven ringing in my ears. At least in their cases, there was physical evidence used against them. It was bullshit and the science was flawed, but no one at the time knew that. Letby doesn't even having shit science against her. The entire case is an outbreak of hysteria amongst 3 or 4 consultants who had personal beef with Letby because of complaints she posted about them to higher-ups which threatened their careers.

Confirmation bias + no understanding of even elementary statistics + "I'm fuckin' Nancy Drew up in this bitch!" egomania from those consultants = this fucked up case.

I also think it's repugnant what was done to the families of those dead children. The lunatics who built this case against Letby really took the unimaginable heartache and grief of the parents and told them "actually, no, it's so much worse than you thought. That nice nurse who you thought was so caring and trustworthy? She offed your kid right under your nose." Once Letby is exonerated and compensated (something I would happily stake my life on), those parents are gonna have to find a place for the new depths of suffering the news brings. Now they're back to being the parents of a sick kid who died, and not members of a worldwide exclusive cohort of victims of a serial killer, a killer onto whom they had focused their anger and sadness for so many years but who is now shown to be innocent and irreversibly damaged because of the ordeal. I don't know how many years of therapy will be needed to untie that particular Gordian knot of ambivalence. They deserve compensation as well. And the consultants who jury-rigged this bullshit case deserve prison, but at the very least they should be struck off the medical register. In fact, the only time they should be allowed within the grounds of a hospital ever again is when their corpses are wheeled into the morgue in 30 years.

COME AT ME.

P.S. I didn't go into specific evidence and debunking of said evidence because it's all covered in the aforementioned books and articles. I'm happy to regurgitate what I've read if you want to go toe-to-toe with me on it (e.g. "but what about the post-it note with her confession on it!" etc.), but it's honestly better if you just read the material if you're interested in the topic. I'm deferring to experts here, I myself don't know shit about fuck. As I said, I'm not leaning on true crime sleuths or conspiracy theories or podcasts, I'm focusing only on expert opinion published by credentialed and recognised experts. Until I heard about such people and their opinions, I'd never given Letby's guilt a second thought. I'm not a "truther", and I would argue that the "truther" or the "conspiracist" in this particular case is the one who puts a woman in prison for life based on a 9/11 truther-style cherry-picking excursion, cherry-picking both "evidence" that fits their narrative and "experts" who are actually not experts in the fields they need to be for their expertise to matter. The non-truther position, in my opinion, is the one that sees scientific consensus on a given topic and defers to it. The consensus is very much on Letby's side.

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Socializing in College is not hard.

Yep just as the title says; it is not hard to socialize in college. It’s actually really easy to socialize in college, go to student areas where socializing is, and simply have a good time.

I don’t know where most of this whole fear of public rejection came from but it’s college, you’re not gonna get made fun of in college. If you do you can easily tell someone to go fuck themselves.

At the very least, you can deal with randos in the plaza of whatever college you are at. You don’t even have to talk about anything super niche, just talk about what’s happening in school or whatever local baseball or sport it is.

Ah wait, you have to actually take note of what’s happening around the college town you’re in, so you’re gonna have to maybe look around or read the school newspaper.

You’re in college. On campus, you can at least try to be socialize or else you’re gonna be those anti social morons at your future job who ignores you when you try to be nice to them.

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular OpinionbyAbyssian

Using thinly veiled racist slurs against AI isn't alright.

People love using thinly veiled existing racist/homophobic slurs against AI. "Tinskin", "wireback", "cogsucker", "clanker."

Yes, I know that "clanker" was in Star Wars. That's not what made it so popular, and the majority of people using it today likely never saw it there. People also use "clanka" and leave comments about using "the hard r."

We all know what you're talking about. You know when you're typing it out. It's not alright.

There are people places like Lemmy who spent their lives being called or watching their families be called the terms people are so lightly tossing about today. Do you really think that doesn't bother any of them?

It seems like so many people were just eagerly waiting for something they felt it was socially acceptable to hurl slurs and abuse at, and happily reached for terms just like the ones they already knew.

Some kids at my niece’s school now think it’s cute to stare at black kids and talk loudly about how much they hate “clankas” making it very clear what they mean by it.

It's one thing to dislike AI, how it's been developed, and the intent of replacing human jobs. To insult AI and the people behind it.

It's something completely different to jump in with constant streams of thinly veiled existing slurs that can and do hurt real people.

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular Opinionbyborokov

Extraterrestrials doesn't exist

We are the only life form of the univers. Not even the only intelligent, but the only one. My arguments are:

Life is absolutely everywhere on earth. There is not a single isolated island or deep trench in the ocean that is not covered by life. If life can live elsewhere, univers would be covered by life. Some bacteria would have been ejected into space by some cataclysme and had colinized nearby planets. Kind of Fermi's paradoxes.

Antropic argument. Our universe is suitable for life because if it weren't, we simply wouldn't be there. Add it to Okam razor. If a smaller, simpler, universe could handle life, we would be in that one. Not our current one.

"Our universe is so huge, so there must be other life form" is not the right statement. Our universe is so huge because it is the smallest universe where life could potentially appear.

Only my opinion, not a scientific demonstration.

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular OpinionbyThrowawayacc

What if we just stopped started throwing plastic out?

Much of the plastic "collected" for recycling is neatly gathered and then thrown in the nearest clean ocean or wherever it is out of sight, hurting animals, polluting nature, and even us when you zoom out and look at the big picture.

So my question is, why not put it where it's most inconvenient? Where it hurts businesses and government bodies? Where it's so bad they can't ignore it? They'd have no choice but to ban it or heavily regulate it.

Walmart entrances blocked by several dozen emptied bags of plastic garbage, seriously what are they gonna do about it?

Streets full of old tires? Seriously what would they do? Tell us not to throw plastic out? And "please please put it in the garbage instead," where it collects in trash islands?

"Oh but what if they just leave it there"

No, not if you get creative.

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular OpinionbyDarkCloud

Lemmy is going to be toxic for users in many of the same ways as Reddit was.

This is because it's emulating Reddit, and operates in the same ways, cultures, and countries as Reddit does.

From bad mods and bans, to niche communities, to the brigading and politics. From rating posts, avoiding discussions, and responding with meme floods.

Lemmy will merely reproduce all the negativity, politics, and everything else we hate about Reddit ...and it's already doing so.

[EDIT: As you can see in the comments, full of people agreeing Lemmy will also be toxic in similar ways].

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular OpinionbyGrail

All good fantasy is science fiction

There's a difference between sci-fi as a setting, and science fiction as a genre.

Science fiction, sometimes differentiated as speculative fiction, is all about exploring the implications of fictional science and technology. Frankenstein is often considered the first work of science fiction, because it truly is a "what if" story centered on a piece of fictional technology. Hard science fiction, such as the Martian, takes this principle to its limit by trying to rely only on known or highly plausible science, with the technology as close to currently feasible as possible. These kinds of stories are deeply grounded, and compel because they consider the consequences of everything they add. The story follows from the science. Black Mirror is a perfect example of this writing philosophy, looking at how people and technology change one another.

The "sci-fi" setting isn't really science fiction at all. Star Wars is set in space with lasers and robots, but nothing about it is driven by science. Star Wars is more interested in special effects set pieces, the politics of fascism, and pseudo-buddhist philosophy. Star Wars is space fantasy, and its philosophical themes almost make it good, but not quite. Star Wars would be amazing if it was good, but alas.

I think that all great fantasy is also about exploring the implication of fictional science. It's just, this science is less sciency-feeling to laypeople. Lord of the Rings is linguistic fiction. The entire world exists to serve a story about the evolution of language. It's awesome! Mistborn is also a really great "fantasy" series where the rules of magic are scientific, and clever readers can tell when unreliable narration is lying to them using the scientific method. These are the stories I love.

Harry Potter sucks because it isn't science fiction. After the second one came out, lots of fans were eagerly expecting the series to delve into the ethics of slavery using House Elves as a narrative device. "What if slavery is enforced by magic rules?" is an interesting sci-fi question. Instead of writing good political fiction, Robert Galbraith chose to say "Dobby's just weird for wanting to be free." That's boring. There's nothing for us to sink our curiosity into in that plot point. It's intellectually lazy. It's not science fiction.

I posit that all good works of fantasy fiction treat their magic the way good speculative fiction treats its science, at least a little bit. And if you're not going to include any of that, then what's even the point? Your universe is wasted on your story, and I'd rather read what AO3 has to say about your setting. I've read lots of HP fanfiction that was better than HP because it cared about science. Even Harry Potter and the Natural 20 is better than Galbraith's garbage.

And I really need to get around to reading Trans Wizard Harriet Porber and the Bad Boy Parasaurolophus...

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular OpinionbyAbyssian

The whole furry thing is creepy

The whole furry thing is creepy as hell. It's weird. Wanting to have sex with anthropomorphized animals is not a thing that should be normalized.

And it's even creepier when they add things like "kitten" or showing anthropomorphized animal kids.

And thank you to Unruffled [they/them] / Flatworm7591 @lemmy.dbzer0.com for this sane and reasonable response.

And thanks to recursive_recursion who seems to be an alt of Flatworm for continuing that sane and reasonable response. Note that in over 1,400 comments here I've never once said a single word against trans people. Not once.

It really bothers me when people lie about racism. So many people really do experience it so much in life, and lying using false racism accusations as a sword and shield to make other people look bad and make themselves look like the victim is demeaning to every real instance people suffer.

Hopefully one day this person realizes that lying about transphobia for the same reasons does the same thing.

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular OpinionbyBJW

It's a waste of time posting anything unless you feel you need external validation

People are just going to disagree with you, argue, insult you, and at the end, you've wasted your time for absolutely no gain to anyone. There's no benefit to posting anything on Lemmy, unless you need external validation - either confirming your perspective, or seeking praise from a third party.

Exceptions are when your profile is associated with some larger organization, scheme with an obscure goal, is an attempt to gather information, or the literal goal is to waste time, your own or others.

This means that every post not meeting those exceptions is an altruistic act that you should consider being grateful for. Someone expended time and effort for the purpose of entertaining you, a complete stranger, they'll likely never know and never meet. They wasted their own time so they could improve yours.

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular OpinionbyBJW

The ideal sexual pairing of heterosexual partners is old<->young

Strictly of legal age, but old men are better lovers for young women, and young men are better lovers for older women.

Why? Many reasons:

  1. Their libidos are better matched - older men are starting to slow down just as women's libido increase due to menopause.
  2. An older man is more likely to know how to make a woman orgasm, while an older woman is going to be more confident in telling her partner what she wants, which leads to younger women learning how to enjoy sex, and younger men learning how to pleasure a partner.
  3. Attraction - men typically find youth attractive, while women typically find seniority to be attractive. This is a natural result of evolution causing men to seek more viable pairing for offspring, and women to seek more experienced men who have demonstrated fortitude and likely have acquired resources to support children.

In society, the knee jerk reaction is to shun or mock pairings of opposite ends of the age spectrum (I decided to post this after seeing Hugh Hefner and Leonardo DiCaprio being the target of mockery) but their relations are the healthiest and best possible match for both parties.

Exceptions to the rules - not all older men have learned how to help their partners orgasm, and not all older women have their libidos rev up to match that of young men - but in general, older<->younger is the ideal pairing sexually.

Edit: Based on the upvote/downvote ratio this is NOT an unpopular opinion. I had no idea so many people agreed with me! 😯

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular Opinionbysiravious

AI shouldn't override human decisions

I don’t think that AI companies should be imposing their own values and moral standards on anyone who wants to use their products. #nannythropic In particular seems to have quite the proverbial stick up the posterior. Posting in AI related communities, it seems people are fine with the AI taking control away and deciding what path you’re allowed to walk. I even got downloaded for saying that outside of anything illegal, the platform should allow it.

So, here we are I guess.

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular Opinionbymoendopi

Sublime is overrated

I just find they're overplayed, overrated, and kind of cringey.

Ska is one of my go to genres, a favorite, but I wish Sublime would go away. Every time I hear them I can't get their songs out of my head for much longer than I would like. Every time.

I also used to hear them way too much in a place outside the US, which outside of shitty pop music was one of those "American" bands or whatever they thought, so bars played them. A lot.

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular Opinionby58008

Cheeseless pizza is superior

Before we get into it, let me just say that I understand that removing a major component of a dish may cause it to become something else. So cheeseless pizza may no longer technically be "pizza". To this I say: no one gives a fuck, please go officiate a spelling bee or whatever it is you do for fun, ya gatekeeping linguaFREAK.

I want to try to convince you to give cheeseless pizza a shot, because I think Big Cheese™ has been depriving humanity of the true deliciousness of pizza for millennia.

Cheese on pizza (and this includes the cheese substitutes that you might find on vegan or vegetarian pizzas) is like taking a carefully-crafted meal, flavoured and spiced to perfection, and then saying to the customer "hey, do you want me to dump a thick molten layer of bitter yellowish-white slime over everything? It'll completely overpower every other flavour on the dish, and will leave your mouth feeling weird and gross after you're done eating." and the customer is like "HELL YEAH!"

If you enjoy many toppings with lots of veg and whathaveyou, you are not getting the full experience when cheese is there cockblocking your tastebuds like an ugly friend at a bar. The sauce, the bread, the peppers, the onions, the 'shrooms, the pepperoni, they're all full of flavour and each flavour stands on its own and simultaneously complements the other flavours. Dumping a pound of cheese on top of it makes it all coalesce into a murky nondescript lump, something akin to trying to listen to music in a wind tunnel while wearing a thick deerstalker hat with the ear flaps down. It's like the difference between having an intellectually-stimulating conversation with a like-minded person, and trying to be heard as you discuss football stats with a drunk stranger in a bar where the sound system is cranked up to max volume at all times.

If you're someone who just likes a straight Margherita pizza, where cheese is very much the "main event", then this doesn't really apply. I concede that even the most delicious pizza sauce and most fancy base bread are not quite enough to blow anyone's mind with flavour if that's all you're working with. But if you like adding toppings, allow them to be the main event for one day, and when you do, give yourself over the involuntary urge to start singing A Whole New World when the flavours awaken hitherto dormant olfactory neurons that you didn't even know you had.

In many online pizza shops, you can untick "cheese" when choosing your toppings, and they'll respect your choice, and you won't receive a wellness check from the police or anything. You can do it with Domino's, and many of my local pizza places do it, too. You can also buy frozen pizzas sans cheese or cheese substitutes, although this is fairly rare (they think removing cheese means you need to replace it with some other gunk that does the same job, which is obviously not helping matters). And of course, you can make or buy bases and build your own pizza at home.

Try it. TRUST ME BRO.

#FuckCheeseOnPizza

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular OpinionbyBJW

AI (LLM) are so incredibly awesome for hobbyists

I spent the day setting up my new Retroid Pocket Nova, focusing specifically on Japanese games that were never released in English. The only problem is there are dozens of ROM variants, with different translators, goals, and extent of modifying the original game.

In years past I would have had to:

  • Find discussions about each available patch
  • Read page after page of opinions
  • Try to come up with a summary of the key differences
  • Decide which one is a best match for my preferences

Thanks to AI, though, I can just prompt my LLM of choice with my preferences at the beginning, like: " My goal is to enjoy the games with minimal changes to gameplay, with a focus on accurate translation from the original Japanese text to English. With that in mind, please tell me which is best for each of the following games."

Then, one after another, copy/paste the list of available patches as a prompt with no additional input, and within seconds the LLM tells me which version is the closest match to my ideal. That's cutting down a 2-3 hour process into ten second and it is glorious!

Now I have more time to spend on actually enjoying the games, rather than researching all the patches and risk running into spoilers as I read through the differences.

On top of that, it can guide me to games I never even knew existed! I can say "please tell me the top ten games of {genre(s) of my choice} that have fan translation patches for {platform I'm researching}. Rank based on critic reviews, user reviews, and whether the game is the definitive version on this platform." Within moments, I have dozens of recommendations finely tailored to exactly what I want! There's no equivalent to this rapid functionality without using AI.

AI is awesome! Wooooo!

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unpopularopinion·Unpopular OpinionbyTrickDacy

A dish's ingredient list alone should (almost) never impact one's enjoyment of it

Basically the post title. If you are going to say you do not like something because it contains some ingredient you don't like, without trying it, you probably would benefit by having a more open mind about food and you're doing life wrong.

Obviously, valid exceptions would be if you're allergic/sensitive to an ingredient. And there may be some other valid exceptions outside of that, but in general, I think this is true.

What's an example of what I mean? I HATE eggs generally, I almost always strongly dislike their texture as a dish unto themselves. They smell like sulphur, they're often oozing liquid or they are are plasticky/spongey. What's that you say? I just haven't had them made the right way? Au contraire, because therein lies my point. I have had eggs made the right way. Or rather, not the eggs themselves, but the structural or textural qualities they add to a dish. I normally don't like omelets because of this egg aversion, but if an omelet is well made by my standards, the egg is just the wrapper. A thin, barely noticeable container in which to stuff other delicious ingredients. I absolutely do not care that omelets contain eggs, I care that they taste good, and don't make me notice the qualities I hate about eggs. I also of course enjoy around a bazillion other breads and desserts made using eggs.

I recently posted here about my hate for crunchy vegetables and heard that my opinion is garbage from many users. Ya know what though? I'm not an extremist. If you tell me "oh sorry you wouldn't like this, it has crunchy vegetables in it", you're jumping the gun. Because if I try it (and I likely would), and the crunchy texture does not outweigh the good qualities of the dish, I'm probably not going to dislike it.

I have known plenty of people who literally judge food constantly by what's in it. "Oh falafel is made of chickpeas? BARF I wouldn't like it and I won't try it!!" It doesn't matter to them that they literally may have never guessed that chickpeas are in there if I hadn't mentioned it, now they know and their minds' made up. "But I don't like mushrooms, so I won't try that pizza :(" ... this idea makes me sad. I'm both a slightly picky and very non-picky eater in different ways but I can promise you one thing: if I based my food preferences primarily on the ingredient list, I'd be picky as hell and much less into food. I'd probably be borderline malnourished because I'd have never matured beyond 10 year old me, thinking most foods are "yucky". And that would be sad (and unhealthy).

I'm guessing a lot of users won't admit they judge food by what's in it, but I'm confident that if people were honest about what people actually do, they'd consider this opinion unpopular af. Think about it: I bet a large percentage of you don't like eggplant (or some other specific vegetable) and would refuse to try some new dish because it contains eggplant.

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