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Agree with this for most folks (using on hands or feet) but if you gotta cover more surface area it can get gone. My 8yo kid had a rash on his thighs and back and we used up a tub pretty quick.

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How likely is it that there's an animal on earth that's smarter than human beings in key areas?

"intelligence is a nuanced topic" Understatement champion. Applying your examples "in any form" still doesn't really work since those examples are built on communicating the steps as well as the result. If an animal can intuit precision without showing the work, do we still give credit for intelligence? Jumping spiders, for example, have an extremely developed intuition for parabolic trajectories, but I'd bet real money there's no neural structure in their brains that looks like y^2 = 4ax.

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Neither is actually viewed as healthy. Social parasites are sometimes harder to spot.

For your case it's the transition that's tricky: Friends assume you want to keep being friends and may worry if that changes. After a while they'll give up, assuming you've moved on. If you're sure that's your path then just stay the course, but know that it's harder to come back from if you do get lonely. It's harder to make and keep friends later in life. It's harder to find a spouse if you're alone all the time. Interestingly, a spouse + kids may solve your social obligation/boredom problem.

For my case, wife and kids made keeping friends AND a job impossible. Married men are expected to be present at all times for family now except for when at work. Anything regular outside of work is considered neglectful of either your children or your marriage. No hobbies except those that can be done at home after kids go to bed. No social commitments not involving spouse and/or kids. Fatherhood standards are pretty high these days. I don't have any "friends" anymore, but because I have a family no one asks about it anymore either.

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US row house owner here: Air-gapped, sound-insulating walls DO exist here. I never hear my neighbors or their kids. My only regret is having a car when I moved here. It just sits there rusting since I can walk and bike everywhere, including to work. Should have sold it 10 years ago.