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The guy I liked who I was talking to just up and ghosted me...

I'm sorry that this happened to you. Some people just dont know how to disengage and feel this is easier for them and the other person. Ghosting can definitely make you feel hurt.

However, one person's actions do not define your value. There is someone out there looking for you and will be there for you in ways that you will never regret continuing to look for them.

I almost gave up trying and just when I thought it was too difficult to keep going, I found the person right for me.

I wish you all the best and just remember to be kind to yourself. Life is full of ups and downs and try to stay positive and enjoy the best parts of each one of those.

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What book(s) has changed your life?

Mistborn. Wouldn't say it changed my life but it really put into words how I feel about religion so I could better communicate it to others. Don't want to spoil anything for anyone but I personally thought the story wrapped up well.

Professionally it was Radical Candor by Kim Scott. I was a struggling new manager from an individual contributor role and it really helped me develop a mindset and ability to set expectations but at the same time assist with their growth.

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Vermilio from Helck [Fanart]

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Reason I liked it a lot is the character development. It's definitely not the most flashy or a storyline that will have you at the edge of your seat. But it has good story pacing and really shows some great aspects of internal struggle that they turned into entertaining situations.