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Well as a cis man, I usually call my cis wife to deal with bugs because I'm squeamish about bugs and she isn't! I would say the point is that you do what's good for you. And if you and your partner can't figure out a good balance especially if they're sexist assoles, trans or otherwise, then you shouldn't be partners. And if you have the energy, call out people for being sexist whether they're trans or not; but otherwise just ignore them and don't hang around them voluntarily. You don't need that many friends; it's more important that your friends aren't assholes.