Spyke
lemmy.world

"Pride should be reserved for something you achieve or obtain on your own, not something that happens by accident of birth." - George Carlin

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Hey man I still have to maintain the heart that keeps that thing full of blood during strenuous aerobic exercise.

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Skipcastreply
lemmy.world

Maybe one day, but one could argue that it takes active effort to be openly LGBT+ because of the potential harassment or worse

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This. Even coming out when people are supportive is rough to say nothing of a huge portion of the world hating you for no reason.

Also, pride is more about visibility than actual pride. About showing each other that we aren't alone and that it's ok to be open.

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lemmy.world

Pride for being LGBT isn't about being proud for being LGBT. It's about being proud of being yourself despite living in a society that usually tells them not to, or even persecutes them for being themselves. That is an action, an act of rebellion and truth in the face of adversity. That is what they're proud of.

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sh.itjust.works

Pride for being yourself openly despite others negative pushback and reactions is certainly something I can get behind! Just important to not confuse it with pride for being LGBT+ though

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Maybe you should worry less about providing negative pushback and worry more about minding your own goddamn business you sack of shit. Who somebody else fucks doesn't affect your life one bit, so maybe just leave them the fuck alone.

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Yeah no pride is about SURVIVING while being queer. Thats what they should be and are proud about.

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lemmy.world

You think it doesn't take work to be yourself when society hates you? Interesting take.

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sh.itjust.works

It doesn't take work to be LGBT+, that's something you're born as. You could definitely argue that for many people in our current society it takes sacrifice to be openly LGBT+ though

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lemmy.world

It certainly does take work to be gay when it's societally unacceptable. Either you do work to hide it, or you do work to convince yourself that you're not.

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sh.itjust.works

You're right. In this society it takes work to be LGBT+. And if you do something based on that, it also takes effort, which can make you proud. But it's still not a choice to be LGBT+, and in other societies it would not be anything to be proud of, just as you shouldn't be proud to be white, or straight.

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Takes work to SURVIVE the shame and world people like you create.

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lemmings.world

Ahh, so you finally admit being LGBT+ ISN'T A "CHOICE," but instead who you actually are at birth!

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sh.itjust.works

Oh, I specifically mentioned it because lots of people seem to think you can and should be proud to be LGBT+, eg 'pride' month and everything

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lemmings.world

Lots of people think they should be proud to be white - so much so that we have the very post under which we are discussing this topic where someone is falsely claiming to be such. THAT would have made far more sense to use. It seems to me that you're telling yourself that you're making a valid point, but instead you're merely revealing your own bias.

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You're getting me wrong - I don't think anyone should be proud to be anything they didn't put effort into. All I want is consistency.

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This tells me you aren't familiar with white heritage racism in the US

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boonhetreply
sopuli.xyz

Anything mediterranean isn't white in traditional American Racism(tm). In fact, even Irish people weren't considered completely white for the longest time.

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The thing about the whole "us vs them" mentality is that you can always go more specific about who "us" is until you've got like 5 superior human beings and everyone else is subhuman.

It never made sense and never will. That's racism for you.

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lemmy.zip

Wait... what? He think's he's white?

He's as white as that Tate guy! LOL!

What a tool.

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Which I find funny as I recall there was some crabbing that he posted that white incels couldn't get the pussy like he did 'cos he was part black. Then that sprung forth an entire bitchfest that included photos of his crotch and size comparisons.

It degenerated fairly quickly from that point on..

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feddit.org

Mediterranean descent/red-ish skin is not classically thought of as white.

That's the joke, right?

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Madison420reply
lemmy.world

He is by his own admission Afro-Cuban who identifies as white for some reason.

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I identify as slayer of god emperors... this is awkward.

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Hitler had blue eyes, for what it's worth. He was definitely not tall (173 cm, about average for his place and time) and had brown hair. So he only missed on 2 out of 3 of those criteria.

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Knightfoxreply
lemmy.world

This photo doesn't really help and to be fair most of the pictures I found of him online are shot in such a way that he could look like a person of anglo-heritage with a heavy tan. Adding more stubble, a baseball cap, all black clothes, and sunglasses in 9/10 pictures can do that.

Here is a picture of him in normal lighting. Also his name, Tarrio, comes mostly from the Spanish Peninsula and he claims to be afro-cuban.

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Blackmistreply
feddit.uk

Ah, a "one of the good ones"

Right up to the point where he's deported.

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We call them Uncle Toms/Uncle Ruckus (or aunty in case of women)

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lemmy.zip

Except Hitler was blue-eyed, according to people who met him (including non-Nazis who had no reason to lie about it).

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Oof. I can't imagine the self loathing it must take to try to pretend I'm something I'm not. And not only that, betray who I actually am. There was a guy in college who had a confederate flag in his window with the words "heritage, not hate" dudes last name was ramirez. He was clearly Mexican but claimed he was native American and it was like, dude, that would be even worse! The simple fact that you don't understand the implications... Just wow. I sometimes wonder what ever became of that guy, just out of curiosity.

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And after 15 years he has the courage to leave his girlfriend, because she is a n****er lover.

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If you don't look like mayonnaise, white supremacist losers aren't going to be falling all over themselves to fellate your ego, pal...

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sopuli.xyz

Why is the offspring of caucasian and a black parents always considered black?

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Because race is a social construct and whiteness is seen as the default that can be "tainted"

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lemmy.world

Can we goad some Charlie-Kirk fans onto his ass ?? It would be funny

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Always a leopard moment to see the racist slurs thrown at colored folk who assume they can be white along the racist they align themselfs with.

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lemmy.ca

IMO there's nothing wrong with being proud of who you are.

It's when you try to use that pride to show that you're better than people who are different from you, then we've got a problem.

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Bring proud on ethnic nationalism grounds will pretty much always lead to the consequences you describe.

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Jhexreply
lemmy.world

being "proud" of a race is stupid… you literally had no say whatsoever in it

it´s like being proud of having two arms (and pretending that makes you superior to other people also with two arms)

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coronachreply
lemmy.sdf.org

I didn't have any say in having opposable thumbs but I could say that I'm proud to have them.

I get you, though. I can't imagine calico cats being proud of their color(s). They have more important things to do.

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I didn’t have any say in having opposable thumbs but I could say that I’m proud to have them.

And it would be weird of you to say that.

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are you opposable thumbs better than my opposable thumbs?

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Rothereply
piefed.social

Ah yes, clearly a joke by the leader of a nazi gang. They joke all the time about that sort of stuff.

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zloubidareply
sh.itjust.works

And everybody answers, mock him, share his message… helping him staying relevant. This kind of jokes is not meant to be fun, but to be a propaganda tool, and if i read the answers on Txitter or here, it works.

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discuss.online

Nothing more manly than the founders of the Proud Boys shoving a Dildo up his own ass to own the libs

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These people live in the Opposite Universe, where shoving a dildo up your ass in front of journalists proves you aren't gay, and posting a photo of your obviously ethnic face proves you're white.

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