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‘I Approve This Message’: Kamala Harris Instantly Uses Trump’s Own Words Against Him

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Better to eat crow than the shit we'd be forced to swallow in a second trump term! Forreal though, thank you for coming out and saying it.

Nobody needs to say "I told ya so" but clearly things are moving in an energetic direction, and those of us that are sane in this country should all be pleased! Keep dunking on the fascists and speaking the obvious truth to these morons!

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Am I completely off base to expect my partner to be transparent about her inheritance?

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I appreciate this reply, thank you, it's pretty accurate. I can even see it but in the moment it is hard to not get reactive around these hot button issues.

I don't think she intends to be malicious, but I don't know how to categorize this as not deceptive. Her standards for the transparency she demands of me is quite high, so it doesn't feel reciprocal at all.

You have hit the nail on the head as far as describing the whole identity crisis that happens as a stay at home mom. She was far more independent, we lived in another city where we had more support from friends, and in general there have been a plethora of stressful life challenges that we have faced along the way. Mental health has been a big challenge for sure.

This isn't lost on me, I just don't always know a skillful way to address it in the moment.

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The answer is here, but you just can't fight physics. Light needs to come through a lens and hit a sensor. There has to be some significant distance, in relation to the thickness of the phone for this to work. Until camera technology advances and somehow produces a comparatively sharp image, we will be stuck with the bump. It'll happen at some point I'm sure, but there is a whole bunch of tech that will need to change to get there.

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Am I completely off base to expect my partner to be transparent about her inheritance?

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Yeah this is exactly all that I want. An equal split would be a complete game changer and I would be able to catch back up on my finances and not feel like everything is spoken for before it even hits my bank account. That phrase "what's mine is mine and what's yours is yours" is probably a good way to phrase it, and I absolutely am not looking to usurp control in any way. Thanks, another solid reply here, you guys are great. Much better responses than what you'd find on reddit. I actually started writing an AITA and deleted my account halfway through, shoulda done it earlier.