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ok i am ACTUALLY coming out to my dad soon

I don't have any stakes in this game, so take my answer with a grain of salt. But while living with my now ex-wife, I learned some things about family and what we make out of it, as she has a lot of emotional baggage to carry.

First of all, I wish you all the best. Good luck and that it will pan out like you hope it will and with love and understanding and happiness.

But it not ... Family for her now are the people that appreciate her how she is and not the group she has been born into. This was a long journey for her and it took a lot of strength. I hope you don't have to walk that way. But if you do, remember that there are people that love you. Even if you can't see them in that moment.

But I'm rooting for you, and I bet it'll all be great!

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business is business

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You can shift the quality a lot with great equipment, but that requires you to know what you're doing first. And it still depends on what you're trying to shoot. Somebody trying to capture a great moment in high speed sports might need a better camera than a cat dad. But without knowing how to use it, it is worth nothing.