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I'm (31m) having trouble communicating things that are bothering me to my partner (30F) because her insecurities and anxiety keep me having to assure her.

You’re her security blanket, so why should she clean? She knows you’ll do it. You also need to stop expecting her to read your mind. And, don’t wish you were her, she’s likely much worse off mentally than you think. As for leaving her, you’re in a pickle as she will become a bigger problem the more you try to leave. You definitely need to share your concerns with her, and there will likely never be a right time to do it, but you’ve gotta do it.

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I didn’t even consider it until I saw this post; who it was. That said, I think you handled the situation well, considering the circumstances. You were in the right, and I’m sorry to say that I missed the vote and didn’t get banned myself, haha.