To am sorry to hear that!

Feelings are coming and going, so will this pass. Its valid to feel any emotion, its how we deal with it. I will come to it below.. In my experience it helps to:

• journal about it just dump every thought that comes up on some paper. This helps to make your thoughts and feelings more real.
• chatting with someone also greatly helps, its like journaling but with feedback. I am always surprised how nice their reactions are and how good it feels.
• you can also chat with an AI, make shure you pick one that respects your privacy or even running a local modeln on a strong pc through ollama or such. Its a I between of journaling and talking I think? You can prompt the AI to behave a certain way which can help.
• therapy is great. In some places its hard to get but even a few sessions help to get your own thoughts going. In germany its tough right now, but just try. There are also some institutions from Unis where ongoing therapists can have their first patients, its a lot more accessible and can help
• I think the current psychological stance is that the best way to improve most psychological situations is meta cognitivity. The idea is basically to see your emotions as they happen, which allowes you to label them and take a step back. The emotions will not define you as much, and you will be able to deal with them. This helps to develop emotional management, which is the only way to deal with emotions. You can't control them.
• idk what your inner process is. Some people are just kind of comfortable with a sad feeling and come back there as a safe space of sorts. Other people seek it for other reasons, you should talk about a therapist if you find this interesting. In the end like others have said it's propably some form of depression, which can get better! It takes work and time but it will improve!
• in general we tend to question our good thoughts not your bad ones. Try to switch it up and reverse it, try to prove to yourself why x is good, not try to find a reason y is bad

I am afraid I myself have no concrete advice how to improve your situation right now. Be kind to yourself like a loving parent would be. Force yourself to go for a walk even if it feels exhausting, get a coffee or so and something nice to snack. Maybe see a friend with a little warning you are not feeling to great but need some different input or just have a beer and don't talk, just get a hug, idk. It will strengthen your friendship a lot. Idk if you already established that, ans idk your friends but some get spooked so maybe go slow and have them ask questions or so. Maybe get some nice food and play a game or watch a movie, allow yourself to feel good about it. You deserve it.

Love to you! It will get better :) <3

KDE neon on both laptop and desktop can be buggy. Discover does not open reliably, dolphin crashes randomly (in certain directories) and the display manager crashes and restarts sometimes. Idk why, super annoying and could not find a solution yet.

Tbh i don't quite get it.

I expect to be downvoted like hell here for saying this, but I think discourse is important. Also, its not meant as an attack on op, I want to get my viewpoint out here for others to respond and spark a discission I hope

You went to chat with one of the lowest their models they offer. It detected an typo and reported it by saying "I made a typo". You then tried to get it to admit it does not have fingers which it does by saying "what ever the equivalent of a typo is". So first we don't habe the language to say an AI generated an false word or token (other than this, which is pretty clunky), second what did you expect from an randomized predicting machine that drew its statistical data from language?

And why do you use it in the first place if you think its dumb?

Maybe this community is just meant as a place to rent and let out emotions or preach to the choir, then I am sorry to slide in here. But if we want to change how AI is used and works we have to find real issus and datapoints that we can use to discuss AI usage. There are enough talking points other than the language it uses, like education, energy, environment, noise, capitalism, human nature and a ton more

I just miss good discussions about political things like this. I would love if we could have a culture on Lemmy again where we upvote good discussions if we agree or disagree. Trolls and dumb arguments or insults can be downvoted. But we will not develop as a society if we just downvote what we don't like to hear, its not black and white I think. Idk

Der sieht nicht so aus als würde er oft öffi fahren, ich find das ist ein Problem

Hey, das ist mein passwort aus meinem passwort Manager!

At this point I would rather use a Mac than windows I suppose. They are actually rather secure and are Unix which is nice.

But in general, if you don't care about moral, being caught in an actively hostile eco system, have enough money, and being the little bitch of bog tech, Apple is quite nice?

I mean tbh what is a valid Alternative? Android, same big tech dependency, just different company. Samsung wannabe apple but in shit and more evil. Windows, same big tech, just incompetent company and evil on top.

So apple seems at least to be quite okish if you don't have the skill to degoogle your phone and use Linux?

In my bubble, apple has very little bad press about security, had few bugs until maybe 2 years ago, then it got worse I think? And the device connectivity is pretty solid. If you have enough money, their devices are pretty high quality, from a manufacturing standpoint. And they slowly allow repairs on their devices again

Ah fuck, didn't get the memo Linux does not work and used if for 2 years accidentally :(

Da musst du bitte etwas elaborieren. Ist ein Handschuh typologisch gesehen nicht eher eine Ebene statt einer Sphäre? Bzw ich versteh es schon, wenn man die Materialstärke mit einbezieht und die Strecken im Material möglichst minimiert, dass ein Handschuh dann eine Kugel ist.

Aber bei deiner definition eines Loches bin ich voll dabei, sofern wir das object aus mathematisch typologischer Sicht betrachten.

Im umgangssprachlichen würde ich jedoch den Hals einer Flasche auch als Loch bezeichnen, einfach durch Mangel eines besseren und etablierteren Begriffs, freue mich aber stark über alternative Vorschläge.

Ich bau grade mit einem Kumpel eine Kasse für unseren space, wo man sich mit der Schließkarte per nfc registrieren kann und mit einem barcode scanner ein Produkt scannen kann, wodurch sich dann der creditscore des users verringert.

Pi's sind cool für kleine Anwendungen, aber alles außer dem 3er sind finde ich viel zu teuer. Da würde ich jedem mittlerweile einen mini pc oder nuc oder so empfehlen, da ist ne ssd drin, hat mehr Leistung und ist zuverlässiger

So in German law I think it would be damage to property of others, maybe public disturbance (idk if thats the correct translation), and trespassing? It propably corresponds to similar laws in the us?

It seems this lobby has 3 types of players:

1. noobs with a bit of trash in their pockets and a depression
2. veterans that collected it all
3. veterans that found out a cigarette and a piece of wire is all they need

liest Schlagzeile "Rentner..." Oh "...fährt..." Oh no "...rückwärts..." Oh no, thats not good

Respekt an die Energie, die du da rein steckst. Ich finde schwierig guten Rat zu geben, und wär an deiner stelle auch sehr überfordert. Ich konnte grade nicht ganz aus dem Kontext lesen ob die betroffene Person schon in psychologist h therapeutischer Behandlung ist, das wäre mein Rat an der stelle. Auch für dich vielleicht interessant damit umgehen zu lernen falls es dich belastet. Ein Vorschlag wäre euch zusammen hin zu setzen und therapeutenlisten durch zu gehen und mal dir besten 10 zu kontaktieren. Eine kurze mail reicht oft, vielleicht mit kurzer Beschreibung der situation. Die Krankenkasse biete auch eine Ärzte Suche, um einen möglichst schnellen termin zu finden. Die meisten uni klinken zur Psychologie haben auch sehr spontane Beratungstermine wo oft noch auszubildende Therapeuten sind, das könnte vielleicht für dich oder zur erstem Beratung spannend sein.

Konkreten Rat für die Situation kann ich nicht geben. Es klingt als hätte sie Angst vor den folgen der Trennung und Anzeige und Verlustangst. Vielleicht hilft es für 1-2 Tage räumlichen Abstand zu haben um was anderes zu sehen und nicht im normalen Trott zu stecken?

Ich Wünsche dir viel kraft und Erfolg. Ich finde es sehr gut, dass du so klar deine grenze erkannt und kommuniziert hast

I read up about it a while back, so anyone pleas correct me. It works like this I think: An audio sample is recorded, chunked into overlapping windows, which are converted into a spectagram (the black, blue, yellow, red image of frequency vs time). Idk at which point what is send to the server but to me it would make sense to keep the data amount low by sending after the next step: From the spectagram, the algorithm searches for high spots or notable "pixels" in the spectagram. It then notes the relative position between many spots, not only the next but lets say 10 per spot (propably more, as just a pair of 2 numbers are super cheap and small). We then hash these relative vectors. So we now have a list of frequency vs time vectors hashed in unique strings of our recorded audio windows. In the database we have all songs send through the same algorithm and stored. We then just compare our hashes from the recording to the database and find the song with the most matches.

Its pretty smart and I suppose there are additional filters to speed up the process and make it more reliable. Its just so simple, I love it

EU states have handed over their own citizens to the US, if these people have hurt us citizens enough. There is a nice episode of the darknet diaries that just came out

Hm, grundsätzlich heißt das OCR. Wäre auch interessiert an einem tool, hab selber aber noch nicht geschaut

I feel like they improved that, I had a few of those runs at the beginning as well. Idk how long it has been since you touched it, but I suggest trying again :) and use the map to see other caves nearby

Number 1 argument for me is, your data can be used to manipulate you, postly politically. You might not be a big target because you use Lemmy and linux and a vpn or whatever but other people that are not interested in tech are

Even if its not political manipulation, maybe its optimizing ads so you buy more. Which then can be used to manipulate you politically as you lack the funds to stand up for your morals. And even if you personally do, because you might have a privileged background, others might not and for them its absolutely worth fighting for.

Benn Jordan has a great video about it

I'm scared this will be a bit bland compared to the polished drg. I think we can't expect the same game and see it as just something different. But the devs will make it great over time, I'm sure. See you tonight!

I disagree but like the discourse