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Quite a lot of people; if op is feeling unconfident in their body, I'd recommend them just looking at the thirst for bears lol

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lemmy.world

This is a good idea. People should be allowed to wear whatever tf they want.

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I completely agree that they should. Recognize though that other people are going to find some things more attractive than others. That's okay - we're not obligated to dress in a way others find attractive - but many people do care about being attractive.

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This.

Bubble gut and Jorts isn't exactly a good look.

Oh it's a look, alright but not a good one.

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It was surf shorts and button down shirts all unbuttoned and long hair, just bumbling around drunk and happy in the grocery store like Jeff Lebowski. I was fit though yes. If I went in drunk with shirt unbuttoned today someone would probably get the manager out to talk with me about it.

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Sure some wouldn't like that look, but some would

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I was going to say, because I don't have the stomach of a half starved gym rat. But yours is also good.

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lemmy.world

Hey my dude. I'll cat call you if you want.

Damn bro you hot as fuck no homo. Like shit man, you rocking that shirt like you belong in a museum of sexy ass motherfuckers no homo. Damn man if I was into dudes, I'd want your body all over mines no homo.

Anyways have a nice day.

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lemmy.world

To provide some perspective/existential dread, that character was introduced over 20 years ago.

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NO! You can't say that. It defies all know time logic.

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Because I'm currently dressed like a skateboarder from the 90's and it's so very comfortable.

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lemmy.world

Women what’s stopping you from dressing like 80s horror movie hotties?

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lemm.ee

I don't like wearing thong leotards over my leggings. It'll shove my leggings up my buttcrack and be super uncomfortable.

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jaybonereply
lemmy.world

Superman wore briefs over his leggings and you don’t see him complaining about it.

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lemm.ee

Superman doesnt wear a thong though. Plus, he's an alien so maybe he has a super skin that doesn't get irritated from chafing?

I'm merely human, so my skin wouldn't appreciate having the seam of my leggings pushed up my asscrack while working out or whatever they were doing in those outfits back then.

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jaybonereply
lemmy.world

Yeah well Superman was fighting crime, and wearing briefs over leggings might not get into his asscrack, but I assume he has a ballsack. I’d much rather have a nice thong up my ass than my balls wrapped in tightly whites with some leggings all bunched up in there. I guess we’ll have to agree to disagree. Unless Superman doesn’t have a scrotum and testicles, in which case I fully concede.

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lemm.ee

Maybe superman has super testicles? Briefs over leggings would hurt a normal dude but not him?
Or maybe his briefs only hurt his nuts if kryptonite is near him?

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He's nigh invincible. It would take a lot more than that to make him uncomfortable! Kryptonite underwear, maybe.

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Of course dressing like 80's horror movie hunks. Crop tops and jean mommy shorts.

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Have you seen those movies and what happens to the guys dressed like that?

Try again, Freddy / Jason / Michael / motherfucker

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lemmy.world

Because I did that in the 80s, so now I don't, to protect the public from trauma.

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kbin.run

Those socks are weirdly nostalgic for me, but I can't quite recall when I quit wearing them for some reason.

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lemmy.world

Because people don't look like they did in the 80's anymore.

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lemmy.world

My dad bod. I used to wear short shorts and didn't care if my shirt rode up

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It’s still summer, so I’m rocking my 70’s coke dealer vibe, and don’t want to put away the floral shirts just yet.

The cut-off athletic wear look is definitely a late summer/early autumn. If I can find appropriately skimpy shorts and cut offs, I’ll be all about it.

There needs to be a “Modern Himbo” store so finding clothes like these isn’t such a chore.

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lemmy.world

I'm turning 30 in January, and I'm quite self concious of my belly :(

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yokonzoreply
lemmy.world

Thanks friend, I'm sure I am but I still wanna reach my weight goal this year if I can

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Because it looks dumb af and always did?

Just like the hairstyles everyone had in the 80's. There's a reason no one really dresses like that and it's because generally everyone realized how dumb it really was.

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lemmy.world

Yeah, I think that the 80s were a stylistic low point in western history. Everything looked bad from the clothes, to hair styles, to electronics, to cars, to home decor (though that specific area bottomed out before the 80s and was on its way up).

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The next generation always says the previous generation had no style. Or else we wouldn't call it a trend

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lemmy.ml

because straight men are terrified of appearing gay.

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i think it's a fashion thing and those kind of men probably wouldn't bother with a shirt

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Maybe ones that aren't looking for a relationship. I imagine this wouldn't be a good advertisement if they are.

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lemmy.world

If I dressed like that, I would not look gay at all. I would look EVEN MORE like a dad.

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exactly; they won't look gay, but they think they will for some reason.

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lemmy.zip

Too many scars.

Edit:

2 down votes.

I have real scars, I am embarrassed greatly by how they make me look, even though I could otherwise pull off this look as I am in decent shape.

Guess body shaming is still cool to do to guys.

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lemmy.dbzer0.com

Are you ok, comments? Check your body dysphoria, if you can, that isn't healthy.

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lemmy.world

I went to a 70's themed costume party once and wore short jean shorts like that. Let's just say they only work when you wear tighty whiteys not boxers

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Bounce this (does elaborate football move, succeeding on the third attempt) ha (visibly out of breath)

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lemmy.world

Someone's never been to a rugby game...

It's like prime Larry Byrd era NBA short shorts.

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ikiddreply
lemmy.world

Jesus, get your head examined. Being a straight male doesn't make someone the enemy.

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True, but postulating heteros can't wear midriffs is a super weird take. It does come off as homophobic whether or not that was the intention.

edit: Now that I've thought about it, every male character I've seen in a movie dressed like this was portrayed as heterosexual. So croptops are actually a hetero fashion trend. You should embrace it!

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This is not what they are saying in the slightest.

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I didn't say you were the enemy. I said you've internalized aspects of toxic masculinity and homophobia.

You'll find that the nature of society means every man must struggle with these things on their journey.

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Same reason women don't look like unreasonably attractive actresses?

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