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interesting "light bum" feels (dunno - whatever)

I've been on hrt a lil but longer but I was recently having a moment, i was thinking of someone I'm attracted to and never before had this thought.

I wanted them to rest their head on my lap and let me pet their hair, maybe feed them a snack.

I've never had the impulse before but it's there now.

I liked cooking for people before I started transitioning but this one was new.

autism

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It's so bright it hurts...

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It is genuinely a major pet peeve there's 2 elevators at work i push a button, nothing happens neither is moving whats happening? Who knows. But if i press both buttons the second elevator may move, why is one elevator seemingly locked out of use unless multiple demands are made? it pisses me off bad enough i will just take 6 flights of stairs if im already off center.

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5 Reminders NOT to Pre-Order Games This Year ~ We used to demand trials before buying before, what happened? ~ Stop Pre ordering Games

I pre-ordered baldurs gate 3 after playing the developers previous game divinity original sin 2 and hearing a rather large amount of praise for the content available in the early access.

It's something I wouldn't regularly do but in their short line of recent games Larian studios have left a very good impression on me and I trust them individually.

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had this convo just yesterday 🤦‍♀️

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To be clear i hate the system I'm stuck in, and had i the power to stop the genocide i would, in the meantime I'm telling you she has stated unequivocally that all the money she makes off the harry potter series will be put into her organization that is on a crusade to eliminate trans people. If you give her money by buying merch, watching her show, drawing fanart even, you are giving her attention and that can lead to others saying oh it's okay to like this thing and that gets her more power money and influence. There is no ethical consumption but this is a hard line I will not intentionally consume something that has a direct line to hurting people, saying it's impossible to do good is a fucking weak excuse to not try.

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What's Your Story

I spent a lot of my life not really liking my body and feeling ambivalent about relationships and love nothing really did anything for me.

While i was working graveyard shift at a retirement home i was helping one of my residents get to bed and she pulled me aside she brought back plastic beads for all the caregivers, she put them on me tilted her head and said wow that's beautiful.

It was like getting hit by a truck i had to leave i was so flustered it felt like my face was melting and my heart wouldn't stop racing.

It took a lot after that for me to realize the full extent and getting on meds for diabetes helped a lot with other stuff that had been missed but i still think about that simple compliment.

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had this convo just yesterday 🤦‍♀️

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You're telling me to be mad at the system I'm stuck in rather than ask people to not financially support hate speech.

If circlejerking in hufflepuff, magical creature slavery and using magic to disappear your poop is that important to you I can't help.

You are so convinced you are correct that it genuinely makes me wonder why you posted an opinion.

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had this convo just yesterday 🤦‍♀️

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So instead of telling people they shouldn't directly give money to bigots i should just be angry at capitalism in general because it enables bigots.

No.

There is a new show because people asked for it, it's gonna make her money because there will be new merch, subscription money, and renewed interest in the books from new people exposed to the show.

It isn't a magic money machine it's the market and people saying let people enjoy things are enabling others to think that this new batch of terf powered hog wash is acceptable and it will make the lives of an already marginalized group harder.