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Do women pretend to enjoy sex?

Now you got lots of important medical advice that I think you should listen to. Also, you should really try to masterbate to see what you like. Try to focus on your clitoris and what's external that gets you turned on before trying internal again. Something like 70+% of women can't come from penetration alone.

You need to become the expert on what you like. Maybe try some porn or audio erotica ([Dipsea])(https://www.dipseastories.com/). Maybe get a vibrator (not an insertion toy yet) from a good sex toy shop. (Smitten Kitten, Babeland or anything that uses the words feminist, queer friendly or women's owned). If you want to learn more about sex, consent, pleasure, kink or relationships I love Dan Savage content. He's been doing it for decades and has great advice about all of this. Don't rely on your partner to know what to do. He is an expert on himself and you are learning either. Good luck

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I've learned a lot from his column and podcast over the years. I think I started reading his column in the back of the physical copies of The Onion over a decade ago. Really changed by relationships and worldview for the better. Highly recommend for anyone and everyone

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I read the Poppy Wars series a few years ago. I thought they were good but definitely dark. They were a little meandering as well but overall worth a read.

I did them after reading R.F Kuangs Babel which is awesome. I have read all of her work except her newest which is on my list

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I am finishing up reading the Semiosis series. It's been a great engaging read. It's about humans landing on a planet with sentient plant life.

I read the first book of the Magic of the Lost The Unbroken which had been some great world building and has lots of potential. I hope the second book lives to what was laid out.

I have from the library the new book by R. F. Kuang Katabasis. I have read all of her books and loved them all. I have heard nothing about it but I'm excited.

I guess I have more books to read then I thought