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Which machine or technical sounds do you enjoy, which do you find annoying?

I wouldn't say that I enjoy it necessarily, but I heard an MRI machine recently for the first time and it makes the most bizarre collection of sometimes comically comouter-y sounds. People told me it would be loud but I didn't know what type of sounds I would be hearing lol.

I work in a place where machinery is always whirring and I don't find it particularly enjoyable. Our machines are more just sort of droning as opposed to something interesting.

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Well it is a job, but it's also a relationship. The two aren't necessarily mutually exclusive. In the OP, the one person presumably has a job where they are working outside of the home. The other person's job is to cook inside of the home.

In fact, thinking about it like a job might be even better because then you can set clearer boundaries, like "days off/vacations" from cooking.

In general, it seems like the stay at home spouse is expected to be "always on", but people get burnt out and relationships get strained that way. People need more breaks and clearly defined delineations for that.

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How easily do you make friends?

Yeah...I'm just so tired all the time lol. I met a friend online who lives like 3 hours from me. Turns out it's hard to even meet halfway a lot of the times because we are so tired.

I really just need everything to be more low effort in terms of socialization lol

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I work in a hospital. Had a very young patient die that way recently. I don't work directly with the patients, but I am very tangentially involved in the process of determining whether or not an organ is viable for transplant. The case basically had me going "what the fuck". They had their whole life ahead of them.

One of the minor hosts of Mythbusters died that way too.

The fragility of life is terrifying.

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New server policy. Lemmites who misbehave get sent to Disney land with a bus full of Disney adults.

Maybe a hot take, but I actually DO get why even adults like the theming of Disney World/land and like to visit it so much. The theming is just so intricately done that it's honestly very impressive and great to look at and just take in. When you hear about the way some of these art pieces were designed it just makes it that much more amazing imo.

But why are some of these people obsessed with the people in costumes that are clearly meant for toddlers? I don't marvel at some sweaty tween in a weird furry costume. I don't get it.

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Is it normal for a person to "feel" less as they get older?

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Ehh...I disagree with this if we are specifically talking about what the OP is referring to.

When you're a child, everything is new, making all of it exciting. For example...as a child, OP had only experienced winter a few times. As an adult, they've experienced countless winters. It becomes routine instead of new and so it fades into the background. And with adult obligations to worry about, we don't have that worry free child mind that can drift off like that. It's just part of getting older.

OP, sometimes it's worth making a conscious decision to stop and take a moment to notice and experience your surroundings. There's a thunderstorm outside? Grab a warm cup of coffee and just try to watch and listen for a moment. If possible, open a window (that won't let rain in) or sit outside under an awning and just take in all of your senses. Go out for a walk without any music and without using your phone. Try to look at the trees and birds around you and take it in. Smell the air...has the grass been recently cut? Has it rained recently? Is there mud around? Is someone nearby grilling some food? Are there leaves on the ground? Try stepping on one. Do they crunch or are they soft and wet?

As a child, everything is new. As an adult, it's routine and boring. But you can still manage to capture a small bit of this feeling back if you actively decide to stop from time to time and consciously try to take in your surroundings for a moment. Stop and try to feel all of your senses.

You can never make these feelings new again, but sometimes I find some satisfaction in watching and listening to the world around me.

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Am I alone in this feeling?

I think you have to take a real sit down with your girlfriend and try to explain this with her. I know she just wants to commiserate with someone, but if it's damaging your mental health then it might be a better idea for her to find another political outlet.

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Any time I see Dr. Oz, I immediately disregard anything as snake oil. The man is a terrible human being...preying on the desperate so he can line his pockets with more cash. He was already a very successful surgeon making boatloads of money. How much of a greedy asshole can you be to then start lying to people to get more when you're already rich?

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How many communities are you blocking?

79 so far. If we could just block instances it would be so much better. OR if we had a distinction between NSFW porn and NSFW non porn. I just don't want porn in all, but I want to be able to discover new communities. And I don't want to block all NSFW because I enjoy some content that is marked as NSFW...I just don't want porn.