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Trump's letter to Prime Minister of Norway. If Americans could read, they'd be really embarrassed right now.

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It’s unbelievable difficult when they have you at the throats financially. I don’t think you fully understand this until you in the middle of it. Being the primary provider for my daughter, I have basically two options. One is to work on a way out so she can have a better life (current plan) OR to risk that she will be an orphan by actively going against the government as everyone outside of US expects. If you have your own children, take a minute to really think if you okay with your child becoming an orphan or homeless, because that’s the reality here. Even posting this risks my employment, as freedom of speech is long gone. This is just my opinion, and does not reflect the opinion of my employer.

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New Zealand to ban greyhound racing, citing high injury rates

I hope they get all adopted properly, my ex-racer has been living the life the past 8 years.

My only worry is finding a good outlet for these dogs. They are working dogs and their mild temperament comes from racing. Have met some non racing greyhounds and they are like a ball of energy that is just waiting for release. Much harder to take care of than an ex-racer imo.

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Parents, what are the most annoying or outright frustrating thing that your kids do? Do you ever hate them for it?

I could never hate my daughter (3 y.o). Does it get frustrating that she purposely tests boundaries every second and malicious compliance is her middle name? Sure! However, the unconditional love is the best feeling in itself. Especially days like yesterday when I only saw her for 15 min, due to work, and we cuddled and read bedtime stories.

Not sure how it changes when they get older, but from personal experience growing up, think it’s always important to embrace them for who they are and guide them the best you can. What helps is a lot of personal reflection, because it’s so easy to want to mold them into a specific individual to feel in control when everything around you is falling apart or you got personal trauma that is not addressed properly. However, that’s so counterproductive. You just got to let your kid be themselves.