I always get suggested step sibling porn. But if I had to guess what's the most popular, I'd guess either creampie, or hotwife. Which isn't the same as cheating, and certainly not rape.
I don't have any statistical data or anything but in my experience of watching porn (which admittedly is way too high) there's an obscene amount of those two categories.
It's anecdotal evidence I'll admit but it's prevalent enough that I've noticed it.
I am totally with you on this. These are just normal people going about their day. Why was someone even snapping this picture? Probably to ogle the woman.
Another aspect is the way things which are pretty intense and should only be happening in negotiated, BDSM contexts are presented as normal parts of sex. Choking is extremely fucking dangerous and really shouldn’t be done by anyone who doesn’t explicitly know what they are doing, but it’s treated as almost part of vanilla sex. Painful anal sex is treated as desirable.
I’ve had a lot of casual sex with men, and many many times these men have done things like spanked or choked me without consent, and I feel like in part that happens because it’s part of the sex script they learned from watching porn.
Also, so much of it seems to be from Eastern European countries where the women might be getting trafficked. You might recall that Andrew Tate’s grift, which he has passed on to others, was essentially forcing women to cam for him while he kept the money.
Like, I think porn can be done ethically. Conceivably, we could have a world where exhibitionists who are having fun are the only ones making porn - maybe if we had UBI and no one had to do it to survive. But that’s not the world we live in.
If you dont own the company, you're getting fucked even if you're not literally getting fucked. The whole employment system abuses humanity. It's all fucking depressing. Sex trafficking sucks much worse than run of the mill getting fucked by the workforce, and it should be eliminated, but it wont be eliminated by shutting down the porn industry.
Read one of the ask Reddit threads about "secrets of the porn industry". Other than rampant abuse of the talent, addiction, etc, which the industry is rife with, there's simple facts about the mechanics of it; people who have worked in porn say that there is nothing that smells worse than a porn movie set, and the industry would shut down if you smelled it, and how often there are "accidents" with anal scenes, etc.
I watched an amateur gang bang video once just to see if I liked it better and it was even more depressing, the woman was just kneeling there looking dazed and like she was a million miles away.
The porn industry is one of the most abusive ones around, that's well known. It's a bit comparable to the cattle industry, i'd say, people are literally treated like cattle, moved around with sticks and pokes, without dignity, it's gross.
stick to non-commercialized amateur porn. it's 10000% better.
Personally, these are the reasons I try to stick with just stuff people post of themselves because they like to. That generally means i only see pics and short videos, but that's all fine to me.
Some may be advertising their only fans, so there's some minor guilt like only taking free samples, but still feels better than worrying about the industry in general.
Im certainly not saying it changed my life. Some people are also saying that the eyes start to glow. :) There must be some reasonable thinking going on as well I think.
But yeah, I noticed higher physical energy after a week or so. Its simply because the body loses energy when you jerk off, so if you dont do it, you have a lot more. I dont know, its not psychological to me, not that part. I can feel more energy, thats all.
Started having daily 30 minute fast walks to balance it out a little bit but still feel like moving much more now.
Hey if it works for you, that's great, but afaik there is no medical basis for that claim. There is evidence for exercise beeing good for mental health (I think it was at least twice a week at least 30min).
You're not wrong. People are downvoting because that's the perspective of the audience here. They're only here for a minute while they're taking a break between porn sessions. They're probably incapable of getting hard in the presence of a real woman. They're probably overweight and out of shape and have low self-esteem and poor social skills. That's what porn does to people.
Porn is kinda like alcohol. It's poison & the worst drug & most people are addicted to it so it will never be illegal or frowned upon. Oh but wait, there are some jurisdictions where those things are indeed illegal and/or strongly limited/regulated. Because they are powerful & harmful things.
So, semen retention makes a person incapable of presenting a valid argument. But idgaf.
You arrived at this conclusion after not speaking out for many menstrual cycles? Did a Real Woman cage your genitals?
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Either you people are jerking off to some weird ass shit or I have no shame
Post nut clarity doesn’t hit for you?
never in a way that feel I "disgusted" tbh
That's our internalized shame. I blame growing up baptist.
Hm yeah maybe religion was never really pushed on me as a child and my parents religion really dosen't have a concept of "sin" ig
Gotta up your game, my dude!
Dude I eat watching porn sometimes.
That's pretty sad.
I need to know if it's worth jerking it to before I go through the effort.
Fair enough, lol
Way to judge someone else's hobbies. Sheesh.
As someone that's probably done worse: wtf bro
I just like how Alura Jenson sounds when she's yelling at guys half her height.
Sausages?
Shameless
I only do it to normal asses and shit, not weird asses and shit.
The first one, probably
Have you seen a porn site home page? You'll see some pretty messed up shit right off the rip.
On top of that two of the most popular porn genres are cheating and rape.
And don't even get me started on animated porn. That's a whole different beast with horrors you can barely imagine.
I always get suggested step sibling porn. But if I had to guess what's the most popular, I'd guess either creampie, or hotwife. Which isn't the same as cheating, and certainly not rape.
What would make you think cheating and rape?
I don't have any statistical data or anything but in my experience of watching porn (which admittedly is way too high) there's an obscene amount of those two categories.
It's anecdotal evidence I'll admit but it's prevalent enough that I've noticed it.
I think it must not be a thing for everyone cause I've never related to the post clarity thing either.
Well what are YOU jerking off to?
I thought this was a mickey7 post
Is he still around or did I finally just block him? I truly don't remember. Oh yeah NVM I blocked him.
What am I even looking at? Am I having a stroke or something?
Looks like people crammed into public transport at peak time.
Not a stroke but stroke inducing.
Guy avoiding giving eye contact to the thing he got off on... A woman's armpits.
You are stroking, according to the meme
A tall woman with a bust that we are fetishizing
And a guy doing his best to be respectful whose image was also posted widely and nonconsentually to everyone.
For the awful crime of existing in public we sentence you both to internet mockery.
Seriously I fucking hate these random shots of unaware people living there lives being made into memes. Fuck that shit I just want to ride the bus
I am totally with you on this. These are just normal people going about their day. Why was someone even snapping this picture? Probably to ogle the woman.
Vinegar strokes
Gaping anus
Is something wrong with me if I don't experience this? 😂
Nope
Yes
(Joking)
Weaklings haven't overcome the shame society programmed into them.
I find porn really depressing.
Why?
Not the person you asked, but the industry is horribly unethical. Pornhub hosted and made good money on CSAM.
Another aspect is the way things which are pretty intense and should only be happening in negotiated, BDSM contexts are presented as normal parts of sex. Choking is extremely fucking dangerous and really shouldn’t be done by anyone who doesn’t explicitly know what they are doing, but it’s treated as almost part of vanilla sex. Painful anal sex is treated as desirable.
I’ve had a lot of casual sex with men, and many many times these men have done things like spanked or choked me without consent, and I feel like in part that happens because it’s part of the sex script they learned from watching porn.
Also, so much of it seems to be from Eastern European countries where the women might be getting trafficked. You might recall that Andrew Tate’s grift, which he has passed on to others, was essentially forcing women to cam for him while he kept the money.
Like, I think porn can be done ethically. Conceivably, we could have a world where exhibitionists who are having fun are the only ones making porn - maybe if we had UBI and no one had to do it to survive. But that’s not the world we live in.
If you dont own the company, you're getting fucked even if you're not literally getting fucked. The whole employment system abuses humanity. It's all fucking depressing. Sex trafficking sucks much worse than run of the mill getting fucked by the workforce, and it should be eliminated, but it wont be eliminated by shutting down the porn industry.
We are working on it!
You know we have Lemmy NSFW, right? We have No Fans specifically.
Look at my instance and account ;)
Oh! Oh holy fuck!
This is a very wholesome(?) case of "username checks out"... 😅
Not clicking that link.
Read one of the ask Reddit threads about "secrets of the porn industry". Other than rampant abuse of the talent, addiction, etc, which the industry is rife with, there's simple facts about the mechanics of it; people who have worked in porn say that there is nothing that smells worse than a porn movie set, and the industry would shut down if you smelled it, and how often there are "accidents" with anal scenes, etc.
I watched an amateur gang bang video once just to see if I liked it better and it was even more depressing, the woman was just kneeling there looking dazed and like she was a million miles away.
The porn industry is one of the most abusive ones around, that's well known. It's a bit comparable to the cattle industry, i'd say, people are literally treated like cattle, moved around with sticks and pokes, without dignity, it's gross.
stick to non-commercialized amateur porn. it's 10000% better.
Personally, these are the reasons I try to stick with just stuff people post of themselves because they like to. That generally means i only see pics and short videos, but that's all fine to me.
Some may be advertising their only fans, so there's some minor guilt like only taking free samples, but still feels better than worrying about the industry in general.
how about AI porn?
Never seen any.
That's ok, just hit up GROK. He'd be happy to generate all sorts of porn for you, including CP.
......ew
No, that's still bad because it conflicts with religious values.
Well then don't Jerk off to disgusting videos. :V
Jeez, get some standards. :V
I have watched it like a normal series
Lol story of my life
You can stop watching porn and jerking off and you will feel a lot more energy and other health benefits.
It actually works. Called semen retention if you want to find out more about it.
There's zero scientific evidence for that, to the contrary in fact, regular masturbation is important for long term prostate health.
People doing it for thousands of years in india without any problems, only benefits. Entire books written about it.
Im good. :)
There are so many books written about the Middle Earth... I guess elves are real!
The fact that their name is 1984 makes me think they missed the point of that book. LoL
No, it's just another decent person ruined by a cult.
Im still decent :)
Dont worry about me. Its hard to know who i am just from Lemmy. Some people think they do though. Thats ok.
I can see enough to conclude with 100% certainty.
You are a victim.
Ok :)
As soon as I hear this unhealthy advice, I know it's from India, and caused by religion.
The Jedi don't masturbate. They just play with their light sabers all day.
Check mate masturbating atheist.
If semen retention was actually true then you could just get a vasectomy and you'd never lose your semen again no matter how many loads you blew.
Imo the benefits are all psychological. That's why some people report it changed their life while others say nothing happened.
A vasectomy would only remove the sperm from the semen.
Im certainly not saying it changed my life. Some people are also saying that the eyes start to glow. :) There must be some reasonable thinking going on as well I think.
But yeah, I noticed higher physical energy after a week or so. Its simply because the body loses energy when you jerk off, so if you dont do it, you have a lot more. I dont know, its not psychological to me, not that part. I can feel more energy, thats all.
Started having daily 30 minute fast walks to balance it out a little bit but still feel like moving much more now.
That's psychological tho...
Hey if it works for you, that's great, but afaik there is no medical basis for that claim. There is evidence for exercise beeing good for mental health (I think it was at least twice a week at least 30min).
It's called cancer. Jerk off regularly to remove dead bodies because there is no cemetery in your scrotum.
"I do not dislike women. I merely deny them my essence."
-- General Jack D. Ripper, "Dr. Strangelove"
You're not wrong. People are downvoting because that's the perspective of the audience here. They're only here for a minute while they're taking a break between porn sessions. They're probably incapable of getting hard in the presence of a real woman. They're probably overweight and out of shape and have low self-esteem and poor social skills. That's what porn does to people.
I had poor social skills well before I started watching porn
Bro why the mean attitude
There's a lot of reason to downvote besides that, and I didn't even downvote myself.
Good, you should never down vote yourself.
WELL NOW I JUST DID IT
I downvoted it because it's pseudo-scientific nonsense
Signed, fit man who has hours of le sexy sex with 3d girls and also watches porn and ejaculates average once a day
So what now? I suppose I'm an outlier? Or just lying perhaps? Oh wait I've got one! If I didn't watch porn I'd have triple sexier sex, right?
If it's real it should be very easy to produce peer-reviewed results showing that conclusion.
Unless such evidence is presented, believing "semen retention" is anything is about as founded as believing in crystals or astrology.
Porn is kinda like alcohol. It's poison & the worst drug & most people are addicted to it so it will never be illegal or frowned upon. Oh but wait, there are some jurisdictions where those things are indeed illegal and/or strongly limited/regulated. Because they are powerful & harmful things.
That has nothing to do with the topic of whatever "semen retention" is. Also nice puritanical values you've got there, very 1640 of you 👉👉
So, semen retention makes a person incapable of presenting a valid argument. But idgaf. You arrived at this conclusion after not speaking out for many menstrual cycles? Did a Real Woman cage your genitals?
Well, at least wrong audience, for sure. Just thought i would mention it anyway.
For me its been amazing, hopefully for you too. :)