Spyke
lemmy.world

I met my wife on ICQ. I had random chat turned on and she said, "Hello." That was a long time ago

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lemmy.world

She told me she talked to a guy who just wanted to talk about WoW and his favourite Linux distro. She gave up when he didn't make a move and decided to look for a real man. Was that you?

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FauxPseudoreply
lemmy.world

My standard reply was "hailing frequencies open." Needless to say it was the opening line that let multiple women know that I was single. Surprisingly it had a 100% success rate. I was the best nerd.

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The data is conflicting. I think they had already made up their mind on that topic before messaging me. My reply just reinforced their decision. It's hard to separate causation and correlation in that case.

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____reply
infosec.pub

I met someone I thought I'd marry there in the exact same way around '99.

That feature was powerful, and now we just can't be bothered because scammers and blah blah.

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Not yet. Our son isn't quite 16 and our daughter is 18 and into girls. It may take a few years yet.

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fedia.io

I had no idea ICQ was even still operational. Good on them for making it as long as they did.

I was never an ICQ user, but it's always sad seeing such long-standing icons of the internet shut down.

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Billiamreply
lemmy.world

it’s always sad seeing such long-standing icons of the internet shut down.

A reminder of how much fun Web 1.0 was, not the walled-gardened, enshittified, corporatized, ad-riddled rage baiter it is now.

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lemmy.world

I always said way back in the early 2000s that once corporations figured out the internet, it and society in general would be very screwed. Their early attempts at trying to make things go viral and create engagement were laughably bad. Then they hired a bunch of psychologists and sociologists, bought up everything, and the rest is history.

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lemmy.zip

That's the same with one armed conflict that bothers me much. In the 90s there it was called "blood vs oil" by one charismatic man (who also correctly predicted how it'd go further, though), and, well, then "blood" won, and "oil" looked miserable - evil, dishonorable and defeated, all at the same time. But in 10 years they figured it out completely, in 20 years applied that power in every area they needed (mostly not military), in 25 had a big military victory, and now the situation really sucks from the looks of it.

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lemmy.zip

You don't understand something - you either explain what you don't understand or you remain silent. This "what" implies my comment is something weird which it isn't, you're just slow or apparently lack ability for doing philosophy.

If it's the bad English, "what" is also utterly useless.

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Num10ckreply
lemmy.world

you failed to convey context, and meaning. your response to the what is worse.

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Man, I am so sad now.

I miss the original internet. Back when it was a place for nerds and geeks, before commercial exploitation and SEO and Adpocalypse

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aestheletereply
lemmy.world

The early version of what's now Microsoft's game suite in Windows was one of the coolest things I've seen on the Internet. It was a virtual gaming village where you could go sit at tables and play chess or checkers or cards with people from around the world. It worked 100% fine on 14.4k dialup.

Microsoft bought whatever that was and completely ruined it, just like they ruin everything else they buy.

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Murdocreply
sh.itjust.works

That just reminded me of something I tried that was similar, I think it was called Visual Chat? It looked like a 2D cartoon, but each person controlled an avatar and could move around and talk to each other, go to other rooms, change expression, gesture, etc.

Microsoft bought whatever that was and completely ruined it, just like they ruin everything else they buy.

It's like the Midas touch: they make it shiny, expensive, and of little use.

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bus_factorreply
lemmy.world

You probably mean Comic Chat. It was actually just an IRC client, and I think it's still usable (but frustratingly ineffective) today. But there is a website where you can convert IRC logs to it, I think.

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db2reply
lemmy.world

Good on them for making it as long as they did.

They didn't though, it was sold to a Russian company many years ago.

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programming.dev

They probably got the sound file from the Visual C++ 4.2 CD’s samples folder. That’s where ICQ got it from.

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Seeing as it's not in the official song, I think it's from a bad rip or something.

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Right?! Like it wasn't already shutdown. The news is that it was still operational!

Edit: grammar

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lemmy.zip

It had. This thing only has branding in common. A different protocol, a different set of features (no contact directory), and while they had the old database of everything, they deemed a good idea to not preserve it, so old UINs don't exist.

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CAVOKreply
lemmy.world

That's a shame, I still remember mine. Weird how you can remember 7 random digits from 30 years ago...

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My 8 digit UIN has been used as a password for a lot of things

Meanwhile I’ve no idea what’s my partners phone number

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I have some of mine somewhere with partial message history (in MS Access databases). But I don't remember them.

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Hell I still remember my Nintendo Power membership number.

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lemmy.zip

Two wtf here.

One, icq was still online? I stopped using that one aim got popular and everyone had it.

And two, vk owns icq??

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psmgxreply
lemmy.world

Effective way for the GRU to trade info whilst overseas?

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cantripsreply
lemmy.world

ICQ may be going away but that message sound effect will continue living rent free in my brain until I’m dead.

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I've heard that exact sound used on some computers (lottery maybe?) in gas stations in the US. I'm not sure why they picked that exact sound, but it's definitely distinct and recognizable.

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Okay, can we all acknowledge that ICQ died when they nuked pretty much all of the accounts for no good reason?

While it's true it's shutting down, it was effectively dead for years. This is just the death rattle.

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lemmy.ca

Yeah I stopped around the same time. But I didn’t know they were run by VK. That’s interesting.

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They were acquired recently.

Mirabilis created ICQ. AOL bought Mirabilis in 1998. Russian investor DST (which soon became Mail.ru and later VK) bought ICQ from AOL in 2010, probably because Russians were among the few nationalities still using it. Russians were over 25% of the hits, and it was the biggest instant messenger in Russia at the time. They also own VKontakte, hence why they're directing people there.

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lemmy.world

I remember downloading almost the complete catalogue of Sega Dreamcast games through ICQ, along with plenty of rooms where “A/S/L?” was a common greeting.

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Those are protocols, so the servers/services that run than can come and go. XMPP, which was at least inspired by ICQ, will probably be around forever, similarly.

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OSCAR is a protocol too. And there were ICQ servers to run locally back then too. There also was some "ICQ for business" or similar.

I've also learned yesterday that people responsible for Escargot (MSN server) have another project, NINA, for AIM and ICQ.

So maybe these things will be reborn.

They seem to aim for implementing all of the AOL suite functionality. Maybe after they achieve that we'll see Xtraz and contact directory from ICQ working again. If that happens, I'm going to cry for a few hours. EDIT: or weeks.

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I wonder how many old accounts I have from my childhood floating around, long forgotten, created well before the days of using a password manager

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lemmy.world

I met an interesting Argentinian girl through ICQ. A co-worker ended up getting their inbox filled with large attachments from an overseas office with fast internet. We were still on dial-up. We just had pop3 access, no online front end. I stayed in the office over night to download the files so the connection wouldn't be interrupted by someone else accessing the line. To pass the time, I downloaded ICQ and started chatting with the Argentinian girl. She introduced me to this song.

Great memories.

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Here is an alternative Piped link(s):

this song

Piped is a privacy-respecting open-source alternative frontend to YouTube.

I'm open-source; check me out at GitHub.

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Icq was bought a while ago and the buyer nuked the original user database. Not long ago I found my login info saved on an old zip drive and tried it. Was hoping my old buddies might still be there, hahahah.

Nope, icq as most remember it was toast maybe a decade ago.

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knock knock knock in the middle of the nicht because i forgot to turn off my speakers, and the whole household would wake up 😂

Oh wauw! I think ICQ 98b was the best version ever! Then everyone switched to MSN, and down hill went the internet (for me anyway)

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That used to scare the crap out of me when I had the volume up and wasn't expecting a message!

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lemmy.zip

18434 Will never forget it. So many good memories there

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Damn, five figures. Nice! 912800 here.

I had the app on my phone, just to check in on my friendslist. None of them had logged on since about 2004 or so, at the latest.

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Ooh, you beat mine: 848330 (unfortunately, mine was hacked over 5 years ago, and by the time I realized, their logs didn't go back far enough for me to validate that I was the original owner)

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I actually did forget mine. I think it was in the low six digits though, 2-something IIRC.

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WOW, 5 digits! You’ve got me beat! Not doxing myself because full name and all used for work; but I was a 6 digits UIN starting with 2 here.

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lemmy.world

How do you people remember your ICQ numbers? I don't remember what I did last week half the time.

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sunbeam60reply
lemmy.one

I used mine in my mail signature for a while and I’ve kept all my emails since late 90s.

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lemmy.world

Fair. My current mail signature has a dead link in it and I can't be bothered to do anything about it.

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Orbituaryreply
lemmy.world

"I can't be bothered to update my signature" - you could fix it in half the time it takes to post here. It's just a weird... I'd say flex, but it's the opposite. It's like a sag or deflation.

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I am autistic.

Seriously, though, diagnosed autistic and I remember numbers exceptionally well.

  • ICQ number 6725571
  • Pi to 260 decimal places
  • My ex-wife's driver's license number
  • My 11-digit Blockbuster employee numbers from the two stores I used to work at
  • The nine-digit employee numbers of a few employees under me from when I worked at Six Flags in 1994
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For some reason, I never used the "save login info" feature as a teen, I didn't trust that it was safe, so I typed it every time. Hundreds, if not thousands of times over the years. So even after 15 years or so of not using it, I still remember.

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For some reason short strings of digits have always stuck really well in my memory. I still remember my high school locker combos and every phone number I've ever had.

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Orbituaryreply
lemmy.world

813-823-6615 was my childhood number until I was 10. My mom sang it to us. Never thought to remember my lock code. 0-31-10.

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I taught my kids our address and my telephone number through songs when they were little. Music makes learning abstract things like that way easier. I teach the quadratic formula wihh a song to my Algebra students every year.

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sh.itjust.works

I just recently tried to log into my old icq account. It didn’t let me unless I provided a phone number so I noped the fuck out.

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Cell phones were not really "a thing" when I had icq. No way I'll remember my number. But I definitely used it for a time...

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I just logged into mine. It asks for your phone number, but if you hit cancel it will let you in. I can't believe I remembered my number. Crazy.

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Nailbarreply
sopuli.xyz

14204799 (I think) 👋

I've forgotten my password and never linked an email to the account.

To this day I still wonder if they have the old chat history stored.

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I got into my account the other day, it had a shit password from when I was a kid and no way for me to change it. Their web portal was barely functional.

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lemmy.dbzer0.com

ICQ was still online!?!?!

I stopped using that shit like 25 years ago. Thought died in the late 90's

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It was interesting how random people came to talk to you and were really trying to get to know you. I don't think that would work in modern day internet.

I knew they were around because at times I randomly remembered my ICQ number and I tried logging in, but they won't let you if you forgot your password.

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swg-empire.de

33214481

Never forgot my number. I wonder if it's still active.

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bobalotreply
lemmy.world

37571887

Forgot my password.

Been trying to work out what it was to login for years.

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1441261, same the account had my college email which I no longer have access to for a reset :(

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Derpgonreply
programming.dev

304141822 same here, I try it from time to time in case I remember, but the mail is no longer available anyway.

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romamixreply
lemmy.ml

They removed all the accounts without a linked phone number. So even if you'd remembered your password, chances to log in are about zero.

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They removed all the accounts without a linked phone number. So even if you'd remembered your password, chances to log in are about zero.

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jimersonreply
lemmy.world

19737181.. I recall it quicker than my phone number but haven't used it in over two decades.

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14th_cylonreply
lemm.ee

And here I thought I was cool with my 8digit number starting with "1"

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lemmy.world

icq died a long time ago, with its soul, the xtras, ripped out it remained an empty husk, a zombie walking under its new master, a russion company desperatly trying to have their own whats app clone

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lemmy.world

Used that when playing UO with buddies. Damn, now I feel old.

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Fuuuuuuck... every once in awhile I'm like "I should bust out UO again!" But I can never recapture the magic that it once was for me.

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234500080, I always liked my number.

Haven't used it in over ten years, I thought it had already shut down :)

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I don't even remember my numbers.

Most of my friends used aim or msn anyways

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lemmy.world

Damn, haven't used mine in about 2 decades, definitely can't remember anything about my profile to possibly access it

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Same, I think my number would have been low because IIRC I was using ICQ with Trumpet Winsock on Windows 3.1.

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lemmy.world

This is mildly upsetting because I remember ICQ is where I first met a seer who I was referred to by someone else. This was back when I was looking for help regarding a number of strange dreams and spirit visitations I was dealing with.

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lemmy.zip

Should have been looking for a therapist (that said, I've done my deal of blabbering about occult stuff back then too)

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BassTurdreply
lemmy.world

How did that end? I need details about all of it. The dreams, the seer, the treatment, the outcome.

If you don't mind.

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Zos_Kiareply
lemmynsfw.com

Such a lazy take. Obviously you don't have any experience with the early internet occult scene. Why, then, would you give an opinion on something you know nothing about?

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BassTurdreply
lemmy.world

Early, late, or no Internet, the occult scene has always been a made up bunch of mumbo jumbo. One doesn't need experience with it to know that.

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Zos_Kiareply
lemmynsfw.com

You seem to know the subject. Who exactly are you referring to ? Are there some practices in particular that have caught your attention ? Some specific communities maybe ?

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BassTurdreply
lemmy.world

Nothing specific. Talking to ghosts, spirits, or seeing visions is a child's game. Getting someone to pay you money to talk to spirits ghosts, or see visions, is a con man's game. Both are made up, one is acceptable.

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Sounds like your view on the subject is mostly informed by Hollywood. A bit irrational if you ask me, and certainly very dogmatic.

If for some reason you decide to check out a fact-based approach on the subject i can recommend a few Youtube channels that are free, hosted by accredited scholars, and offer in-depth, well researched, long form content on the history of spiritual movements. It is so fucking interesting man. It's like the B-Sides of the history of ideas, and has a lot more impact on the Age of Science than you realize.

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