Right, like... It's certainly more people than I've had sex with, but if you're being safe, learning about yourself and what you want, not getting into any emotional issues (for either party), and yes... having fun, great!
Also, 50 partners is like one per month through 4 years in college. Not totally outrageous to be honest.
"What woman wants" yeah here's your problem. They don't all want the same thing shocker
And nobody in their right mind would want to see teenage tantrums on their partner at age of 33. I have seen a lot older guys dating women under 18 and let me tell you something. Those guys aint exactly mature or winners. Or then they are just creeps
Yup - if you see someone single over 30 and there's not a good reason for it (work, military, study, trauma, recent break up) its probably because people their age see through their shit
When pedophiles try and use logic, it’s ALWAYS going to be a bad faith comparison that illustrates themselves as the virtuous knight in shining armor to women with zero agency.
That's assuming (a lot) about the 30 year old knowing more about "what women want" compared to their 16 year old self.
When I was a kid I always assumed there would be a point in life where I'd feel like an adult. You don't, you just get ground into the mould with responsibilities & stress!
The only difference between me aged 30 & 16 is grey hairs & white knuckles. I know jack shit about "what women want", other than "don't be a dickhead".
"the life experience to know what women want long term" hey dude a 65-year old woman has the life experience to know what men want long term. Why not go date a cougar?
Or how about be a parent and model for your child how to make good, healthy decisions with their power of reason (however that looks for your family) and trust them to figure it out.
If a teenager wants to date a 33 year old, that is obviously bad parenting. At that age she should be married for at least 7 years to someone to someone with real life experience, like a great uncle. /s
"I'm such a terrible parent that I know my daughter will make terrible decisions when she gains her independence because I spent eighteen years fucking her up beyond belief."
"I'm a 33 year old (virgin?) who has no idea what it's like to be a woman, seeking a girl young enough to not realize that my 'relationship maturity' is that of a 16 year old and I'll certainly give her plenty of emotional baggage. Also, if I ever become a father I'm going to make my daughter wear a purity ring. And no college."
And that 16 year olds don't want to date them. If they were having plenty of success they wouldn't be moaning about the "competition". They seem to be asking for parents to push their kids to date older men as it's a better choice (which it isn't).
I once worked with an 18 year old woman who was married to a 33 year old man. There was so much drama brought to the workplace when that marriage crashed and burned. I think there were in a similar place maturity wise, which is what caused it to fail.
Heterosexual age gap is about 2-3 years in the US and parts of Europe. It's almost like women are allowed to choose who they want to be with, and it's not a binary choice between a man with an undeveloped brain (allegedly) and a man who needs all the power in the relationship.
You know even with that bullshit choice being posited, choice B all day.
I wouldn't shame my daughter, a college grad who apparently practiced impeccable safe sex if 50 dudes in 4 years leaves her with only emotional baggage.
If my hypothetical daughter wanted to fuck 50 dudes in 4 years, I'd be damn proud. And hope that I provided ample knowledge about the risk of sex, the tools to mitigate those risks, and the empowerment to enjoy herself free of guilt from everyone else's bullshit opinions.
I don't think it's empowering for either gender. It's sex gluttony, it's not automatically a good thing just because we've decided sex should no longer be a source of shame.
How many partners per year does it take to go from "normal" to "sex glutton"? It's is even partner specific? What about having sex with only one person, but doing it 4 times in a typical day? Is that enough sex to be "sex gluttony"?
Honestly, it sounds like a bullshit term made up to shame other people for an unspecified rate of sexual encounters that you can't personally achieve.
Interesting how women have zero agency in either scenario…almost like the commenter sees women as accessories to men 🤷♂️
If he knew the term femoid, he would have used it.
Fembot too.
Oh shit did the incels get to that one too? I really liked futurama.
“This does not fempute!“
Fembot is originally from the Six Million Dollar Man. Scared me shitless as a child.
https://bionic.fandom.com/wiki/Fembot
Not the machine gun jubblies!
But just from a logical point of view, why would a hypothetical argument give agency to anyone... Especially in would you rather tests.
This sounds like someone who may or may not be in his early thirties trying to justify dating people half his age. Creepy AF
That’s…exactly what it is.
Ah, the duality of womanhood. Should she be the victim of a pedophile or a sexual plaything for 50 dudes? Those are clearly the only two options.
And it is her father that must choose between these options.
Plus there's nothing wrong with having sex with lots of different people if that's what she wants to do
Right, like... It's certainly more people than I've had sex with, but if you're being safe, learning about yourself and what you want, not getting into any emotional issues (for either party), and yes... having fun, great!
Also, 50 partners is like one per month through 4 years in college. Not totally outrageous to be honest.
50 in a few years seems like a lot, though. Like, health hazard levels.
Everyone is different, but is defintly a health risk, both physically and mentally (not only for women, also for men).
"What woman wants" yeah here's your problem. They don't all want the same thing shocker
And nobody in their right mind would want to see teenage tantrums on their partner at age of 33. I have seen a lot older guys dating women under 18 and let me tell you something. Those guys aint exactly mature or winners. Or then they are just creeps
Some women want to be “run through” by 30-50 people
Some women don’t
It’s like they are…individuals
Ummm…you have?!?
The age of consent is 16 here in finland. So yes I have
How old are these guys you know that date 16-18year olds?
Usually around 24-26. So not that old but definently old enough that they should be way more mature than those who they are dating
Yup - if you see someone single over 30 and there's not a good reason for it (work, military, study, trauma, recent break up) its probably because people their age see through their shit
There are other reasons, like just wanting to be single or seeing through everyone else's shit.
I would argue those qualify as good reasons
That doesn't really come across when you're framing being single as a problem.
Yes, the downvotes are agreeing I could have explained better. Joy of internet conversations.
When pedophiles try and use logic, it’s ALWAYS going to be a bad faith comparison that illustrates themselves as the virtuous knight in shining armor to women with zero agency.
Right because a 33 year old being interested in teenagers is a great sign of how mature and stable they are.
You haven't seen many posts from the earlier days of Reddit, have you? I admire your innocence.
This 33 year old was the one giving those college girls emotional trauma when he was 18, wasn't he?
I love how they pretend 33 is automatically mature 🤣
I’m sure he’d say he’s a “nice guy”
He knows what dem boyz be like.
Blacks. He means "blacks".
That's assuming (a lot) about the 30 year old knowing more about "what women want" compared to their 16 year old self.
When I was a kid I always assumed there would be a point in life where I'd feel like an adult. You don't, you just get ground into the mould with responsibilities & stress!
The only difference between me aged 30 & 16 is grey hairs & white knuckles. I know jack shit about "what women want", other than "don't be a dickhead".
It is like saying someone who has been divorced three times knows what is needed for a long term relationship.
Experience does not always lead to understanding.
Gonna go out on a limb and say you know exactly what women want.
"dem boyz". huh, wonder what he might possibly mean there.
This guy really thinks he has the moral high ground here. Eew.
When grooming is life
I would rather see her make her own decisions
Also, shouldn't that 33 year old be mature enough to understand not to date 16 year olds?
Half your age +7 rule my dude.
So at 59 I can't date anyone under 37?
Well, balderdash.
That is a terrible rule. If I am 25,000 I can't even date a 12,507 year old.
"the life experience to know what women want long term" hey dude a 65-year old woman has the life experience to know what men want long term. Why not go date a cougar?
Somewhere a woman in cheetah print needs me
Or how about be a parent and model for your child how to make good, healthy decisions with their power of reason (however that looks for your family) and trust them to figure it out.
If a teenager wants to date a 33 year old, that is obviously bad parenting. At that age she should be married for at least 7 years to someone to someone with real life experience, like a great uncle. /s
If you think these are the only two options you shouldn't be having children.
"I'm such a terrible parent that I know my daughter will make terrible decisions when she gains her independence because I spent eighteen years fucking her up beyond belief."
More like,
"I'm a 33 year old (virgin?) who has no idea what it's like to be a woman, seeking a girl young enough to not realize that my 'relationship maturity' is that of a 16 year old and I'll certainly give her plenty of emotional baggage. Also, if I ever become a father I'm going to make my daughter wear a purity ring. And no college."
Why not both.
I think the best option for women is to get as far away from the creator of this post as possible.
I know nothing about this guy, but I know he didn't get laid in college .
He has your typical conservative in truck wearing Oakleys profile photo so you know that's true.
But he does creep on schoolgirls.
....this guy for sure r*ped a few people. Like, no doubt. He's out here defending statutory with his whole chest.
He goes for child rape tourism to Asian countries.
Like actually? Or a hunch?
Hunch but I've been reading the passport bros group and they're all like that to me.
Somebody who thinks those are the only 2 choices procreated? 🤔
Well now, I’m not sure that’s the conclusion we can come to. I think this is a 33 year old trying to justify his desire to date a 16 year old.
And that 16 year olds don't want to date them. If they were having plenty of success they wouldn't be moaning about the "competition". They seem to be asking for parents to push their kids to date older men as it's a better choice (which it isn't).
and to jerk off to Blacked type fetish porn
I think he doesn't have kids and is trying to justify pursuing teens.
Only 30-50 dudes in four years? You gotta pump those numbers up.
Those are rookie numbers.
Better than 30-50 feral hogs.
This is the weirdest version of the 30-50 feral hogs bit I have ever seen
I once worked with an 18 year old woman who was married to a 33 year old man. There was so much drama brought to the workplace when that marriage crashed and burned. I think there were in a similar place maturity wise, which is what caused it to fail.
Omigod crazy.
Heterosexual age gap is about 2-3 years in the US and parts of Europe. It's almost like women are allowed to choose who they want to be with, and it's not a binary choice between a man with an undeveloped brain (allegedly) and a man who needs all the power in the relationship.
Dude truly one sees these two options, huh?
Only he, oh wait I mean this "hypothetical man" can save women from being sluts.
I'd rather see her do what she thinks is best for herself.
Neither? Haha
You know even with that bullshit choice being posited, choice B all day.
I wouldn't shame my daughter, a college grad who apparently practiced impeccable safe sex if 50 dudes in 4 years leaves her with only emotional baggage.
Good for you, hypothetical daughter.
Having 50 sex. partners in 4 years really doesn't sound healthy.
Barely more than one per month. Let her sow her wild oats.
If my hypothetical daughter wanted to fuck 50 dudes in 4 years, I'd be damn proud. And hope that I provided ample knowledge about the risk of sex, the tools to mitigate those risks, and the empowerment to enjoy herself free of guilt from everyone else's bullshit opinions.
Let's see how you feel about that if and when you actually have a daughter.
Dang, looks like the chuds ran out of actual women to antagonize, and now they have to start slut shaming the hypothetical ones.
I think this accurately sums up my opinions on promiscuity.
I don't think it's empowering for either gender. It's sex gluttony, it's not automatically a good thing just because we've decided sex should no longer be a source of shame.
How many partners per year does it take to go from "normal" to "sex glutton"? It's is even partner specific? What about having sex with only one person, but doing it 4 times in a typical day? Is that enough sex to be "sex gluttony"?
Honestly, it sounds like a bullshit term made up to shame other people for an unspecified rate of sexual encounters that you can't personally achieve.
Are you suffering from sex envy?
I'm having the best sex of my life, her dad would be devastated. Besides the point. I need to work, sorry.
How did this hypothetical man gain that experience with women, I wonder
He got to level 69 on Virtual Girlfriend Simulator.
It's certainly not the most disturbing thing about the text but "a women" is also on the list.
Neither?
Tf kinda “brain buster” is this? I guess my brain does feel pretty busted though after reading that gross drivel.
C. Finish high school and do whatever she wants as an adult person.