I just got telegram and I'm trying to find channels. I like tech, music, leftism, hacking, cybersecurity, news, writing, any general community ones,

Idk, anything

I bought a safe. wtf do I need a safe for?

I don’t really care about Star Wars

What the title says. Well intentioned, often other "neurodivergent" people look at your life, your autism, and say: "you should mask harder."

For example, I accidentally said something that offended a friend. Won't go into detail, but it was me unintentionally coming off as arrogant, not something bad like a slur or hate speech.

I asked for advice (elsewhere) and the advice was universally, "you see, NT avoid this topic at all costs. Going forwards, know it is best to avoid this topic."

But isn't this just saying "mask harder and be more palatable for everyone else"?

Every piece of "autism advice" I see even in "neurodivergent friendly" communities is basically "how to be less autistic."

It is objectively a lot more male than Reddit or other social media. Reddit has many issues, but lack of women is not one of them.

I used to be strictly materialist and atheist. Now I’m pretty spiritual. Don’t necessarily follow a religion and don’t support bigotry but yeah, I’m fairly spiritual now. This is a recent development and I never thought I’d be here like 5 years ago.

Crossposted from https://lemmy.ca/post/61333568

I use windscribe VPN and I use sync.com. What other softwares do you have a Canadian alternative for?

I tried windscribe and proton vpn. Neither work with tailscale running on my Mac. I have to disable them. Does Mullvad work alongside tailscale?