Damn, this place really did replace the /r/melbourne DT thread, huh?

Had a first date with a really lovely girl this weekend.

We both had fun and she made sure to tell me so and spoke about catching up again in the future a few times.

I waited a day to ask if she wanted to hang out next weekend and she says that she’s super busy that weekend, sorry. No suggestion of when she might be free or anything.

Am I reading too much into it thinking maybe she’s not interested? I just took what she said at face value and went with it but part of me wonders if she’s just not interested but wants to be polite.

Any suggestions? I don’t want to come across as needy or anything like that.

Hello hello, feels like Friday but it's not.

On a similar note, I don’t want to know what my friends and family post either lmao.

Ha! Dodged COVID despite spending all day yesterday with someone who unknowingly had it.

Figured out the Mlem app, thanks to whoever suggested it! Still getting to understand the fediverse but happy to be here!

It is fricking beautiful outside! Bring on summer!

Thanks mate, from what you and Pilk have said better off just playing it cool and letting it flow.

I’m all for that, just wanted to make sure I wasn’t actually getting a solid no.

Yep, I’m a worrier. Guilty as charged.

I’ll post updates as they roll in.

Love you guys and thanks!

That sounds like a really great idea!

I thought it sounded like being brushed off too.

You’d think if she was interested she would suggest another time.

Bit weird because we’ve been talking a bunch both before and after but I haven’t really said much other than suggesting we play a game we both like and she kinda brushed that off too saying she was hungover.

Might just have to leave it.

Aww seagoon that's sweet of you. I do. I'd describe her as a keeper for sure.

Not sure if I count as cool but I'm glad to be here. Whoever did this thanks for making it.

Yeah been the same for me so far.

Hopefully one gets made, Reddit can eat a dick.

Great idea!

I’m so glad to see this as a meme. Feelsgoodman.

What’s a good client for iOS for this website? I used Apollo for iOS and that’s the reason I’m cutting back on Reddit.

Any suggestions would be appreciated!

G'day g'day!

Thanks for the reply mate.

I did actually sign up for Mastodon the other day, thought I’d get my preferred username sorted out before the rush for it.

I figure both Twitter and Reddit are on borrowed time but I’d be lying if I said I understood the fediverse just yet.

Will save this tab for tomorrow and get it all checked out!

Finally indeed!

OK thanks Pilk, I’ll keep that in mind as well.

I guess we just keep talking organically and if a second date happens it happens.

Alternatively I could be more direct with her say tomorrow when she’s not hungover and see what she says.

I do like the idea of being direct about it all. We’re grown ups after all.

EDIT: As fullkit and yourself have suggested I’ll just let things roll and not read into it at all for now. See where the conversation moves to next and see if she suggests anything!