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It was a different time
I love how fast and loose this plays with the definition of "salad".
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It was a different time
I love how fast and loose this plays with the definition of "salad".
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Women Should Just Be Honest
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While it might feel rough for you, it's worth remembering that a lot of women have faced very real threats of violence for their upfront honesty.
If you're only getting vague signals then maybe that's the sign that she's not fully into you.
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Women Should Just Be Honest
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I didn't intend to be dismissive and if my response sounded that way then I apologise.
I agree it's difficult to be on the receiving end of vague signals, but my perspective is if there's any annoyance or frustration it should be directed at the violent/angry men who have caused women to feel unsafe.
Helping women feel safer by tackling the violence and misogyny directed at them by men will benefit everyone.
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Headphones are a crutch
I had a music teacher who would read sheet music like this. He said he could hear it, and he prefered it to actually listening to a recording because his imagination was so much richer than what could be captured by a recording.
I thought it was amazing and really envied this ability.
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What's the grimmest job you ever had?
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Oh wow. I know we don't know each other but I want to thank you, and other people, doing this job. It's so important.
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It was a different time
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This absolutely screams "I was zooted on lithium when I came up with this" 🫤
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Do apes give birth to chimpanzees?
To be fair, the concept of mitochondrial Eve still trips me out.
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Anyone else wonder how people can function with headaches?
It sounds like you're getting a specific kind of headache, perhaps a migraine or a cluster headache, that can be debilitatingly painful. The fact that you throw up sounds a lot like it's a migraine.
I can't function with a migraine. I have to take pain medication, lie down in a dark room and hope I can sleep it off.
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Republicans Issue New Government Shutdown Threat Over Trans People (USA)
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Maybe I'm overly cynical, but I suspect this was the plan all along.
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Relevant for all neurodivergence
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Let's not forget the survivorship bias at play here. I don't want to take this somewhere morbid, but the older people you know survived to make it to be old. There were people from their generation with undiagnosed issues that did not.
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What's the grimmest job you ever had?
I worked two separate jobs doing film photo processing when I was a university student. The first was at a factory that handled a lot of police photography. I saw way more crime scene photos than I needed to.
The second time was in the photo development lab for a high street pharmacy chain. I swear, either people didn't realise their photos were developed and handled by other people, or some of them really got off on us seeing their weird shit.
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Autism Sneaks
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There are a lot of reasons, but I think this article does a good job of listing the main criticisms: https://www.themarysue.com/the-autism-speaks-controversy-explained/
But in a nutshell:
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Brazo de Mercedes by my 18-year-old son. So proud of him for attempting such a difficult dessert!
That looks amazing! He should be proud.
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Terry Pratchett. I'm grateful for the books he wrote and the impact he had on my life, but I feel we lost a champion for wit and empathy when he died.
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Very important bike
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Bike is short for Bichael
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British citizens are being arrested for exercising free speech in the United Kingdom.
I feel this is deliberately misleading. You don't get to incite violence, causing fear and people's lives to be threatened, and then cower behind "Buh.. buh... but my free speech!"
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Tennessee House GOP Blocks Proclamation Honoring Grammy Winner Allison Russell, While Letting Similar Measure for Paramore Pass
Paramore's response to this was so classy: https://deadline.com/2024/02/paramore-tennessee-house-resolution-grammy-wins-allison-russell-snub-1235829012/
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Finally got my own!
Looks like Lejek finally got their own human. Good job Lejek!
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Aww.
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You know what's really cool? Crows share this knowledge, so there are crows out there who know you've done their crow friends a solid, and they'll look out for you. Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/likeus/comments/ctaif0/some_amazing_details_about_the_little_girl_who/
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What’s your favorite interesting fact?
Gary Oldman is younger than Gary Numan.