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How would you safely and privately child-proof a PC?

Social guard rails over software.

My setup has basic protections to stop them stumbling into things they shouldn't be looking at. It's intended as a bumper, not a barrier. I know I won't be able to make it impenetrable without also making it almost unusable. Even then, that doesn't solve things, if they are around a friend's etc.

Instead, I talk through things with them, in an age appropriate manner. If you can get a continuous conversation going then you don't need to lock things down hard. It might get awkward and embarrassing for you, but it's far more effective in the long run.

This might also be of interest to you. https://media.ccc.de/v/emf2026-159-1-mum-can-i-play-roblox-navigating-online-gaming-safety

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How would you safely and privately child-proof a PC?

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It's also worth adding, if your child comes to you, having fucked up, don't berate them, they already know. E.g. sent nudes to someone who is now trying to blackmail them. It's so easy to do, under the pressure, but you must resist.

Instead thank them for coming to you, and let them know you can fix it together, they are not alone. You can discuss what they should have done, and what to do in the future once you're both thoroughly past emotional reactions to it. Till then you're in protection mode, not teaching mode.

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She's in a teaching role. The motions need to be exaggerated, to be obvious to children watching and trying to copy. It's a bit like theatre actors over exaggerate, to make things visible from the back.

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Satelitte images gif showing the exceptional drough this summer in France (and around) compared to the past two years.

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Europe's climate isn't dominated by 1 or 2 core effects. It's a balance of multiple competing ones. Climate change is affecting a lot of those, at the same time. It's hard to predict which way things will tip. E.g. if the golf stream fails, then we could get FAR colder winters.

Some of the new potential balances are more unpleasant/annoying, others are more deadly.

Unfortunately, we will see how it plays out over the next few decades. Short enough that us and our children will take the brunt of it. But long enough that a lot of leaders won't care yet, they won't live to see it.

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How good is your intuition?

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I feel your frustration. I felt the same way about parenting. The number of "you'll understand when you're a parent" responses I got was depressing. Guess what, now I have a child to apply it on, my advice works awesomely 90% of the time.

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Mama didn't raise no quitter

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Most of the cost is production and taxes. If demand falls, production resources (land etc) are diverted to more profitable crops. This makes supply fall until prices reach a new equilibrium.

Taxes then add a fixed offset to that.

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France issues warning over thousands of substandard condoms

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Sometimes it's an unpleasant balancing act. If you punish too excessively, then it causes more harm. Companies that would have cooperated, or even come forward voluntarily, will, instead, bury the info. This can slow/stop the recall process and lead to more harm.

We don't know enough details about what happened in the background to judge too harshly. They might have bent over backwards, behind the scenes to help fix the damage (or the regulators were lazy).

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As a dad I can finally watch breastfeeding without it being creepy. It's such a beautiful thing, and it warms my heart. It makes me feel more human

When my wife was breastfeeding, I was told my grandfather was quite old fashioned in his views on breastfeeding (it should be done in private. At a family gathering, my wife went off to another room, to not make him feel uncomfortable. Shortly afterwards, we realised my grandfather had noticed she was missing, and went to keep her company. He would rather feel uncomfortable himself than let my wife feel pushed out. (He was completely unaware of the previous discussions)

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No issues here

As a parent, if my kid did that, I'd likely side with the neighbour. I would put it (very loosely) in the category of "natural consequence" punishments.

It fits the crime, it discourages the crime, it forces empathy with the cat, and it does no real harm.

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I was curious and looked it up. Apparently it mostly happens between trees of the same species, with several causes.

Most are mechanical. The tips brush against each other, and damage new branches and leaves. Both trees divert growth away from the area.

Some also sense shading via red light. They focus growth away from shade. This means neither tree grows into the gap, since they are partially shading each other.

It also helps limit the spread of leaf eating parasites. Again, particularly useful in a forest of the same species.

So yes, the trees are social distancing, to avoid the spread of disease.