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Not financial advice and i do not have adhd.

Being neurodivergent is not a choice, so having to feel sorry for yourself, over something out of your control, seems like a bad idea.

I think it's fine that you try to cater to a neurotypical partner, but i feel like she could be more understanding of it.

If your partner feels hurt over how your brain literally works, maybe she is not understanding enough.

I would try to let my partner know how my brain works, if you are fine with it nice, otherwise maybe staying together is detrimental to both of us.

Wish you luck!

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Be Vegan Be Rule

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I'm not vegan or vegeterian. But I feel like that "unless you are doing both" is kinda a wrong argument to make, even almost bad faith.

Because i could say "ah so you are anti work abuse? Curious, you are using a phone made by leveraging abuse"

I think a more honest argument would be to weight the possibilities and the outcomes.

Producing meat does increase the carbon footprint, and the same can be said for flying.

The idea is, how much can beign vegan reduce this footprint, and how much removing unnecessary flights can save? So overall, how much i am saving doing one of those, instead of both?

Also, eating is an everyday activity, flying usually isn't (in the example you reported)

I have no answers, i just didn't like the argument

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196 Rule

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I think the problem was the fact that they blocked the "old" community, despite a lot of people coming forward to actually keep the "old" community alive.

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Are trams that good (genuine question)?

Well for starters a tram can move a lot more people than a bus with just 1 driver.

You have more safety in adverse weather conditions.

They usually last wayy longer than buses. (so more cost effective)

I'm not completely sure on the traffic one, like, they have their own lane, and in my country you cannot use it so could you elaborate on this one?

Of course a bus is better for flexibility, but for fixed travel routes the tram just seems a lot better for me.

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Is it just me or are 9-5 hours naturally the most stifling?

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I think people forget or don’t know how bad it is when you’re working in a non climate controlled building basically being told to work harder and harder.

By your logic we could go on and on comparing worse working condition.

I think this type of thinking is detrimental for our own condition. If we are glad that we are not in a worse condition, why would a CEO (or the state or anyone) give us better condition in general?

I think that complaining is a good thing, because it creates the opportunity for growth