ya I never wanted kids cause I am sure thst a lot of people out there who would harm my aethereal children (we read about innocent children getting blown up , kidnapped, trafficked, abused, all other horrible things all the time in the news). But also ... I dont wsnt to hurt my child's feelings ...I know Im not a perfect person (nobody is perfect to be honest) and I get in my feelings a lot . I get psralyzed with the past pains Ive experienced and I also have serious anger issies at times. And I dont wsnt my kid to suffer all because Im STILL dealing with the trauma I experienced as a child... thats why I got my vasectomy.

Being a good parent in today's world is very difficult I can agree.

the funny thing ks that there genocides happening in most places on the planet today , people simply dont expand their .ind widely enough to recognise that they are being genocided.

Deliberately being impoverished by a few billionaires and politicins is genocide. Most dont see it that way....but its the truth

2SLGBTQIA+ people ALSO get genocided today as you pointed out

I kniw that th genocides in Sudan and Palestine are faaar faster and more deeliberate then what most of us 'Poors' experience today but one cannot lie that it feels genocidal what these billionaired and politicians are doing. And most people simply allow and assent them to do this too sadly...

Also I am once again very sorry for your pain. I am saddened that we have created a world where it is seen as 'normal' that a decent person doesnt have any community of any sort.

I already know that there is gonna be a landmark set of studies or meta analyses that comes out one day that proves that genuine human conmections and genuine human touch are necessities for human life.

Also there will be another landmark set studies or meta analyses that show that some people are in situations so bad that they dont even need therapy, they just need a complete improvement of their life AND a community to help them and appreciate their hard work along their journey to improvement.

wait , I thougut that modern coffee makers 'read' the instructions on those little modern coffee packets and it uses AI to understand the instructions to make different types of coffees in different types of ways. Am I wrong?

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the end of capitalism is the end lf patriarchy. you will NEVER end one without ending the other. They have been in a disgusting lockstep since agricultural societies started springing up as they march in unison crushing quiet, peaceful, poor peoples and our communities and our collectivism and our commons.

If me having a vasectomy and choosing not to have children plays a part in the final defeat oof both patriarchy AND crapitalism? Im all for it. The patriarchs and capitalists have bludgeoned poor Black men like me for a millenium why should I give them anything in return? ...Now that I think about it the Same xan be said about women and non-binary people who choose to take ahold of theiir reproductive rights too and have no children. You dont have to produce more slaves for all these slave-drivers and their puppeteered poo-liticians out here who enshitify anything for a paycheque.

Anither thing to note is the Epstein Files and what is occurring all oover the Global South today! There have been dozens of pedophilic governmental trafficking gangs just like all thois one through out hiistory and as long patriarchy and capitalism conntinue to exist? there will be anither dozen more. Why bring children into a world where our governments are literally committing military and police violence againt the poor well meaning worker, forcibly impoverishing mostt of us , AND those very children we born will be stolen from us and used for their sick games? The sense aint making sense here.

Bring The Collapse On! We've needed it for millenias at this point!

Sorry for any pain youve been through as a woman though.

Thank you for your kind words ❤️‍🩹🫂

Good point.

I should clarify cause Im kind of an idiot and what I wrote is wrong.

What I meant to say is that I feel that a person should be informally punished by for what WE KNOW THEY DID and IF IT WAS HEINOUS and IF THE FORMAL 'JUSTICE SYSTEM' (if you can even call it that nowadays) DOESNT PUNISH THEM.

Like we all know that casey anthony did it but she never confesse and made an attemot t make reparations for what she did . So do I see a problem with her being currently informallypunisished ? No.

Same can be said about trump or Anyone else in the Epstein Files. We know most of them are guilty as sin but will the formal 'justice system' punish Any of them?... HA! only the ones who are too poor to bribe their way out of it. So these who will escape formal punishment have the thumbs up to receive any informal punishment that We The Workers see fit

Its like there is a disdain of children and non- males in general.

Like look at what I mean, when a male with a penis is born theere are far too few laws that protect the bodily integrity kf that male and he can be butchered or 'circumcised' as soon as he comes out of the womb for no other reason other thsn srbitrary religious reasons or because the quack of a 'doctor' sees circumcision as befitting for that baby. That happend to me for no reason. The same can happen to females and non-binary people upon birth to as they receive their own forms of mutilation.

And then as you said there is a dearth of research being done on how to improve the safety and satisfaction of a person who has a uterus and the babies they give biirth to too and a dearth of research on what socialistic programs and aid should be provided for them to heathily and happily raise that child alone if they choose.

“The female body is optimized for pregnancy and childbirth/pregnancy and childbirth does not damage your body in the slightest. You’re just scaremongering because you want to be irresponsible/be a slut/contribute to the extinction of the human race/be a rabid feminist lonely cat lady/” , Categorically false. In exchange for the ability to walk upright, evolution gave human female physiology only just enough capability to 3D print and deliver grossly underdeveloped offspring (mostly) alive, with little allowance for the toll it takes on the mother’s body.

Also about 30-60% of ALL conceotions will end in miscarriage. Miscarriage rate hovers at around 50% for most women who get pregnant and the odds increase the more a woman has miscarried before https://www.uclahealth.org/medical-services/obgyn/conditions-treated/recurrent-pregnancy-loss .The female human body is NOT optimized for conception.

(...This ALSO makes me wonnder about sperm cells from male humans. Like...what if there are sperm cells deliberately built by the testes so that they can make faux conceptions thst will more oft than not end in miscarriage and they were only kept in the male genome for evolutionary reasons that we havent been able to explain thoroughly. and deeply enough yet? DO we know this or not? )

And also the easiet argument against breeders who want people to have as msnyy children as possible is that all humans are entitled to their bodily autonkmy . If a man, woman, non-binary person or whoever chooses to not have any children cause they say iitll harm their bodily autonomy? Who are we to argue? Theyre a human adult. They are entitled to that body they were born with. The WHOLE of it. The entire body must be left intact as that human adult sees fit.

Thanks for this.

even during near extinctiin events the humanv population rebounded up. Our ancestors were not supposed to survife the height of our current Ice Age....they did anyways! Like just imagine how demoralizing it must have bbeen to only see ice and snow all day , barely any sun or greenery and your diet consisted oof the same cold resistant animals and plants almost all day everyday....but our ancestors were STILL popping out babies like crazy back then.

If the population is decreased by a large enough event and the planet is still intact , anyone who sees humsn extinction as a possibility is deranged or way too young to be thinkinfg about that or both lol

We ALL do bro lol

and yes I am a bro lol

Also something that embitters me about society js that we as people have such an easy time treating someone like a monster and eveb turning them into a monster....

But then when this hurt person wants to find resourfes and people to deal with their trauma , trauma that theyve recently have realized has broken them thoroughly and makes them think in awful ways, such as a community or a 'tribe' of their own to get connected to , very cheeap publicly funded mental health interventions and medications we typicaally dont have those things for that person or each of those rhings is available in varying amounts for different people.

Humans NEED community. Humans NEED physical affection. Humans NEED appreciation. Humans NEED occasional vulnerableness. Humans sometimes NEED mental health care. Humans NEED a lot of things that many of our current societies says that a person should feel guilty that they need these things. What I mean is I find it oodd that many humans are treated in inhuman ways but then mostt people in society act surprised when that bullied or impoverished or ostracized person in psrticular acts in inhuman ways. We are not allowed to create a monster then be surprised that we have created a monster....

But then my question becomes why do most adults just accept this modern sick society that creates monsters and acts surprised when these same harmed people act out in monstrous ways? Where have been the mass rebellions for change that most adults should be partaking in if they want to see permanent positive changes?

"It is no measure of 'health' to be seen as 'healthy' in societies that are so profoundly sick" -Kishnamurti

Im very sorry for your pain. If itll help I dont think youre as sick as those who treated you in disgusting ways thought. I dont think youre a monster all because you desire what humans need which is community.

Damn Im very sorry. Youve been through way too much 🫂

forget only the bodycams have you seen the true crime stories that come out on some of these old idiots after they get arrested and charged?

Theres that one guy who drove his car through all those people during that parade before he got arrested . Apparently he had impregnated a 12 year old before that... Ah! darrell brooks was his name. He really thinks that his scizophrenia diagnosis will allow him to act like an incorrectly raised 12 year old forever and be forgiven EVERY time.... 😐

I remember seeing another bodycam of a man who was in his 40s who when he was getting arrested for taking inappropriate pictures of young girls at a Krampus event he said 'My mom's a lawyer! Im calling my mom' to the officers... 😐

....Like....dude....hello?! GROW UP!

This: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/War#/media/File:War_deaths_caused_by_warfare.svg

Thank you for saying this.

I think that theres another aspect to this flawed outlook on life that I want to point out . Like if someone feels cheated by others who got something they didnt get and they feel bitter about this and then they make efforts to harm and exclude those who got that thing, doesnt that make them get trapped in sort of a cycle where they continually isolate others who got that thing , even the people of that group who could genuinely help them?

Like if you get bullied by a bunch of White people simply cause youre not White and you decide to just completely ostracise all White people? THAT is a bad plan. Youre ostracizing an entire group of people , there are many different types of people in each groups of peoples. There are clearly many White people who knows that all non-White people are their equals and treat them as such. If you feel bitter towards all White people you will miss out on important life lessoms that some of them can teach you and even some important life lessons you can teach them. If you feel saddened cause your mom or dad or both said that they will never raise you or see you again when you were younger , being bitter towards people who had been raised by both parents is bad cause some of them have important life lessons about being raised by both parents that you may never have had heard otherwise.

You can even apply this lesson in other ways. Like all because some Muslims are hardcore Saudi-prince-loving wahhabists that doesnt mean you should ostracize them all. All because some French people support the current colonization of Kanaky that doesnt mean all French people do so ostracizjng all french people is nonsensical. You could apply this to any group. A few bad apples doesnt ruin the fresh bunch.

I used to have A LOOOT of internalized racism. I saw Black people as not worthy of listening to even though I myself am Black. I basically saw only White people as worthy of listening to about ANY topic. You should have seen my jaw hit the floor when I realized that there were Black people out there with doctorates who were equally as qualified and knowledgable of certain subjects as any equally qualified White person. I was even more shocked when I started watching videos of Nlack people who went through similar experiences as me and were talking in depth about it!

well youre not wrong . I am DEFINITELY not a paragon of empathy . And yes I do have my biases, but almost all humans have some biases right?

But as for my 'abuse of others' ?... Wot? I swear Id never. I never want to hurt innocent people and further 'enshittify' the world that is already shitty.