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What's your sexual hot take?

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Technically I don't think it's against the rules of FediNSFW to self-promote, only to do so in comms that prohibit it. Most comms here are intended for non-commercial things (such as this one), and most people are here for that kind of content. However, it would probably be fine to make a community dedicated to commercial (paid) content, so long as it doesn't get spammy.

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A woman is a woman, period. But what does that mean for sexuality? (Good faith)

Honestly? To a certain extent it makes gendered words fairly useless as broadly descriptive words. Instead it lands on the level of names. The meaning remaining is a word someone chose for themselves. This, in turn, also makes the gender-based words for sexuality broadly useless.

Looking at myself for instance - I could quite possibly be sexually attracted to someone who had fully female sexual characteristics while identifying as a man, whilst I've never found myself attracted to a person with fully male or even someone with a rather small subset of visible male sexual characteristics identifying as a woman.

What does that mean for my sexual orientation? I don't know. I usually describe it as hetero/straight, simply because that is what most often fits and I have more important problems to think about, so good enough.