Spyke

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Maybe, but I think you got to lower your expectations, and need to accept you got no control over the situation. Many people who do porn, got a issue in past, kicked out young age, druggie mom and dad, just terrible stuff, so you are going to come into contact with that, and so you are inviting that chaos.

Additionally if she gets in a drug using streak, you could end up with a lot of people in your personal space at 4am, after a partly, who you really do not want to associate with, and the guys are there all secretly planning on banging her and she did not tell them about you.

I tried being a roommate at 46 with this 23 yo, well known but more like adult shoot type of stuff, and I hit it a few times, but man that got crazy, and the others there she invited in did not know we were doing it now and then, and one night they threatened to throw me off the balcony, when I called them out on them snorting coke on the counter, and then morning her little 2 year old boy, edging himself along the counter learning how to walk, and I am like, dudes, did you even clean the fcking counter?

Anyway, would I maybe, but you are not just dating her, you are dating her messed up toxic family from her childhood, cock of the walk guys who end up there last at night planning to fuck her getting mixed messages, and that kind of Chaos is going to find you.

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Yeah, the having sex with others doesn't bother me, although I've heard sex workers have sex less as they tend to associate it with work. Would probably work best as some sort of open relationship

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Probably, but it's hard to say until you're in that situation. It also depends on the kind of porn.

Solo masturbation? Feet stuff? Lesbians? Easily. Straight up sex? Maybe. Hardcore gangbangs? DP? Eh, I dunno.

Not sure I'd want to watch the love of my life get dicked down by someone else, especially if they seemed to enjoy it more. There's also the STD thing.

It's pretty situational.

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I would :3

I mean, neither me nor my fiance do porn professionally, but both of us have definitely uploaded that type of material to the internet before :3

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Without a doubt yes.

For the same reason i could have a serious relationship with an asexual person. To me sex is only in the "nice to have cathegory". A nice relationship means our souls are touching and that is so much more important. I can see that this is very different for other people.

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Probably not any relationship at all since monogamy is a prerequisite for me. I think the furthest I could stretch is someone who does solo content (whether video or audio).

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I feel like I wouldn't know for sure until I'm actually in the situation.

Of course I assume you mean "with other people" - if it's just the two of us making porn then that's a fantasy come true. Especially if that's enough to be our only job.

I guess I'd be willing to give it a try, but I think realistically that would be a strain on the relationship for me to think about being compared to other guys.

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Depends on what type of porn. If it's an OF type thing that I can be involved in, sure. I even bought a DSLR with the foolish idea that my spouse with BDD would one day be willing to let me film us.

My biggest concerns with a professional actor would be A) STDs, and B) the damage that's being done to their body from the hard pounding over several hours it requires to shoot a scene. A lesser concern is they probably wouldn't be up to having real sex with me for a day or two after shooting, but that ties into B

I wouldn't have a jealousy issue, though.

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Body dysmorphic disorder. Basically she thinks she's gross, fat, and ugly despite it not being true.

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