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Well, it was nice while it lasted?
Nooooo! This is horrible news. Who will produce the weird stuff now?
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Well, it was nice while it lasted?
Nooooo! This is horrible news. Who will produce the weird stuff now?
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Message from the Godot Foundation Board
Very funny, the people who were saying "good luck losing your customers!" Uh, it's FOSS lmao. What customers?
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Disney is gouging customers with a near doubling of subscription costs.
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I think they are just showing another example of steaming services being shitty, and using it to advocate for piracy
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Rule 3
That's a great rule. You are spot on that media like that is everywhere, so it's nice to have this space focused on positivity and support. Doom scrolling is just not good for anybody. Thanks for your excellent moderation!
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Guinan's people are as strange as they are powerful.
This is an incredible post
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How did your career change during/after transitioning?
I am super lucky. I work at a video production company, and I love my job. I pretty much just started transitioning and didn't tell anybody, just grew my hair out, started dressing more fem, and gradually had softer features from E. Then one day during a Monday morning meeting, my boss had me close the door, which was unusual. He and I went through all the stuff that we needed to get done during the week, nothin' crazy, and then once we had a good plan together, he goes "Ok, cool. Sounds good... ARE YOU TRANSITIONING?"
It hit me like a train haha. I stammered for a bit, and then told him that yes, I was. I told him what name I was going by with my friends, and he changed my company logins and emails and everything to match my new name the very same day.
I know in a lot of work environments, that kind of personal question would be out of line, but at the time, the company was me, my boss, and one co-worker, and I consider my boss to be a friend of mine. We get along famously.
He's been super supportive the whole time, and I feel really fortunate to be in the position I am.
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In summer 2020 the neighbour hand raised an abandoned starling fledgling who then decided the entire street was his best friend, and demanded we take him for a car ride every day. Vito.
Funny that we wish we could fly, and all he wanted to do was ride in a car. Truly the grass is greener on the other side
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Figured I'd post my monstrosity.
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I had ownership of the frame transferred to me, and paid the fee to get plates and tabs, so it is registered, but I did not change the fuel type on the registration to electric, nor have it inspected. In full honesty, I was just hoping that if I ever got pulled over, the officer would be distracted by the novelty of the bike and not scrutinize the papers too hard haha. Probably unwise, but it is what it is
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this is me posting to my favorite community
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Finally get to use this one lol
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What differences have you noticed in the way that people treat you after presenting as your gender?
Because I am largely not passing at the moment, but am obviously transfem, the gap between the way some people treat me seems to have broadened. When I meet a stranger, they will either be extra nice to me, or immediately rude and standoffish. There is much less of an in between lol
With my friends, I have noticed some extra kindness, but I figure that is because they recognize that I am in a vulnerable time of my life and they want to help me along the journey. I have received* a good few makeup and clothing gifts, been p neat in that regard
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How's your week been?
My week has been great! A girl I've recently started seeing asked me to be her girlfriend, which made me wildly happy. I've never been somebody's girlfriend before ☺️ We tripped on mushrooms and cuddled the night away, and things have been going really well so far since then!
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Pie Chart of Gender Identity for c/Trans
Funny that there were four cis men and exactly zero cis women. Our community is out of balance!
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My friend's mom made me a "Welcome to the Gender" care package!
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LMAO, the perfect soundtrack. Montage of e injections and limitless attempts at winged eyeliner!
Thank you!
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Blåhaj Lemmy hacked
Yeah thanks for being on top of things! That was a really quick fix by everybody. Glad to have this place back!
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Parents asked me what I'm doing to look so good
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Ah yeah, that's a good one! I do think it's best to be honest like that, even if I might be omitting some info. In my case, my mom was good with ny answer of "I started using conditioner every day and shampooing less often," which is also true haha
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I wouldn't mind two women inside of me...
Yeah
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Figured I'd post my monstrosity.
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This battery is actually on the small end of what's viable I feel, and with this heavy frame and the hilly terrain of my town, I would guess it gets around fifteen miles. Better on a hot day, worse on a cold one. I'm fortunate to live where everything is close together, and I could go to and fro without issue.
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Got gendered correctly by a stranger for the first time!
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Thank you! It is actually not too bad. I am out to all of my friends and those are the family you choose. I'm fortunate to have a pool of people who support me, so I do not mind not telling my great grandma haha. I feel like that is a truth she is just not ready for
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Hey girls! Baby trans here with some questions about body hair
If you have darker hair and lighter skin, IPL devices are fantastic for getting some permanent hair reduction relatively quickly! I use a Braun Silk Pro 5, and it stings like the snap of a rubber band, but everywhere from my neck down just grows WAY less hair than it used to now.
I used to epilate and still do for certain spots like my hands, but that pain is pretty rough. It's hard to beat the smooth results of epilating your legs though, that was fantastic.
I haven't been on HRT long enough to experience any changes in hair growth from that, sadly
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Unexpected Gender Affirmation at McDonald's
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It's been making me smile all day ☺️ Thank you!