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Lemmy invite to local subreddit going badly. Hook a brother up?

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The quality of posts and responses since the "exodus" is completely apparent to any longtime reddit users. Admittedly elitist as it is, the spelling and grammar by it self has been base level evidence of that. Not to mention the myriad of other ways its taken a nosedive.

Reddit has already been in decline for a long time, but from the few times I've checked since the protests it's much worse now, and quickly getting even worse. And as you said, most of the people left there do not care which is disappointing.

Unfortunately as optimistic as I was about lemmy, so far I'm not sold. Theres all of the same issues here if not more. We may have witnessed the birth and death of something really cool within a very short time (considering). Even if true options take a decade to build up I think it's too late. The experiment has concluded.

It makes me sad because reddit used to be a really cool place. Rules were about allowing truly contributive content to be disseminated. Up votes were for ideas that added to the conversation in a meaningful way. Downvotes were reserved not for points that were disagreed upon, but thoughts that did not add substance to the conversation. It was a much better community to be a part of back then. That environment just doesn't exist anymore on a broad level.

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YSK: While you're on Lemmy/Kbin/Fediverse, you're not "the product" but you're also not "the customer".

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I'm not a developer of any sort, but I'm super interested if a "folding at home" style option is doable. I can't front the costs for a whole server for an instance, but I'm totally willing to contribute some resources from my pc to avoid falling into the same reddit trap. If we all did it as users I think that would avoid the centralization problem as well as distribute costs effectively.

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The price of a cinema ticket in this day and age. No wonder people aren't going to the cinema anymore.

Imagine wanting some popcorn and candy to top it off... streaming from home is the way to go now and they did it to themselves.

It's a shame too, because there are some movies that just benefit from that large form factor viewing. I'd love to go see Oppenheimer on imax but I'll be damned if I have to spend 50 bucks to go watch it alone with some refreshments and snacks.

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Fear of text notifications

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As someone who's lost their partner recently, this is exactly right. My favorite shows used to be medical ones and I cannot even see a commercial in a medical setting without getting pulled back to that day instantly. I was diagnosed with Complex PTSD because of the experience.

Sounds like OP has PTSD also. Meds and therapy for him and her, especially couples therapy, would be what's needed. Don't know what that looks like in a 3rd world country though.

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Looking for a meal delivery service where I can focus on a heart healthy diet.

My fiance and I loved hellofresh. They send you recipe cards with each meal, and we'd save the good ones so we could store buy the ingredients and make them again.

The meals are varied, but since you pick them I'm sure you could find heart healthy options.

Cost is pricey but they all are. And once you have those cards it's a lot easier to pop into the store and get the ingredients you need if you really liked a meal.

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Any Left from center Firefighters out there? Am I the only one?

Have family that is in fire... all right or far right.

What always confuses me is that they're one of the highest paid unions in my state. And yet they constantly bitch about socialism.

Same arguments from people I know in the trades, especially electricians.

Do they not know what unions are? How they were formed? Do they not understand how they pay into a big pool so they all get benefits? Aka SOCIALISM???

Here's to being one of the good ones bud. Keep doing what you're doing and fuck the idiots. Keep your head down and retire early.

Edit: I have to add that they're always buddy buddy with law enforcement, who are also massively union. Who also are all right or far right. Makes no sense in my mind.

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Hibiscus leaves yellowing and falling

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Awesome!

The other thing might be the amount of sun it's getting. My pepper plant leaves start to yellow and fall when they're getting too much sun. I recently moved them to a shadier part of the yard and the yellowing has definitely decreased.

Only other thing I can think of is Temps. My hydrangea plant is absolutely hating the super hot weather we've been having lately and dropped more than half its leaves also. Not much you can do about that outside of moving it inside if its potted.

Sorry just going through all the issues I've had that were similar.

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Temperature drop with pourover

Do a good long pour of boiling water in the v60. Make sure it's hot to the touch. This won't eliminate temp drop but at least help.

Another question: is it a glass v60 or plastic? The plastic ones work much better at keeping the temp counterintuitively.

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Hibiscus leaves yellowing and falling

When was the last time you repotted? If it's been in the same pot for years it might have gone through a lot of the good stuff in the soil already, if it hasn't been washed out through watering.

Have you looked I to fertilizers? Might help avoid fully repotting.

I'm in no way a professional at this stuff but I ran into similar issues with some pepper plants I've had for years and they definitely perked up after repotting.

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Grind size/ratio adjustments for small dose pour overs?

Hard to tell without knowing your grinder.

I have an original ode, grind on a few steps before low, and usually 16-17gs of ground beans. Brewed in a plastic v60 with paper filters, this tends to be fantastic.

There's so many variables here that it's hard to give a good diagnostic. But mentioning the grinder and the brew method might help substantially.

Also, if you already found the sweetspot for the bag youre on don't question it. The quality will change from bag to bag, for this bag if you found 15gs to be what you're looking for then stick with it til the bags gone. Don't look a gift horse in the grill as it were.