Personal experience and also I remember seeing a meme that was like "You can just go to a sub, call them cute and they are all yours" and it's pretty accurate from what I saw :3
Damn, I had to go make a move to get my Domme (ok, she had actually hit on me a few weeks prior, but I was blitzed off my gourd on subspace at the time and totally forgot)
They are not encrypted. Instance owners can read them. It's not technically any worse than Discord, but it is harder to know and trust the people that may see what you write. Keep sensitive info to platforms like Signal or Matrix.
I know, we recently added someone in our polycule, but she lives in the south of the USA while we are in Quebec, I want to hug and cuddle her so much but can't
My gf lives 40 miles (abt an hour drive) away and that already feels like too much. I stay up there for days when I visit. But we're also considering moving in together soon :3
Sure, I don't mind any of that, I just don't understand how people immediately jump into the verbal equivalent of a dick pic and somehow think they'll not get blocked :)
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God damn it, who told the people?
Personal experience and also I remember seeing a meme that was like "You can just go to a sub, call them cute and they are all yours" and it's pretty accurate from what I saw :3
Very true. Even more effective if you make them look you in the eye while you give them earnest compliments
Damn, I had to go make a move to get my Domme (ok, she had actually hit on me a few weeks prior, but I was blitzed off my gourd on subspace at the time and totally forgot)
as a sub, yes, accurate :3
need someone to fluster me then claim me and make me their pet :3
This could be arranged, lil wolf, I could domesticate you and give you lots of care~
i see that you are on a client that doesnt display display names
thethunderwolf is my old username and never had anything meaningful to do with wolves, was just random
iuminou is my actual username but lemmy has no name changes nor acc transfers
anyway with what you were saying, maybe :3
You know, minou is a word in french for kitty, so I could call you my lil minou~ :3c
I much prefer the push, pull, and unpredictable nature of switches like myself, but I love a good sub, as a treat
hey! Nicole the fediverse chick doesn't count!
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Hi Miisha, nice to see you here :3
Hiiiiiii :3
I would love a sub. Can I get a 12” veggie with no cheese, and a light vinigraitte? All dressed
Me just looking for good sandwich suggestions:
🌟 good comment. Should have been undressed though
I dunno, all the subs around here are pretty cheesy.
Meatball melt with cheddar, please. All the veggies and mayo.
meatball with... all the veggies and mayo? we would not be friends.
meatball with pepperoni, now we're talking.
I'll have the DSV Alvin please!
i like a tuna sub myself
Can I get meatball on wheat? But go easy on the cheese, I don't need to burn my tongue.
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they're called communities on here
I got three communities in my dms that I topped, happy? /j
Uwu? :3
OwO, notices you're a cutie :3
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I'll make you blush so much you'll become my precious lil tomato~
Lemmy DMs are not private, just saying
Wut
They are not encrypted. Instance owners can read them. It's not technically any worse than Discord, but it is harder to know and trust the people that may see what you write. Keep sensitive info to platforms like Signal or Matrix.
I didn't know that, but I usually ask them if they want to discuss on Discord or Matrix next, since Lemmy's dms are not that great
it explicitly tells you that when you dm someone
edit: wait youre on piefed idk if piefed warns you
I'm on piefed and on top of that I'm using Summit. I don't think it warned me but maybe it's just my smooth brain not remembering :3
So you get to be disappointed 3x as much when you tell them to drink water?
do u have any idea how sad not being able to travel to them feels afterwards 😭😭
I know, we recently added someone in our polycule, but she lives in the south of the USA while we are in Quebec, I want to hug and cuddle her so much but can't
its why i dont do long distance its so heart-stabbing yearning to not be able to teleport
Yeah I can't do long distance. Even something like 2 hrs apart feels like a huge gulf :(
My gf lives 40 miles (abt an hour drive) away and that already feels like too much. I stay up there for days when I visit. But we're also considering moving in together soon :3
My partner and I lived about 60 miles apart for over 2 years before moving in together recently. It can be done!
so real
All I get are weird out of the blue messages by people I have never interacted with :(
Now, I wouldn't mind that really, but there is a bit of a leap between "hi" and "want to suck my dick"
Damn, cutie. Shame it goes like that sometimes. I am looking for people to do some everyday chatting with, would you be down?
Sure, I don't mind any of that, I just don't understand how people immediately jump into the verbal equivalent of a dick pic and somehow think they'll not get blocked :)
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Hi kitty~ See something that interests you? :3
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Well now you're just being greedy. Save some for everyone else.
If I want to share myself with everyone, is it still greedy? :3c
The opposite. The most generous.
I'm always happy to dom (and sometimes sub) for any cutie that comes in my dms :3
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A cute fox this time? My, my~ Do you want to receive headpats? :3c
h-headp-pawts..?🥺
mmhmm~ >///<
d-don't... s-shtop please~
You like that, don't you >:3
n-nyo..!
If you want more, you could always be a good lil fox and jump in my dms~ :3c
They say just by commenting you're entering an agreement to take one with you and it's a legally binding contract haha oh noooo
Oh noooo, my fingers are typing by themselves, oops >:3
I’ve always wanted an Alpha class submarine!
mrow 🥺 this is true btw
Hi cutie :3
haiiiiii meow mmmprrmrrrp
What does this adorable kitty want? Headpats or something else? :3c
want headpaaaats 🥺
mewwwwww
I'll make you purr so loud that you'll sound like the engine of a car :3
Like these: https://youtube.com/shorts/PWUl79KcOZU
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Hello sweetie~ :3
Hiiiii 👉🏻👈🏻 😺
Oh, you're a cute kitty :3
I'd love to pet your hair and hear you purr~
Hey! You can't just do that! It cannot be that easy...
It's that easy 🫠
Of course it is! Want to find out for yourself? :3c
I am not that subby yet
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Oh? Did I get someone's head all fuzzy inside? :3c
Does this kitty want more~
Yes you did :3
Good kitty :3
If you want more, you can always jump in my dms, though I'm currently going to sleep so I will not respond right away
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