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pH3rareply
lemmy.ml

If shitty person #1 does a shitty thing to shitty person #2, doesn't make shitty person #1 less shitty

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Honytawkreply
discuss.tchncs.de

Does it need to? I just love it when shitty things happen to shitty people. Its karma.

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pH3rareply
lemmy.ml

Absolutely not and it's ok to HA-HA in his face as long as the joke stays fresh, but I wouldn't call the girl "queen": she's just a gold digger that gave a valid argument for even more misoginy from the other side

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Hazelreply
piefed.blahaj.zone

You think gold digging warrants misogyny? Yikes 🤢

She just played the capitalist patriarchy, good on her. Don't hate the player, hate the game.

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pH3rareply
lemmy.ml

I said think gold digging brings misoginy by consequence, I never said I think it justifies it.
Don't put words in my mouth just to cry for a cause there is no need to fight here.

And as a side, I always found the phrase "don't hate the player, hate the game" as dumb as the culture who coined it: who the hell is playing the game? The spectators? Of course you hate the players, they're the only reason the game is being played!

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Hazelreply
piefed.blahaj.zone

You literally called it a valid argument, don't know how else to interpret that.

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don't know how else to interpret that.

It involves assuming the point of view of a misoginist who feels entitled to be misoginistic. I know it's not a position you thought you'd end up when you woke up this morning, but trying to understand what's going on in other people's head is a first step towards fighting intolerance.

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Would you consider it misogyny if someone mentions gold diggers in a conversation about dating? Or if they talk about gold diggers in any context at all? Or if someone even acknowledges that gold diggers exist?

Because a lot of people would consider that misogyny.

But an instagram model openly being a gold digger lends credence to the argument that "some women are gold diggers."

So if you consider it misogyny to acknowledge that some women are gold diggers, then a woman being a gold digger is, by your very definitions, creating a pretext to justify misogyny.

(Funny how women can generalize about men, but when men generalize about women it's suddenly a problem; or even if they don't generalize but cite specific examples, people will still make a strawman argument about them generalizing so even that's bad).

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ladreply
programming.dev

I read their comment in a way 'that stands in the way of eradicating misogyny' not in a way 'it makes misogyny allowed'

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pH3rareply
lemmy.ml

Thank you, you reasonable person

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Ah, but you're forgetting that this is the age of the internet, when discussing potential solutions to a problem (or root causes of that problem so that real solutions can be found) is basically equivalent to providing justification for that problem.

We're just supposed to paper over everything to make it presentable to an audience, even if beneath the surface everything is still a wreck. Superficial, temporary solutions are preferable to lasting solutions that address the problems at their roots.

Something about toxic positivity, and confusing descriptivism with prescriptivism.

"Does" ≠ "Should" (strawmen hate this one little trick!)

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Yeah that's how I interpreted it too. However, even with that interpretation, it feels like they're blaming the victim for their own subjugation.

It's akin to saying that black people stealing from Walmart gets in the way of eradicating racism, without addressing the reason why they have to steal in the first place. If they had money for groceries, they wouldn't be stealing. Likewise, if that young woman had enough money to live a comfortable life, I highly doubt she would have spent two years of her life married to that crusty old man. Subjugated people do what they have to do to survive.

We all word things the wrong way sometimes, and that's okay. Everyone deserves a chance to clarify what they meant. In this case, however, it seems that pH3ra has only continued to double down on their original statement.

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xkbxreply
startrek.website

so two wrongs make a right when two wrongs make two wrongs?

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One turn deserves another.

"So two wrong makes a right" is said when the responding party has nothing to stand on and needs some tired old broken statement to back up their lack of argument. When anyone says that the proper response is always "One turn deserves another". A equally useless ambiguous statement in response.

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MehBlahreply
lemmy.world

Shit clings to one another until some other shit comes along.

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sopuli.xyz

That's rough what is that, my brain and psyche are all so fucked I started to think about fucking all of the billionaires

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Lol my buddy just married one of those. I don't know the terms of their pre-nup, or if they even did one. Wish we had a remind me bot so I could report back in 2 years!

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OwOarchistreply
pawb.social

That's not his shocked face. That's his 'I have found my people' face.

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Is is weird for a black mouse to be racist against black people? Well. Yes. Especially since there are quite a few colors of mice.

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Nah, Mickey is public domain now. He's ours.

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lemmy.vg

He also noted that “If nearly half of all Blacks are not OK with white people,” then they should be called a “hate group.” His remarks were widely seen as racist—Adams claimed that he was being hyperbolic—and many newspapers dropped Dilbert.

Wow. Scott adams was a cunt. I just searched why y'all are celebrating his death, and I found this. Just........ wow.

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I was going to suggest looking up some of the earlier comics depicting black people, but those were the Dennis the Menace comics I was thinking of.

You should look those up anyways, though. They're pretty bad.

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Wait. Scott Adams died in January and I didn't know!? Where is his grave? I have a dance routine I'd love to perform.

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sopuli.xyz

I will say, the Dilbert guy died, looo CR CR Scott Adams died, oh what a tiresome little dfuck HaruphadumphHaruphadumph

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lemmy.sdf.org

Scott Adams is dead! I didn't know. He died in January of this year. A shitty fucking person with a horrible world view is no longer putting content on the internet. Happy to learn this.

(I liked Dilbert as a kid and owned a couple of his non-Dilbert books. It's sad how he went full-rightwing-nuttter later in life.)

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lemmy.world

The non dilbert books spoke to me as an edgy teen who was smarter than most people and dumber than she thought. As an adult though I look back and think about the sheer lack of wisdom and introspection it must take to write such things as a grown adult. He died as he lived, as wise as a 16 year old and angry that everyone else didn't see the light of his brilliance that he so vividly hallucinated. And I think that is how he fell down the right wing rabbit hole, he lacked the self awareness to see through his biases and was deeply drawn to a certain type of men who are overconfident assholes.

But yeah I liked dilbert as a kid too

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lemmy.zip

i liked god's debris but yeah i think if i read it now 20 years later may be a little cringy

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And it's fair, it's ok to like cringy novels so long as they aren't Ayn Rand. /hj But yeah, I totally get how an edgy atheist novel would appeal ro people in the 00s. Adams was really good, especially early on, at making people feel like they were one of the only smart people in a world of idiots. It's just that when you embrace that feeling too hard you open yourself up to becoming a nutjob crank who believes everything they think, which is what he did.

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lemmy.today

If you hate the hater, you become one of them. Just look at him as a person who was confused.

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What? That doesn't even make sense. Being shitty makes you shitty, not thinking it's shitty to be shitty.

You're essentially sweeping all negative behavior under the rug of "confusion".
Yes, he was wrong. That doesn't mean he wasn't also shitty.

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terranoidreply
lemmy.cafe

I used to like his comics as a kid but now, having worked as a software developer for years... I'm starting to look at them different. He was always so fucking demeaning about the pointy haired bald boss, made him an absolute idiot. The constant joke was that the chad Dilbert was smarter than the idiot manager who never understood a thing about technology.

I bet Scott was an absolute fucking asshole in the office and hated having to be told what to do by people he saw as less than him.

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I had a boss in a development job once, post dot com that made the pointy haired boss look like a genius. He wasn't just uneducated, he was mean and sometimes awful.

One of his favorite games was three options. For every task he wanted three options to do it. Once you gave him three, he would pick what he deemed the worst of the three just to watch people squirm.

One day after a particularly uninspired rant, one of the devs waited till he went to lunch and threw his keys into the recycling shredder box. I never went that far myself, but I fully understood it.

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kkj
lemmy.dbzer0.com

Why is Mickey surprised? Walt Disney was incredibly racist.

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muusemuusereply
sh.itjust.works

Anyone got a link to that dumbo scene with the crows? Or the tarbaby thing?

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rumbareply
lemmy.zip

Song of the south, there was plenty.

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rumbareply
lemmy.zip

God let's hope not, I'd have said that about Winnie the Pooh Blood and Honey too.

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That was a HORRIBLE movie. I hate that some fucking guy probably has it backed up so we will never be rid of it.

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sh.itjust.works

There's also that bit that comes out of nowhere in the middle of 'Everybody wants to be a Cat'. Which is really a damn shame, because that song is honestly kind of a banger otherwise.

That movie was one of my absolute favorites as a kid and I still maintain that O'Malley is the best Disney 'prince' but that part was certainly a choice.

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imadethisreply
fedinsfw.app

Wait, what bit? I still have that song occasionally come on the 'disney playlist.' Admittedly, the only thing I can remember is a 'square with a horn,' but you'd think I would notice something racist in the middle.

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I honestly would not be surprised if the version on the soundtrack has it removed, but in the actual movie there's an Asian caracature cat (big buck teeth and all) that plays chopsticks with literal chopsticks whilst singing something to the effect of "egg fu Yung, fortune cookie always wrong"

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lemmy.ca

Dilbert would have hated Adams. PHB is basically Trump and somehow he completely missed it. What a shame.

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Rosereply
slrpnk.net

No no no. PHB is Elon Musk, 100%. (Doesn't know shit about anything and is dumber than a bag of rocks, but is still very enthusiastic about going forth and fucking things up.) Trump is like the CEO of Dilbert's company (a lot dumber than the PHB, but fortunately too stupid to function most of the time, so his direct subordinates have to do the actual day-to-day fuck-ups, leaving only the most gigantic massive fuck-ups for him to handle personally).

Edit: And of course it comes as no surprise that when Adams went into the deep end, he worked to "rehabilitate" PHB and other dumb manager characters and made them look better. He was no man of principle, you see.

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Oh, I know, I first had a bit of a whiff of him being weird when I read The Dilbert Principle. Otherwise a fairly amusing book, but the chapter on female coworkers was... uh, to put it in modern parlance, fedoraèd. This was supposed to be a funny book. Wasn't laughing.

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Adams made Dilbert pretty insufferable and (right wing) political in his later years.

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feddit.cl

I liked dilbert a lot before knowing that the author is like that.

Is a pitty how you can't enjoy nothing without the author ruining it anymore.

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Ferrotoreply
lemmy.world

Don't feel bad. I decided to play ATV Offroad Fury 2 a few months back. I was thoroughly enjoying the soundtrack and decided to google what band made "Shinobi vs Dragon Ninja" since it was my favorite song on the soundtrack.

Oh a band named the Lostprophets. Oh the lead singer Ian Watkins was murdered in prison. Wait why was he in prison? OH... oh no.

Don't google your heros kids.

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According to a quick google search, he tried to rape a baby.

Like that's something I'd joke about someone doing when sarcastically branding them evil.... But no he actually tried to rape an infant.

What the fuck?

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lemmy.dbzer0.com

Fuuuuck, I forgot how much I like that song and how I knew all that already. Damn. There's been several bands and singers over the years I've had to forget. I'm not very good at separating art and artist.

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I used to also enjoy burn-burn by them but now it makes my skin crawl every time i see a trackname of theirs

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The_Lurkerreply
lemmy.world

One of the (arguably) greatest poets of the 20th century, Ezra Pound, was an unrepentant fascist. His family tried to have him declared insane in order to preserve his reputation.

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A few modern poets were. William Butler Yeats is another I know of. His image is somewhat sanitized because he's an important national poet for Ireland, but he was a rich asshole who was supportive of the fascist movements in Ireland (Blueshirts) and abroad (Francoist Spain). Similar (but less overt) is T. S. Eliot, who also became sympathetic to fascism later in life.

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I feel that way about a lot of creatives.

The content can be good when the person is a shitcake.

Actors, musicians, artists and writers. Every medium has loads of public and secret assholes.

Ignorance is bliss when you're not paying for it.

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Tigeroovyreply
lemmy.ca

Yeah I hear ya, I was a huge Ren & Stimpy fan growing up.

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danreply
upvote.au

Oh no. Not sure I want to look up what he did.

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Not as bad as the Lost Prophets guy but it ain’t good.

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I can't find the comic, but the one where Dogbert said "No expensive funeral; just wrap him up in newspapers. He would have wanted it that way." seems especially appropriate.

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I remember back in the early 90s our sysadmin would grab Dilbert comics from (I think) USENET and print them on our HP laser printer. Adams built up so much goodwill only to shit all over it in the end.

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lemmy.world

Also wasn't walt disney like even shittier? How is mickey mouse surprised by this?

Edit fixed it:

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Holytimesreply
sh.itjust.works

No not really actually. The general idea of walt being a racist and anti Jewish is generally over blown.

Don't get me wrong he was in fact racist. But he was culturally racist. He was a man of his time. Politically and publicly he was honestly what ever.

He was far too focused on his business. And a lot of the more overt racist things that he gets accused of tends to just be from those who he worked around and because of his business would have been supporting. But it was more a byproduct of just running a successful business of the time. Not so much him going out of his way to be racist.

Like you have to really judge things by the culture of the era. What was honestly a very mild 5 out of 10 all things considered. Sure, he could have been better but be sure the f*** wasn't overly problematic. Lot of his contemporaries business partners were far worse and used their influence as well as Walt himself to exert a number of problem. Things which of course won't being more focused on his business and not really caring one way or the other just let happen so you can lay some blame in his feet.

But on the flip side you also have to consider things like song of the South. Where it's a very problematic film and clearly comes from an error of extreme racism and slavery. The focus was on Walt trying to share stories that he heard growing up and sharing the positive side of those stories. Yeah they're from slaves and you can't divorce that. So it's well-meaning just aged poorly.

Cuz by today's standards it's horribly whitewashed and incredibly racist. But back then all things considered when you put it in the context of the era and the man who LED it, it's a honest attempt to do better and share positivity out of something that was horrifically toxic.

Really every time I've ever done a deep dive into Walt's life or his history the same few things come up over and over and over again. Pretty much every major racist, anti-jewish or other problematic thing that people lay at the feet of Walt just comes down to the simple fact. He just didn't care.

He had a business to run. His partners were far worse than him and he just let them do whatever he never stood up and said this is too far because that would have been a bad business move in the era.

Malt is a fantastic example of the cruelty of indifference and capitalism. The business world does not care for morals. It does not care for people. It only cares for money and progress.

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Fedizenreply
lemmy.world

So you're saying mickey would be indifferent?

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Mickey would be more put-off by the cursing than the racism. "Hohoh call him a Chinaman, sure, but there's no need to use the F-word!"

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Oh he cared alright, about fingering anyone who tried to unionize as communists, ruining their lives and blacklisting them. He ruined people who were not even communist because they cost him money. He was absolutely a garbage human being.

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lemmy.zip

Scott Adams was an asshole and a lunatic long before Trumpism made it mainstream.

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imadethisreply
fedinsfw.app

Fighting takes too much energy. It was never a witty comic, but it would resonate with you when you were in the office job that had a nepo boss making random decisions. The life of the comic was just the same joke said in a thousand different ways though, which is why we can now look at it and mentally shrug.

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Boss: I hav a nu idea

Gilbert: No don't u realize how stoopid that

Boss: oh well I stil say do

Garfeel: oh boy Monday... NOT

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mander.xyz

I don’t actually want to fight.

But when it first came out, it fit right in with Dave Barry and Milton, etc. If you were working just to get a paycheck, you could relate. The overuse of sarcasm could be overlooked bc it only happened once a week.

It never grew or evolved with the times, mirroring Adams.

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It did add a bald CEO in later years, but that's about it.

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LH0ezVTreply
sh.itjust.works

Okay: it criticized the corporate bullshit machine, how it promotes short-term thinking, and how it turns hopeful, creative people into burned out cynics. Yes, it had flaws, it overused the "work, amiright" trope and it liked to kick downwards, for instance. But at its core it was a sarcastic criticism of capitalism and our broken society that resonated with lots of people. Even if it never spelled such things out.

Doesn't excuse the author being a racist asshole, of course.

Fight me, 1v1 on dust 2 deagle only

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uh okay i guess. since you staked out my position though, i'm gonna have to pick something ridiculous like scott adams character the pointy eared boss was inspired by an interaction that adams had with a mirror while on mescaline

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lemmy.world

Aww you’re just talking about Scott Adams.

Don’t tease me.

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anarchist.nexus

Well damn, I totally missed that Scott Adams died!

Its late but I still feel like something celebratory is deserved... Maybe a bowl of ice cream with a birthday candle? Yeah I'm gonna go with that.

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lemmy.blahaj.zone

stopped clock moment, goku is based off a character from chinese mythology. still bad to call him what john mulaney rightly described as "the laziest slur ever" though. anyway fuck dilbert and his stupid dead dad

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OwOarchistreply
pawb.social

stopped clock moment, goku is based off a character from chinese mythology.

Still, I don't think "chinaman" is quite the best way to say that.

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He also invented a vegan burrito called the Dilberito that was somewhat questionable

"As for Adams, he left the world of food behind, considering the Dilberito a failure, a lesson to be learned. Adams would later describe the nutritional value of the burrito as such: 'Three bites of the Dilberito made you fart so hard your intestines formed a tail.'"

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lemmy.ml

If Goku really hated racism he would have killed Freeza on Namek. Then again on Earth in the Broly movie

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JcbAzPxreply
lemmy.world

He was too much of a fight junkie to kill a strong opponent.

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vithigarreply
lemmy.ca

No, I believe it's just other characters whose original creators are dead offering commiseration.

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The Indian intern was depicted positively at least. Albiet shy and anxious.

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FYI, Goku is a chinaman in some sense. In that the original manga is based on "Journey to the West," which is a Chinese story.

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lemmy.ml

My idea of the image is that people like Disney or Toriyama were openly racist (and horrible) and shown it in their cartoons, the diference is they were really successfull P.s: Dont know why's Kermit there

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NahMarcasreply
lemmy.ml

And still not counting about women and homosexual characters, Toriyama was an edgy drawer in retrospective

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Popo was based on Jinns or genies. Staff Officer Black, yes that's his name, comes more from the Japanese getting a lot of Jim Crow era cartoons, but not knowing the historic baggage that comes along with it. It was mostly considered a racial caricature that didn't really carry the same sort of hate we know it for in America. He also had Native America caricatures that most people don't seem to have an issue with.

Honestly, I wouldn't be looking to Toriyama for anything other then "Big Guy punches other Big Guy until one goes down". He's politically naive, not hateful. There's a short list of other manga-ka who's politics and... crimes should give you more concern. How Nobuhiro Watsuki is a free man bogus my mind.

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I think Mr. Popo is based on a figure or yokai Japanese Folklore, but I'm not defending Black.

No really the guy on the right is named Commander Black.

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Dude was incredibly racist.

If you want to be remember well, don't be shit in life.

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Etterrareply
discuss.online

You can't just remember the good parts and ignore the bad parts. By that same logic you should leave Hitler alone because he was a good painter. Fuck that. That's not how a real life works, dead or alive.

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A lot of his comics were just based on stories his fans sent him. They weren't really his ideas anyway. If you want to dive deeper into his own mind, check out his Bob Bastard episode of his cartoon. It's incredibility incel coded.

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