Spyke

I had a coworker who used to dress like this, his go-to was a naval peacoat with a top hat.

On Halloween he came to work wearing a hoodie and jeans and it freaked everyone out.

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On Halloween he came to work wearing a hoodie and jeans and it freaked everyone out.

That's one hell of a long game. Respect.

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Knew a guy who wore a trenchcoat, black, and a kilt, standard red tartan, even when it was 110 out.

Was chilling with his younger brother one day bitching about how fucking hot it was when this badass walks up in said attire with his guitar slung over his shoulder, goes "shut up you pussies", pulls out his guitar, and does a bit of improv chords while singing the last couple of things we'd said, something like "it's hot as balls out here"

I wish I could be even a 10th as cool as that guy was, because goddamn

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Back in college, circa 2010, there was a guy that dressed like it was the early 1900s all the time.

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lemmy.world

I would want to exude this energy:

But I know I would exude this energy:

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MeatPilotreply
lemmy.world

If I looked like this, I'd have to beat the women back with a stick!

Because they are filthy peasants of course and I can't have them touching my finery. Also my wrists would be too delicate to wield a stick, so I'd have a boy for that.

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lemmy.ml

No need to use a stick - if you're The Macaroni, you're allowed to use your.........elbows

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GBU_28reply
lemm.ee

How will you beat your boy, to let him know when to beat the ladies?

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Maevereply
kbin.social

You .. You do know why powdered wigs, don't you?

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Yeah. I remember the opening chapter from Shogun. I wondered if people just got so used to the stink they didn't notice?

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MintyFreshreply
lemmy.world

YYHEYH-eeEaahe-shshshshsh!

Edit: sorry I can hear that second picture and tried to type it. Not sure it came through. Lol sry.

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lemmy.world

If you take away the top hat it doesn't even look that old fashioned lol just like a really well dressed guy

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MrJameGumbreply
lemmy.world

Yeah I like the top hat too, I'm just saying that's the only part that makes it seem "historical"

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brlemworldreply
lemmy.world

A really well dressed guy that lives in a cool climate. You wouldn't wear that shit in Texas or Florida or Missouri.

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GBU_28reply
lemm.ee

Of course not. Who wants to summer in the colonies? My word.

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lemm.ee

Perhaps it is this man’s display of the wealth required to buy these dandy clothes which procures said marriage proposals.

Meanwhile I, despite flawless erudition, am judged by my daily wear of “wife beater” apparel. I blame the casual utterance of such profanities.

If my tank top offends any woman for being wife beater toppage, I say to her “Madam, I have no wife. Would you please to hand me another beer from yonder fridge?”

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braxy29reply
lemmy.world

this whole thread hurts me. ugh

guy makes his own clothes, or at least that was the case originally.

i have big respect. let the man slay. you're welcome to your wife-beaters, and others are welcome to their finery.

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Soulgreply
sh.itjust.works

The post you're replying to is painfully obviously a joke

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braxy29reply
lemmy.world

the intended tone is clearer to me this morning. look, i'm part of a niche fashion community and other people can get very weird about it. i think i was responding with my frustration toward multiple comments + my own experiences.

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i mean making your own clothes, especially fancy olden time ones, is not something poor people in the west can do. It takes soooo much time that you need to spend working an actual job so you can earn money to buy food.

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SupraMarioreply
lemmy.world

Hard to gauge a persons wealth by their clothes in today's world.

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Seasm0kereply
lemmy.world

Just reminded me, when I was 21 my credit card had a 500 limit but I was asked to travel. Company cards were NOT a thing here, only the CFO had one so they were forced to put me up places with a corporate account. Because of this was staying in a very ritzy four star hotel near silicon valley for a whole month and I had a Sunday check in to get settled. Being young broke and largely oblivious to social norms in a way only a lower class homeschooled kid with ADHD could be I showed up for check in warring ripped khaki rock climbing pants and a stretched out Ramones tanktop with a flannel tied around my waste. The old folks behind me were talking under their breath about how " you really cant tell" and new internet money is changing all the rules. Lmfao they had no idea that I couldnt afford more than the rental car deposit

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psudreply
aussie.zone

It's 'waist' when referring to your belt or belly button line

I'm on a pretty good income, my partner and I can afford a one month overseas holiday every year or so and I dress in a mix of jeans off the internet, chosen for their lifespan, and hawaiian shirts from a mass market fashion store

I dress brightly, not at all expensively. When I dressed a lot like this as a kid in the '80s I had to change before the family went to a club for dinner in order to meet the dress code. The clubs are more relaxed now.

You really can't judge people's wealth on their dress standards, though there is class encoded in clothes

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Riskablereply
programming.dev

The fairer sex sees not but the belligerent blustering of a bedswerving bobolyne!

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We call those "vests" it sleeveless shirts in Australia, and they don't have any bad image, they just suggest the wearer exercises or is very bothered by heat, or (with the plain white ones) has taken off a button-up shirt

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lemm.ee

And perhaps you, dear fellow, exist only in your own head, which itself exists inside the room you’re in, which is furthermore in your head as well.

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Cryophiliareply
lemmy.world

This joke would work better if you knew how to use words like "profanities", "toppage", and "yonder" correctly

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kbin.social

I've met people like this. They tend to have delusions about their wierd thing. Im confident those proposals were mostly in his head or from one off jests.

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I'm a school bus driver and I've been proposed to by third-graders. I don't exactly take them seriously since I'm older than their grandparents.

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Shampissreply
sh.itjust.works

Nah I'm sure he got some joke proposals from people that are actually attracted to his eccentric dress code

I mean, he does look pretty sharp. It's just kind of silly at the same time

What's funny is that he sort of bragged about these joke proposals to the article

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kbin.run

I used to dress weird (anything from HS Thompson in Fear and Loathing to Victorian-ish numbers to goth stuff) for the hell of it and got a lot more positive attention than otherwise. I suppose it was effort and confidence more than anything else, but who knows. I never took it very seriously, so not sure what the article's subject's real story is.

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Getting more tangental but thought I would share. I went to fandom cons in my youth and middle age and some fen had like costume identities. We stopped by a guys place spontaneously because we were in the area and when he answered he was like. Give me a min and then came back in his costume and invited us in.

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lemmy.ca

I wonder where he finds the money to get these clothes that are probably tailored. Must've cost a fortune.

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Sunforgedreply
lemmy.ml

Someone shared a link to his socials, he does his own tailoring.

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lemmy.ml

That's honestly very cool. As long as he's not being an ass about it, I think it's neat that he's expressing himself on a daily basis and wearing what makes him happy.

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he’s expressing himself on a daily basis

I read that as "he's exposing himself" and I was wondering why everyone is so cool with it.

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M137reply
lemmy.world

Did you just use "fire" like that unironically..?

I really hope you're just a dumb 14-year-old, it's to depressing to imagine an adult doing it. It's the same kind of soul-crushing cringe as the youtube comments that kids spam on every video, like "wake up babe, blabla dropped a new vid".

Please, just fucking stop.

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I dunno I grew up with the term and I'm 25 maybe get with the times gramps

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I don't think the 14yos are saying "fire" anymore for a while now, that's old hat, daddy-o.

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Nice. Might also account for a few of the marriage proposals. Being able to sew is very self-sufficient.

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sh.itjust.works

I just wear shit from gap and have been married three times

get on my level noob

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The Gap gets a lot of hate in my experience but I don’t give a fuck because all their clothes are comfy and fit my frame perfectly

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lemmy.world

While very cool, I have to say I was not expecting the stripteases in all of his videos

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Wtf i know this guy he’s a friend if mines younger brother, haven’t seen him in years now but he does always look that dapper

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Moneoreply
lemmy.world

Lots of people do. Wear whatever you want.

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Anticorpreply
lemmy.world

Not like this they don't! At least not in any of the places I frequent. Sure, people will dress pretty slick for formal parties now. I guess maybe this was all formal wear for its era, and not something worn daily. Or maybe it was worn daily for the very wealthy.

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join a fashion hobbyist community. there are, in fact, many groups for people who want to dress up. some people dress up quite a lot, and this guy is an example.

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Yeah this was pretty rare fashion in its era, a small selection of the very rich wore it but most people were dressed far more blandly than the average today

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Biggest reason? Dressing this fancy is expensive. Prohibitively, in many cases, at least as an every day thing. I like to dress up from time to time, but I would need a lot more fancy clothes in order to dress up to that degree every day.

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I wouldn't really apply the word cool to a meticulously thought out, complicated outfit. Cool invokes effortlessness, this is anything but. This is impressive and grandiloquent.

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because good clothes don't fucking exist anymore, all you can buy is trash tier stuff made in an indonesian sweatshop by people who can barely afford food, which the shop then charges 200 bucks for.

it just makes no sense to buy anything other than tshirts and jeans these days, everything else is just extra profit to evil companies and isn't of higher quality.

Back in the day clothes were actually high quality and practical, if you can get your hands on some authentic second hand stuff you'll see the difference.

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lemmy.world

It says "countless offers of marriage" but not that it was women offering to marry him. So it could also be dudes. Schrödinger's sexuality I guess.

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he's in a long-time relationship with another man. my guess is his "proposals" run the gamut (and i expect a majority are made in jest).

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One dude, who keeps creating new accounts to beg him for his hand in marriage.

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It was mostly dogs, but since they can't give consent he refused

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yeah this kid wouldn't have survived a day at any of the schools I went to. glad to see people are kinder I guess.

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Just use regency era dating standards, showing ankles is basically a proposal right?

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lemmy.world

/c/grandpajoehate ?

Edit: probably doesn't exist yet or I'm doing it wrong.

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lemmy.sdf.org

Wait, what's wrong with Grandpa Joe? He was a man sick with the humiliation and hopelessness handed down to him by society. Only the joy of seeing his grandson get a chance to be somebody was enough to cure him.

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IIRC it's the fact that he was all sickly and bedridden until Charlie finds the golden ticket and he pops out of bed like nothing is wrong.

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lemmy.world

Fediverse links are !community_name@instance_url, but idk if there's a grandpajoehate here yet

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lemmy.world

Oh, innumerable offers! Manifold! Multitudinous!
One might even say - a plethora!

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niktemadurreply
lemmy.world

Wasn't it supposed to be El Guapo?

And you don't know what a plethora is?!!

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kbin.social

The boots in the right picture trip my trigger!

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sh.itjust.works

I've asked my girlfriend to wear boots like that but now I think maybe I should set an example myself...

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With boxers and a leather tool belt with power... Wait, I'm not walking into that ..

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I'm not digging the blue and red outfit but the other two are dripping.

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feddit.uk

Clothing is custom, no labels. Nothing in his pockets but knives and lint.

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Can one count forward to where they started? I could entertain the argument 0 is uncountable, it exists but it has no effect, it's only a starting place, until exponents and calculus come into play, but that's where I got off the math train

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Surprisingly recently. There are photos and film of men dresses like this at work. Perhaps after WW2, in the age of cheap mass market clothes.

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kbin.social

I say! Someone managed to outcringe fedoras! Jolly well done, that chap.

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Echreply

Just because you're insecure doesn't mean everyone is.

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Honestly, you'd be surprised. I never went this far, but as a man who used to own many colorful blazers, bowties, pocket squares, fancy pants, etc...women respond to the confidence.

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lemm.ee

People did used to look better back in the day. (Photos below)

It's also nice that every culture had their own style. Now everyone wearing jeans and a T-shirt is bad, but the awful american dad sneakers and white socks with baseball cap does it.

We need to go back. At least on special occasions or something. Don't think going the UK and everyone wearing a suit or going to Japan and everyone wearing a Kimono is better?

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CannedTunareply
sh.itjust.works

I mean, by people I think you mean people with money. People dress appropriate to their station. People then doing manual labor couldn’t afford clothes like the dude in the post and wouldn’t have wasted money on clothes that weren’t durable and easily cleaned.

T-shirt and jeans became the standard due to their cheap cost to manufacture, durability, and standardized sizes and popularity in the mining, farming, and railroad industry, and again with WWII.

Not a lot of jobs these days that allow for fancy dress and not many people can afford their own tailor. Not to mention temperatures were much cooler back then allowing all those extra layers, where as now you’d melt in some parts.

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Wandererreply
lemm.ee

Of course I don't mean the lower classes would wear a suit like that.

They would wear different clothes. But trousers, waistcoat, shirt are standard British clothing for all classes.

Here's some miners

The only people that actual seem to dress British are people that work in finance and schoolchildren. Thank God for uniforms.

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I can see why we abandoned that way of dressing in Australia. Our weather is too hot aside from inland in winter. We imported that style, but so often men would have their shirts, ties, vests, jackets off wearing only trousers, shoes, and a hat.

Though it's still the uniform in private schools, shorts for the boys and trousers for the young men

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Boneheadreply
kbin.social

No, really, he had received countless offers of marriage. Mostly from young gay men. OK, exclusively from young gay men, but it still counts.

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hperrinreply
lemmy.world

If you’re a young gay man, that’s all you would want anyway, right?

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bstixreply
feddit.dk

Ok, it was exclusively from "somewhat old" gay men and obscenely drunk cat ladies.

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SkyezOpenreply
lemmy.world

obscenely drunk cat ladies.

Hm, where can I get an outfit like that?

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You start with one cat. Then go to 7/11 for booze.

Wake up in the morning thinking you thought you let the cat out, but really you let the back alley cats in. So is life.

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So instead of wearing the uniform of the modern elitist class he's wearing the uniform of a prior eliteist class. Is not reinforcing class division, but it's still tacky as hell.

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kbin.social

This is dated 2019. Covid probably took care of THAT.

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Historic tailoring is that gentleman's business. I doubt the pandemic affected it much

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lemmy.world

If you're gonna go through all the trouble to dress weird at least pick an attire that looks cool

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I'm okay with men in corset, bra, girdle, shapewear in general., thongs (must get a Brazilian wax, for the look, ofc)and stilettos. 8 hours, consecutively, that's it (under wires optional, I'm not that cruel).

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I guess there really is no accounting for taste. I guess it's lucky he's not trying to impress you

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