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Is it weird that I’m a tattoo artist but I still get nervous before my own sessions?

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That is such a sharp observation! You might actually be right, as an artist, I definitely have a specific vision in my head, and there’s always that tiny bit of 'creative anxiety' about it not matching up. It’s a lot of trust to put in someone else’s hands, even when you know they’re talented. It’s definitely a mix of physical nerves and that perfectionist brain kicking in!

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Is it weird that I’m a tattoo artist but I still get nervous before my own sessions?

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I love that perspective. It’s funny how different our jobs are, but the root of the anxiety is identical, wanting to do right by the person in front of you. I think you're right; if I didn't care about the outcome, I probably wouldn't be nervous. It’s comforting to know that even after years of interviewing, that human element still stays with you!

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What is a 'social rule' that we all follow but nobody ever actually agreed to?

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Interesting point! I guess 'ope' is my regional bias showing lol. The escalator thing is a great example of a rule that makes life so much more efficient, yet people still ignore it. I wonder why some rules like 'facing the door' stick so well, while others like 'stand on the right' are a constant struggle. Do you think it’s because one is about comfort and the other is about efficiency?

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What's a weird 'Green Flag' for you?

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That story about the girl wanting to see the computer instead of the Nintendo is so wholesome! It’s wild to think that using a computer by choice was almost a 'red flag' back then. Now, it’s basically our whole lives. It sounds like you were ahead of your time with that setup! And you really are an OG of the computer world. I love that your dad just passed them down to you. It’s funny how a 'red flag' back then (being a computer geek) turned into a 'double bonus' now. Thanks for sharing that story, it’s a cool slice of history!

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What's a weird 'Green Flag' for you?

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Wow, what a vivid description. As an artist, I totally get what you mean about being drawn to a certain 'presence' or depth in someone. And hey, don't be so hard on yourself! Being into insights and meditation isn't a bad thing, it just means you have a world of your own. Thanks for the thoughtful addition to the post!