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A few thoughts on Beehaw's design
Plenty of oldschool message boards had strict moderation policies in place to keep things civil. One of the big ones which many subreddits are bad at enforcing(in part because of its size) is no trolling. Its a vague rule but its definitely a know it when you see it kind of thing and the trolls really do bring the whole site down.
Reddit often idealized and then abused the concept of "free speech" to the point where early on where the idea of banning subreddits like /r/jailbait and r/fatpeoplehate was controversial. The eventual banning of r/jailbait caused quite the stir back in the day. Then fascism started rising on the internet and again the cult of free speech allowed the people who's goal was to trample their own freedoms a platform to grown.
On some level I understand why freespeech was so sacred to the redditor. Reddit came it, replaced digg, got big, and then it's monolithic nature allowed them to kill off the messageboard ecosystem. On some level there was a fear of things going too far and there not being a way to replace their community. Some communities deserve the ban hammer, and some communities arent quite as appropriate for others.
I think the fact that lemmy is a federated site solves the issue that many would have had. So there's no nsfw beesgonewild subreddit for sexy pictures of bees. Thats ok because it's easy for someone to join or create an instance that caters to that kind of content. It's actually kind of toxic that the modern day internet wants every site to hold your attention and be everything.