It’s actually so bad… Also why do you still have 1 vote after my upvote? Are there salty men in here?

Assuming I’m not talking to the void, if you feel attacked by a critique of men in general then you remain a part of the problem. ALL men have to engage in self critique because ALL men (and people in general) have been socialized to think of women in harmful ways. It’s not a moral failing, but it is your responsibility to learn. Anything less is laziness.

I’m assuming you’re a man? No shade, I am too. It’s something that is hard for us to notice until you look for it (or watch a clip compilation). Women experience it every day for their whole lives, so they sense these things naturally. The sad thing is, it’s less that they have to “look for it” like us and more that every social interaction with men is marked by these gross dynamics.

In essence, this video is composed of (not-so) extreme examples of a very mundane social phenomenon.

Why do you already have a downvote? Is that a common thing on lemmy, or is it just because anti-feminism is a core personality trait for so many men?

It’s actually quite upsetting. Good luck out there girlie.

Aww, thanks! That’s really encouraging. It’s kind of an obligation considering the state of things. I’m glad it’s appreciated by others.

Oh, thank you. Can I embed videos directly into posts?

I'm new here. Congrats on the milestone, and thanks for having me!

I would hide out and read the sparknotes summaries right before class and still get good marks. I guess that's why I struggled to get back into reading for a while lmao. So maybe some of these kids will make it out?

Sickkk, thanks for showing me this.

Might these things be related? https://www.404media.co/fbi-tries-to-unmask-owner-of-infamous-archive-is-site/

Ironically, I had to bypass the paywall using archive.is

Tried to update my server this morning and messed it up somehow, tried a second time and the first attempt overwrote my only backup :,)

I’ve learned the importance of multiple backups…

Edit: Fixed it!

Someone reposted it as a comment if that helps. I also stole it from the TikTok cringe subreddit if you’d like to look for it there.

Great question! I’m still not sure exactly, lol

I also do spicy, pickled green beans!

I’d love to try graphene. Unfortunately, I bought an iPhone this year, so now I feel obligated to use it until it breaks. Thanks for being the guinea pig for me to start with a better experience when my time comes o7

Ohh, cool that makes more sense. Thanks for the info. Eventually I'm gonna get PiHole set up, but I guess that would face the same issue... yt-dlp might be the best way

That info was very valuable for me, thanks! I’ll save this comment.

It’s genuinely unacceptable that we force people to live in these ways. Having to present more masc or stop yourself from smiling at strangers. Not to mention the ways that men suffer (albeit a fraction of what women face) under the patriarchy as well. It’s in all of our best interests to change the way we think about gender. I’m sorry that you have to go through that :/

Do you use docker to host those services? I'm definitely interested in replicating that, but I'm not super familiar with anything other than docker yet.

If you want a quick fix you can always airplay from an iphone.

Has anyone notice safari letting youtube ads through on iOS recently? (I also use AdGuard DNS on my phone, so I guess that's stopped working too)