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Hab's versucht, solange es noch nicht offiziell im Ausweis steht gibt's immer nur Stress... Darum sag ich dann immer "also ooooffiziell noch männlich aber ich sag Bescheid wenn die Änderung durch ist, hab bald Termin" oder sowas ähnliches, da muss man erst Mal halt drüberstehen... Man gewöhnt sich dran.

Yay, übernächste Woche hab ich aber endlich Termin im Standesamt 😎

I will never not upvote Pedro...

Es ist so schön zu sehen dass das Thema immer mehr in die Öffentlichkeit kommt mit den Jahren, und junge Leute dadurch ihren Weg finden und nicht erst wie ich 40 Jahre warten bis sie merken was los ist ❤️

Glückwunsch Schwester! 😺

Übrigens Tipp von mir, besorg dir mal einen BH, da gibt's auch ganz flache ohne Bügel, die sind bequem, man sieht's nicht unbedingt unter den Klamotten, bringt aber sau viel fürs Gefühl der Weiblichkeit finde ich...

Especially after seeing how he treats and speaks about his sister... he's what we would call a "Goldschatz" in german... He's precious

Well I don't know what to say now... Fell to the TERF propaganda...

how does the neo vagina feel for you? Is it better now?

Komm zu uns, wir haben Kekse!

https://www.transmenschen.de/ - queere Discord Community

Bleib stark! Es gibt auch so bitterstoff-Nagellack damit man da nicht mehr reinbeißen mag...

Ich knibbel zwar nicht mehr... Aber...

Endlich geschafft die Nägel mal länger wachsen zu lassen so dass sie richtig schön feminin aussehen -> neuen Job angefangen -> am ersten Tag ALLE abgebrochen, teilweise mit freiliegendem Nagelbett 😭😭😭

Herzlichen Glückwunsch!

Und ne, 12€ hat's bei mir beim abholen noch gekostet, da bekommt man dann einen beglaubigten Auszug von dem Eintrag im Melderegister...

Manche Sachen wie zum Beispiel Perso oder Führerschein kosten halt nochmal extra, 40 bzw 50 Euro in meinem Fall, Krankenkassenkarten o.ä. kann man normal einfach neu anfordern.

Und ja die Euphorie wird nochmal besser wenn man dann tatsächlich die neuen Karten in der Hand hat oder korrekte Post bekommt, da darfst dich schon mal drauf freuen ;)

It started as a joke (removing the D from my nickname, haha) and it stuck... So I had my new nickname and from there I tried to find a full name that could be abbreviated to my nickname, but I couldn't find one and told my cousin and my sister and both of them suggested the same name spontaneously and independently and I thought "wow I loved that name when I was young and my favourite character in my favourite show has the same name" and from there my brain kept it... It's perfect.

I know exactly how you feel if that makes anything better... The closer to my imagined ideal I get, the bigger even little things seem to feel. Sometimes it's hard looking at old pictures where you knew how good and feminine you felt when the picture was taken and seeing for example even the slightest shade of beard under the makeup that you didn't even notice then... If anything that probably means you're making progress, getting used to your new self and taking it as the new normal, so it becomes the new baseline for your brain, like getting used to sunlight after stepping outside from a dark room instead of a lit one. It's all relative.

When i started HRT my doc asked If i wanted to freeze sperm incase i wanted to have children one day, maybe thats an Option?

Btw: Love your Username ❤️

Gute Auswahl für den Anfang! Bei dem lasting perfection bin ich jetzt auch wieder gelandet zur Zeit, Tip: mit nem fixing Spray drüber hälts noch besser und sieht nicht so puderig aus, gibt dann bissl Glanz was eher an Haut erinnert 👍🏼

I'm sometimes still a little dysphoric about my dick too, especially because I can't wear some of the cutest clothes I want without having the feeling of presenting it to the whole world and it always being in the way, sticking out, hurting from tucking it away, but I lost interest in getting bottom surgery after realising it's not a decision between penis and vagina, but a decision between penis and an open wound you have to dilate every single day for the rest of your life so it doesn't grow shut... So I guess I just learned to deal with it because that thought scares me so much more...

Some girls just have a penis I guess

Well it depends on the region but in general the self identity law is super awesome. I live in a small (<18000) city and the mood generally for me is very accepting, from colleagues to the ladies at the drug store, everyone seems to be cool with me as a woman and I never got any hateful comments... You have to teach some older people about pronouns or what maybe not to say but even they don't seem to mean on purpose, they just don't know better...

My psychotherapist is a trans man himself, I love him...

And yeah there are wait times for therapies or surgeries or hormone treatments but I found it manageable personally and a lot of stuff is even covered by insurance so I don't have to pay for my hrt

Generally I'd say I feel free to be myself here in this city but I guess there are parts of Germany where the opposite can be true sadly

Ah damn, I'm in southern Bavaria and had luck getting an appointment in half that time. Don't forget you also need an "Indikationsscheiben" from a psychologist for getting hormone treatment.

But anyway, hormones are not everything and there are many steps on the way that you can do yourself like learning makeup und amassing a female wardrobe and most importantly finding the courage to open yourself up to the world and just being yourself, something unfortunately you have to do yourself. Find allies, especially female ones because they always sort out clothes from time to time, almost my whole wardrobe is second hand 😄

Transitioning and looking like a younger version of a mix of my younger Sisters ❤️

Have you even bothered to inform yourself before wanting to criticise being transgender?

Do you actually know or care trans people don't choose to be trans? They may choose to transition because life can be absolutely miserable if they don't but that's it.

There is no trans agenda. And to paraphrase, even if it was a choice, some people choose to be assholes like you and society still accepts it. The only agenda we may have is making people understand and accept us being as we are.

It's truly sad how narrow your mind is.

Maybe start with Wikipedia and if you still want to criticise "transgenderism", take it up with human genetics.

Danke dir, ja auf die ganze Bürokratie, das überall ändern zu lassen mit den ganzen Karten und Konten, da freu ich mich wirklich noch gar nicht drauf 😅

Gehört halt dazu aber ich hoffe erledigt ist erledigt...

Und ja, man fragt sich warum das separate abspeichern von gebürtigem und gewählten Geschlecht nicht schon lange Standard ist... Das ist in der Tabelle doch theoretisch nur einfach ne zusätzliche Spalte, das kann doch nicht so schwer sein 🙄