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mtf

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getting more of my shit together!!!!!

I am happy and sad for you! You are taking so many wonderful steps forward to living your best life but having to cut out someone who is supposed to love and support you no matter what is heart wrenching. Always remember the idiom 'the blood of the coven is thicker than the water of the womb'. i.e. the family you choose will always be more important than the one you were born into. Focus on the good, continue to move forward with your independence, you were going to do it eventually anyway. We will always be here when you need us. Keep being you!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

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masculine urge

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Your hips aren't what's standing in your way, you are. Now go out and get you some new clothes! Do a makeover montage! Share cute selfies if your comfortable!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

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egg🥚🔥irl

Welcome to the family, we're so happy you're here! We all love and support you! I'm 36 so I know know how weird it is figuring this out late when the signs have always been there. Every little step you take is going to fill you with joy and reinforce what you know deep down. You are not alone. You got this!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

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[cw: dysphoria] Boymoding is getting harder and harder to bear

This is so wonderful, I can't believe how quickly you were able to leave the house!!! I'm sorry the dysphoria is so strong when you're required to boymode, I haven't been able to girlmode all week. It's bearable for me, visualization helps alot, I'm dying to get home, take a bath, shave my legs, and put on a skirt. You are an inspiration to us all, and I can't wait to be able to girlmode around my friends and eventually in public.

Thank you for sharing!

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Least transgender Fallout New Vegas enjoyer:

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I highly recommend giving it another shot, the opening is a bit slow and there is a lllloooooottttt of mindless running through the desert but there are fun things peppered everywhere. Never follow the main road, if you see something in the distance go there, search for the sunset sasparilla star bottle caps, DO NOT ENTER THE QUARRY UNTIL YOU ARE AT LEAST LEVEL 10!!!!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

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First full outfit

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It's definitely my favorite top at the moment. It's good to hear that they can get better with time. I definitely have a few things I'm not 100% sold on but I love them enough that I can't get rid of them till I can really feel good in them.

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aaaa appointment done!!

So happy for you! Public transit is so important and needs to be made much more accessible for all. I hope everything goes swimmingly for you on this leg of your journey! We are all here for you.

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

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Feeling conflicted (skirts)

Thank you for sharing, you have come to the right place! Skirts and dresses definitely feel more exposed than pants for sure. You are so used to that extra fabric right up against your back side. Now the air can freely flow, it almost feels like you're naked. There is definitely a learning curve to it, and if you like the way you look you'll get used to it.

I felt the same way when I donned my first skirt, but as soon as I looked in the mirror I stopped caring. Now it's all about not accidentally flashing people (just my wife for now but still). Learning to fold my skirt underneath me when sitting was step one. Learning to bend at the knees, legs together, back straight was step two. If there's a step three, I haven't learned it yet.

That being said, you don't have to wear skirts or dresses to be feminine. There are tons of options, what's right for me doesn't have to be what's right for you. My wife is a horse girl, all jeans or sweats, tee shirts, hoodies. Doesn't like jewelry, doesn't do makeup. I'm the girly one in our relationship and that's fine. Do what makes you happy, your happiness is all that matters.

Feel free to drop by anytime. We will be here, excited to hear how things are going and to answer any questions you may have!

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learning drums:)

Hell yea! Drums are sooo fun and a great place to start. I tried to start with bass but have serious problems with maintaining rhythm. The drums have really helped with understanding rhythm. Keep it up and most importantly have fun!