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The daily saga
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You mean it's not normal to reach that point and then be paralyzed by the loop? 🙃
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The daily saga
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You mean it's not normal to reach that point and then be paralyzed by the loop? 🙃
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I went out to work on a new lid for my compost - now all my screws are organized and my bike's brakes are cleaned and serviced
Just make sure you get back to it before another project disorganizes all your screws again
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Loving to Info-dump but cant tolerate others speaking
It's a skill you can learn. If you're into TTRPGs, I've found that can be a great way to practice, because the format is engaging, and the nature of the game benefits from equal contributions. I try to make characters that focus on setting up other members of the party in different ways. When we're in combat, I try to involve other characters in tactics, and in roleplay, I make an effort to involve everyone at the table. GMing is especially good for this, as you want your party to be doing most of the talking, and you want everyone to be having fun.
As I've played more, and interacted in other casual social situations, I've definitely gotten better at filling an appropriate role in a conversation. I'm the host! It's my job to make sure everyone is comfortable and engaged. Usually that means asking smart questions and getting people onto topics they naturally enjoy, usually to do with their own lives. Shared interests are a bonus (and often the roots of a friendship). And it's something that I can do anywhere, even if I'm not actually hosting the gathering, because it just comes off as being genuine
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Loving to Info-dump but cant tolerate others speaking
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I met a person like this, and married her. It's great. I never have to worry about keeping the conversation going, and can just enjoy being with her and contributing when it's natural for me
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Brain scans reveal 3 ADHD subtypes, including a more extreme form
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But someone did mention another bit of information, which I fell down a wikipedia rabbit hole on for about 2 hours! So maybe now I can read the article
Edit: I did it! I also watched two and a half YouTube videos about homesteading.
This third type describes my wife perfectly. She's had lots of other tentative diagnoses like bpd and autism, but has still been struggling to work through it all, and find an effective combination of medications. She actually takes antipsychotics, as well as a high dose of hydroxyzine as needed in emergencies
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How to "power up" faster in the morning?
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This is what my wife does as well. She has a really hard time getting up in the morning otherwise
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Elon Musk says 'we dug our own grave' with the Cybertruck as he warns Tesla faces enormous production challenges
"We"
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TikTok Ban Bill Becomes Law, Gives TikTok 9 Months To Sell
I can't believe this is the one thing this congress has actually managed to do. We just want healthcare
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Is there anything we cannot learn from the wisdom of ancient Japan?
Same energy
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Wow!
Wish I was there! Just another day working in the sewers here...
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Apples for sale
I think the implication of the last panel is supposed to be that the apple seller can't stop everyone, but if this was really an accurate satire, he'd chop down every tree, sue everyone that picked the apples, and then go back to selling his giant flavorless GMO apples for $5 a piece
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We need another Bob Ross
Bob Ross really said it was a skill issue
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Social acceptability
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One of these things is not like the others
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Montana voting system shut down after Kamala Harris left off ballot
Next, they say that all ballots that were already submitted have to be counted as-is. Then later, it's revealed that there were Kamala Harris write-ins submitted during this time, but rather than being counted, they were discarded as invalid
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Mike Lindell officially loses all his lawyers in $5M 'Prove Mike Wrong' cyber challenge
There are two kinds of Republicans—billionaires and suckers
He proves he's a sucker, because a real fascist would know never to ask to be proven wrong
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VPN by Google One is shutting down for good
Google is probably the last company I would pay for a VPN from
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This might not be too far off
Surely they're his blocks
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JD Vance Awkwardly Retreats After Bizarre Attempt to Storm Harris’ Empty Plane
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Presumably, he also has secret service protection, so they knew he was coming. Hilarious they decided not to just tell him she wasn't there
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Chance of Being Born in Each Continent in 2026
I was already born, so my chances of being born elsewhere are actually much lower, I think
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Debate wrap up: No one has ever so thoroughly dominated Donald Trump
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The one time Harris tried the same thing she was shut down by the moderators.
And she didn't even put up with that. She just waited until her next turn, went back, said her part, and then answered the new question. Trump was basically incoherent by comparison