That's awesome, reminds me of the bus drivers wearing skirts!

Almost sounds like you're talking about the Mets

Yep, it's thirty days. The longer it takes btw the more likely that the company hasn't quite operationalized these kind of requests very well.

Huh, TIL! Thank you

I know, right? For me it was the realization that what I got out of drinking was not worth the consequences. Ymmv, of course. I am rooting for you to find the right reason to stop drinking. It really isn't worth it.

Oh i apologize, I'm still getting familiar with Lemmy. Where should I post it instead?

Oh man i completely forgot to start brewing cold brew this year, summer really snuck up on me. Thanks for reminding me!

For your first session, don't expect much more than just getting to know each other a bit, talking a bit about your goals and where you're at. See if you vibe with them. It's one of those interpersonal things that you can't really objectively measure. Relax, feel them out as a person. As to self diagnosis: i think with a new therapist there's a bunch of fundamentals before you get to those more significant issues. Once you do, be honest and open. Tell them you suspect you may have something like it and why you think that way and they should take it from there. But honestly, don't expect too much from a first chat.

I used to watch it as mostly background in the naughts but a few years back i decided to go through it from start to end intentionally paying full attention and it was glorious and I was very sad when it was done

Original source in nature: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-023-06096-3

Awesome! You got this, friend. What has you drinking?

Personally i am not drinking months at a time. I've reached a point where i can drink a single beer and then go back to not drinking for a while again, although I've had some crashes over the years. But the interval i can measure in years now. Those crashes were all significant turmoil in my life i couldn't handle... It always took a lot of strength to pull myself out though.

I have stopped drinking something like nine years ago now, but except for the initial year or so i haven't been completely dry. But i drink one drink in the span of months for a while now and really most of those times just literally one. Does that count as sober?

So proud of you, that's fantastic. Thank you for sharing and good luck with tapering off those SNRI. Unless you are migrating to a new treatment, this is the pain of success!

I was going to say the same

Ha i can totally feel the pain. Its a lot to learn! I've personally gone the traefik route instead of nginx. It does a lot of the rewriting by itself just by attaching labels to docker instances, and there is excellent middlewares available for security measures, like oauth forwarding or modsecurity. You can write your own middleware too and it's quite simple to do without having to interact with the full http session. As for logging, you can configure other logging drivers for docker. If you're worried about them being too ephemeral, send them to syslog or journald. Or set up fluentd and store them in the cloud. What makes things less complicated these days i think is that we now have "small things doing few things very well" in services with all sorts of containers, you just have to glue them all together.

I'm also not convinced that Lemmy will stay ad free. If this keeps growing sooner or later instance cost will be a problem that ads can solve.

You made this community while drunk?

Crazy coloring!

Lol yeah, subscribed!

Given how many things trackers could refer to, i feel like additional context is needed