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I understand this is a difficult, complex and delicate situation.
It would be great if I could hand you a simple checklist and off you pop. But issues with people are never like that. Unfortunately it seems this is going to be a long, hard road.
If he is currently seeing thhe same doctor you mentioned, he might want to think about finding a different one.
Best I can suggest is support him in healthy ways that best suit the two of you. There are some links in the community info that might be helpful.
The garlic bread thing is from a variation of the joke "this is better than sex!". Garlic bread has since become a staple of the community.