My mental health is especially low today

do you chat with yourself in "saved messages" or flirt to a mirror, dissociated.

self talking apps

i dont say it's very efficient but if you have the liquid self and a trauma with avoidance, you try stuff.

Antar

https://antar.chat/

• realistic modern interface
• your personal private diary imbued with self-help culture baits, mass sold
• rich features
• mobile only
• all messages to the left, received

SelfCest

https://bunetj.github.io/selfcest-the-mirror-chat/

• basic.
• not perfectly modern or realistic interface
• can't sync and store properly
• not professional

any chatting app: saved messages

• may stuck without feedback. all messages are to the right, not recieved
• real interface
• tied to the internet connection. may get distracted by info flood.

edit the source code of web pages

• may stuck without feedback
• takes time, inconvenient
• real interface

ai chatbots of any type

• actually accompany or guide you
• accepting inappropriate topics
• confirms your biases. won't initiate something different unless prompted. encourages avoiding human resources.
• realistic chat interface
• won't process your hidden relational or emotional needs you can't prompt bc they're hidden and unsaid

record a podcast, make selfies

• may stuck without feedback. requires time to switch to the "other" state
• may take much time as an obsession of the false self
• unstable. may deplete and/or relieve.

address the audience and stop self-isolating or sth

• the real way.
• kind of a friction.

related reddit posts

https://www.reddit.com/r/lonely/comments/daj66h/fake_conversation_apps_to_feel_less_lonely/

https://www.reddit.com/r/androidapps/comments/5q2p5p/looking_for_an_app_to_talk_to_myself/

Thing are just so far away or things that I'm interested in doesn't exist. People don't exist here, just cars.

I don't have enough time to volunteer after work either.

It's just too difficult to meet people these days.

Just looking to having a message buddy on here (pin pal, if you will). Someone to have low stakes chats with. No pressure to be anything other than yourself. I know it would be fun to see the little message icon when I open to app and just have light conversations with any of you all. I’m open to all topics, doesn’t have to be light either if you want to dig into politics/world events. I like puzzles, volunteering, doing my best to raise a baby, comic book movies, video games (currently playing Factorio), watching the trees sway in the wind. What sorta things do you like?

I just always feel so tired and alone. It’s not a physical tired but a mental one. I think what I struggle with most is wanting people to be good to each other and be willing to spend their time and (if available) money to support their community. I enjoy doing these things but feel alone in that I struggle to find people that want to make it a part of their daily life and way of thinking. Meeting someone like that would help give me faith that maybe we’ll right this ship in the end.

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