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Seattle moves to recognize the rights of polyamorous partners

cross-posted from: https://sh.itjust.works/post/66759116

A unanimous vote among the three members of the Seattle City Council’s Housing, Arts and Civil Rights Committee forwarded a proposal to the full council that would amend sections of the Seattle Municipal Code to “recognize genders outside the gender binary, recognize pansexuality and asexuality as orientations, and include consensual relationships with multiple partners as an element of attitudes, preferences, and practices pertaining to sexual orientation.”

The protections would apply to employment, housing, business licensure, places of public accommodation, park usage, and “bias-free policing,” according to the proposal.

Seattle would follow Portland, West Hollywood, Berkeley, California, and a handful of other cities in adopting the expanded protections against discrimination. Under the bill, residents facing unfair treatment could file complaints and seek remedy through Seattle’s Office for Civil Rights.

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I can't see how this is anything but a good thing. Less tolerance for discrimination against people for shit that doesn't matter to anyone but themselves is fabulous news.

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sh.itjust.works

Polyamory is going to bring a host of legal questions around marriage law. I wonder how this is all going to work.

All cool things though!

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lemmy.today

My question is, why was the government ever involved in personal commitments?

But sure, if straight couples are getting married with legal benefits, LGBTQIA+ couples+ oughta get in on that, too.

And to get ahead of the strawman stupid conservatives might create, animals and children cannot meaningfully consent and thus should not enter into lifelong commitments.

I'mma say the thing they hate. The reflexive property: love is love. 🙂❤️

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Oh honey, that straw man is all projection. Those same conservatives are defending child marriage laws and are responsible for the "white women fuck dogs" stereotype.

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the laws banning poly-marriage, as I understand, were largely targeted at Mormons, and in the context of a cult, I can see how that would be a reasonable restriction

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lemmy.zip

I think your second statement answers the first. 🙂

All the legal protections and multiple inherent contracts that come from having a state-sanctioned marriage, all for $20 ($100?) or whatever for the town/county clerk vs hundreds or much more for enacting every individual contract it stands in for.

I have a long winded reply in my head about how these relationship types are not a new idea, humans have had multiple types of relationships for millennia, etc., etc. But I'm tired, and it's preaching to the choir at this point. (So to speak, lol)

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lemmy.today

Yeah. It's difficult for me to see "traditional marriage" as anything more than financially incentivizing and socially pressuring straight couples to breed. More mindless bodies for the capitalist meat grinders.

Commitments can be lovely and wonderful. Why was the government EVER involved? Because the bible said it was important to do it one way and one way only?

It's a bit personal for me, admittedly. I don't think my parents should have had children.

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It's not only about breeding. It recognizes partners as close relatives legally which gives some rights, for example being able to visit their partner in a hospital while they are unconscious. You wouldn't some rando to be able to do it, but for a hospital to allow partners through they need some proof of that.

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That's basically what it has always been. A program to subsidize breeding.

That's part of why I hate the idea of tax benefits for married couples in general, because the flip side is that it effectively punishes people for being single. Or I guess just not in a monogamous relationship specifically.

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Still, they might be affected as well. I honestly wonder if they'll do a 180 again on the matter of polygamy once such protections are all over Utah.

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lemmy.world

Couples, polycules, whatever, we don't need any government involvement at all in this; including with marriage. Get a job.

Anyone in a relationship should have the exact same rights as anyone not in a relationship. It doesn't matter, don't they have actual problems to address?

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2 bed rooms could be enough for a 4 person polycule with 2 people to a bed. This protects them from being discriminated against vs a nuclear family home of 4 people when going to rent or even buy a home. This is what matters.

Stop complaining on the internet and “get a job”

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i guess you dont understand what it means being able to add your partners easily as co-owner of your things, being able to be covered by your personal public insurance, going to procedures with you as you are already legally allowed...

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It's a discrimination protection bill. I'm an anarchist so I get the "get government out of this" impulse. Surely there's a better issue to point your ire towards than an anti-discrimination bill. Or were you just looking for a reason to be mad at the idea of polyamory?

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Anyone in a relationship should have the exact same rights as anyone not in a relationship.

They don't though. Straight mono relationships have significant advantage. Moreso with marriage.

don’t they have actual problems to address?

You literally just highlighted the problem...

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lemmy.world

By “theeeeeeeese people”, can you clarify? Also does your answer have three parentheses around it, or unwritten slurs?

I’m just trying to figure out what bag of douchebag to put you in. A douchebag bag, if you will.

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Ok I meant it as a troll comment. As in polyamorous people have multiple partners. So they have enough already. 😂

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Ok I meant it as a troll comment. As in polyamorous people have multiple partners. So they have enough already. 😂

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Ok I meant it as a troll comment. As in polyamorous people have multiple partners. So they have enough already. 😂

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