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Should I meet the guy I met from online cam modelling a couple yrs ago?

We talk on and off and he keeps bringing up seeing each other irl but idk.

Edit to add/ hes quite easy to talk to like I know him kinda easy and I’d say we get along ok. He said he loves me…

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Online cam modelling you say?

Jokes aside, that's a bad idea. You wouldn't be asking here else

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Horrible idea, especially if he's repeatedly asking or bringing it up, no.

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Parasocial relationship... could be a stalker... also bad basis for a relationship (be thst friendship or something else)

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He's pressuring you to meet.
He told you he loves you.
You're uncomfortable.

Suuuuuuper sus. Definitely don't meet—in fact, cease contact.

Hopefully it's just parasocial and not something much more sinister.

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Are you open to a relationship with him? If not, does he already know that?

Why would you want to meet up? Why wouldn't you want to meet up? Talk about it with him.

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