Spyke
lemm.ee

This is my first comment, just joined during the weekend. It took about half a day to get used to the lower amount of stuff and the slower pace here. And I really like it! The quality of discourse here seems so much higher and with the lower amount of posts I find that I can take my time and not get overwhelmed. Should have joined years ago :-)

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superkretreply
feddit.org

Years ago, it was just a safe haven for half a dozen communists.

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2 years ago it was already pretty well spread out IMO, that was just before the API fiasco. Now add some years before that and I'd say yeah, a much smaller community.

But even a couple years ago Lemmy was beginning to thrive.

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feddit.uk

i do miss my niche communities on reddit, maybe i'll start some here,other than that lemmy is a good alternative to replace the popular feed on reddit.

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vatlarkreply
lemmy.world

sometimes they have different names.

you can also create any community you are missing. If you use the same name as the reddit community then people will be more likely to find it and contribute.

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vatlarkreply
lemmy.world

When I created a lemmy community (sub-lemmy) nearly 2 years ago on lemmy.world, I remember becoming the mod instantly.

Maybe I am mistaken, or maybe different instances have different policies.

did you create one? If you look in the sidebar does it say who is the mod?

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feddit.uk

Came over from Reddit as part of plan to divest from US-based products. Happy to be here, and plan to explore. Mainly lurked over on Reddit - hope to contribute more actively over here!

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roscoereply
lemmy.dbzer0.com

I almost never posted on Reddit. Partly because someone has usually already said something close to what I wanted to say. With the smaller community here I feel like I can make a unique contribution more often.

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Yes, I know what you mean and would encourage you to share your perspective more - it will still be unique, even if it is similar to others.

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lemm.ee

Not only Lemmy i also joined Mastodon lol. I find this expirience to be refreshing, maybe thats because this platform has less users or maybe because its not under someones control but i feel as if i moved from big, overpopulated city to a countryside. Its like breathing fresh air, i feel myself free, and i love reading comments here, they look like real conversations between humans. Although im not from European Union but im your neighbor from Ukraine and i totally support this movement or its better to call an idea, i dunno. I replaced a lot of stuff already but thats only the first step. Also im really glad to be here.

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feddit.org

99.9% of the time I’m just lurking on Reddit, but here I‘m actually getting interested in commenting again. Feels „safer“ than the other place.

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It's true. I'll talk owl stuff all day! I've been trying extra hard this year to include plenty of non-US centric things too, even before my country went totally off the rails.

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lemmy.blahaj.zone

A few unwritten rules I've found useful over the last couple of years since moving to Lemmy :)

  1. If you're missing a particular smaller or niche community - be the change and create it!
  2. If someone is challenging you in a thread in good faith, respond in the same way
  3. If they're just being a dick, don't waste any sort of mental energy on them - just block them, forget them and move on.
  4. If you're the one being a dick (and be honest, we all know when we are) walk away for a bit
  5. Don't be too proud to ask for guidance but do it in the right communities :) e.g. don;t ask for tech help in a community thats not about tech help.
  6. Be prepared to see a lot of Star Trek memes and Nicole spam.
  7. Bask in the warm glow of an open source, privacy respecting, non-corporately controlled environment.
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Ngl on reddit id feel the need to look through ppls post history, check their credibility, downvote/report everything I disagree with, it was a bad habit, somehow wasn't what got me banned (I did it for years), haven't felt the need to do that once here, not even close to that mindframe when seeing stuff here.

Reddits algorithim was favoring controversy hard, I swear it pushed stuff that would actively raise my blood pressure at me, then give me something id like for a second just to make me not close the app. I was getting all of my dopamine out of arguing, id just open that app mad ready to argue with my notifications.

A month into lemmy and I stopped expecting arguments in my notifications, I find opening this app to be a calming experience like Reddit was for me a decade ago.

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lemm.ee

I got Boost for Reddit Lemmy back. The world is beautiful again!

Now to find communities that I like... I'm a bit lost but I'll settle soon enough.

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Jivebunnyreply
lemmy.world

Boost for Lemmy hasn't been updated in a year or so, you might want to try voyager app if things are not working correctly.

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Aaaah... Too bad, I was so happy to get Boost back haha. I'll give Voyager a shot

Thanks for the heads up

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Yay to all the fresh lemmings. Welcome welcome! Just don't be a dipshit please.

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I like how Lemmy actually grew in size after i left it after the Reddit moderation problem of a couple years ago. All in all, it's all kind of overwhelming but maybe I'm too emotional.

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feddit.uk

Great, I've made myself right at home. As another user said I miss the smaller communities but it can only get better from here.

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Make them and try to convince the members for the corresponding subreddits to join you :) And welcome!

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feddit.uk

I saw the post in r/Europe that pointed here. I'm loving it so far

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lemmy.world

A facebook friend who is transgender posted a list of alternate platforms to use instead of (ironically) Facebook, Google, Insta etc. And since I had recently been perma banned from reddit for twice quoting from The Godfather (I guess their algorithm hasn't seen it) and various djt related insults, I thought I'd give this a try.

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lemmy.world

I like it so far :) Bit confusing sometimes and I'm still trying to find communities that I like and are active.

I hope that many more make the switch from reddit, but I can also see why some people might find the Initial setup confusing or anoying. I think it just takes some time to get used to Lemmy, so I hope a lot of people try it out and stay

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feddit.org

This is my third or fourth alt on Lemmy since joining. I love that I can stick to one account or change instances if I feel like it. It’s not too difficult to get used to! I’m getting a desktop app next.

I like that there’s an application process for each instance. That gives you a good idea of how the instance is managed and what to expect.

I love that I can get German news and interact with Germans and German language speakers. Or, in other words, I love that it’s not default centralized American.

It’s really cool seeing their instances next to everyone’s handle. There’s so much here! I feel a lot safer. I love that everyone is human.

I see @[email protected] everywhere. I have been here a day and I think I have upvoted them 15 times already. Haha

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You seems to like every right thing! Welcome abord!

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Haven't checked Reddit much since creating this account. Thought I might use both but Lemmy is genuinely much better. The only thing I haven't figured out is how to visit the original instance from within voyager and how to make my feed more diverse. Currently it's very politics heavy and I don't wanna unsub from those communities but other stuff kinda gets burried.

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The only thing I haven't figured out is how to visit the original instance from within voyager

Top left of your feed, hit the arrow and at the top left you'll see the option to view only subscribed or all posts on your local instance (or all posts from all instances).

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Currently it’s very politics heavy and I don’t wanna unsub from those communities but other stuff kinda gets burried.

I think that's less the fault of Lemmy's algorithm and more the fault of the "interesting times" we're living in. There's just a fuck-ton of politics to be preoccupied with at the moment.

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lemm.ee

Joined yesterday, I'm loving the gestures of the voyager app

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feddit.uk

Thanks.

I do like that the sub-lemmy is focused on Europe as a whole, the one on Reddit was labelled as EU

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jlai.lu

I just joined and i'm exploring right now. It's looking good ! Of course it will be easier in a few days but i'm honestly pleasantly surprised !

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Mechazawareply
jlai.lu

I prefer grog in the winter, but i will gladly take hot coca ! Thanks

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lemm.ee

I'm as confused as the next guy, but I'm hanging in there! I'm not sure if the decentralized nature means I'm missing communities because I'm looking in the wrong place, or if there's just fewer stuff around.

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Maxreply

I feel the same, but it helps to not just browse "subscribed" but to also check out "local" and especially "all"

You can also take a few minutes and check out the "communities" overview and join those you recognise by name or browse a few of them to decide if you want to join them.

It does not matter on which instance most of the time. Also, I am subscribed to similar communities on different instances, cause why not. Worst case scenario: I get duplicate news.

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aussie.zone

Someone will correct me if I'm wrong but I think that you will see more stuff in All if more people from your instance are subscribed to more communities from other instances.

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Go up to Communities

Change Local to All

Search there.

if you're on an even slightly busy instance, you'll probably see most of what exists.

if someone is on a smaller instance, they can go to https://lemmy.world/communities, select ALL and see what exists

For the most part, just going to all on any server with a couple hundred users should be enough to see most of the communities.

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Yet it is the case. But if you are in a smaller english speaking instance, you should have most big general community federated to your instance.

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lemm.ee

When you follow a remote community, it doesn't send all of that servers posts. Only posts from that comm. That way, if I'm hosting a small server and subscribe to ![email protected], for example, it won't drown my server with the rest of lemmy.worlds posts.

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aussie.zone

Does that mean what I see in All is a combination of instances my instances is federated with + the comms that users from my instance are subscribed to? So if my instance is federated with another instance and no one from my instance is subbed to any of the comms from that other instance then no one from my instance will see posts from that instance in All?

Sorry for word salad.

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lemm.ee

All is all the communties on your instance, and remote instances people on your instance subscribe to.

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lemm.ee

Great experience, Voyager is a great app and Lemmy feels kinda like Reddit in the good old days. Still have to check Reddit threads every now and then through search results while looking for info, though. Hopefully we can get more content going, but I guess that’s up to us users :)

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lemm.ee

Honestly, I need to get used to all of it, i'm also used to fast paced information and now I see more quality posts but just a lot less of it. I think it might actually be beneficial for my mental health in the long run though!

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Hi, thx for warm welcome, had a harder moment learning multi-server architecture of Lemmy, now I'm fine. Still did not abandoned the other portal (actively trying to get banned there by being a rebel tho).

How bout You? how's Your day? :)

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lemmy.world

I was looking for reddit alternatives before and didn't pull through. Now that I did (first hour), I dont see why anyone wouldn't "migrate".

Ah, and I'm using "eternity". Reminds me of the old days before reddit turned facebook.

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aussie.zone

Why is this buyeuropean on feddit.uk but it has an EU flag? I feel like somebody has yet to learn about a major political event that happened in the last few years.

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lemmy.world

It's kind of empty and I thought about stopping my boycott of Reddit because I think it hurts the US more to use Reddit as a place to talk because unfortunately that's where everybody is. Still couldn't get myself to do it though, but I'm struggling to find content here on Lemmy and I suspect maybe I don't know how to use it

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kassarareply
sopuli.xyz

Same here but I also feel like the emptiness helps with my screentime. Easier to check new topics and the continue with life :D i get very stuck on reddit with endless doomscrolling.

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same! I'm also free from Facebook scrolling (which turned into BlueSky scrolling and then vanished)

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I think a big thing is that the front page is not completely changing in order to grab people's attention every few minutes. Once you've seen what is trending you're set for a little while, and if you don't want to explore other communities and stuff you can go on to do something else with your day.

That said, the default sorting of front page posts on Lemmy (active?) has received some criticism - you should check out the other options for sorting content if you want it to look more fresh. :)

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feddit.nl

A question,

How when and where does the money come from to keep lemmy running?

Since nothing is free in life who pays for lemmy?

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And on that note, consider donating to the instance and/or the Lemmy devs (and any other open-source project you find useful). I also need to make a round of donations soon!

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Divide by zero (the instance I'm on) takes donations. People who donate get a nifty flair in the governance threads, but you don't have to donate to vote on issues the server faces. (We also allow non-members to vote, though since they're not as impacted by decisions made for the instance, their votes are given lower weights.)

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Volunteers. Think about it like volunteering for your local community. Like a football coach or something.

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Lemmy is much cheaper to run than mastodon. Small instances have negligible financial costs

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I pay the server admins for feddit.uk (the instance this community is hosted on) to help with hosting costs because I think they provide a valuable service. Currently I am not paying towards Lemmy (I do pay towards Mastodon development however) but I may start doing that in the future.

My £5 a month to Feddit.uk and £1 a month to Mastodon isn’t much but it’s orders of magnitude more than Reddit and Twitter would have earned from my (adblock using) eyeballs before so hopefully a few of us paying a few pounds/euros/dollars directly is enough to support the services.

Edit (approx. one month later): I am now supporting Lemmy development directly, ~$5 a month which I hope makes it sustainable if enough people contribute.

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Running a lemmy server is cheap enough, so they source most of their money from donations. The lemmy software is also powered by donations.

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New world to explore, keep clicking and wil see where I end up!

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Switched to LibreOffice, and Betterbird for Mail. Works well so far. Using Vivaldi as a browser, that's a European project but with a modified Chrome core as far as I understand, the built-in AdBlocker works fine in combination with NoScript, even on mobile. Trying out Linux Mint so I can switch the OS when Windows 10 loses support later this year.

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lemm.ee

I'm surprised how quickly I've gotten used to it! I honestly really like the mobile app and it's gestures, as well as the customizability.

Although I don't think I'll be completely quitting reddit just yet, as some of my more niche interests don't have communities here yet.

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lemm.ee

Have you considered creating new communities for your niche interests? You might just find like-minded people here. :)

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Corvidityreply
lemm.ee

I would but I simply don't have the time or motivation to moderate and manage a community

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Well here's the thing, if no one shows up then there's nothing to moderate, and if people show up you can make one or several of moderators. ;) But you'll never find out unless you create a community.

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feddit.org

So far doing really good, also while I know it is some kind of bubble I am in now, I really enjoy not seeing posts from certain subreddits popping up in my feed anymore.

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lemm.ee

I'm missing some of my topics. Is noone interested in dating, dating advice, self improvement, psychology and this stuff?

Or am I missing something?

People are nice here. I like that. 😊👍

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co_bymusicreply
lemm.ee

I see where my mistake was. I searched in "all" not in "communities" only. Thanks a lot 🥰

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lemm.ee

It's pretty fun, it does stuff better than Reddit so I'm focusing on that. Personally I'm enjoying that you can scroll through so many parts when searching for a topic

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Welcome! I'l glad you like it.

you can scroll through so many parts

Do you mean the instances or the feeds?

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feddit.nu

I’m a little bit confused still but haven’t had the time to read through any FAQs. I don’t know how to access my account in a web browser for example (I’m using an iPhone app now).

So thank you for those links! Will have a look.

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DreasNilreply
feddit.nu

Ok, that was almost embarrassingly easy 🙈😅 Thanks!

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lemm.ee

I still need to get used to the federated architecture but it's growing on me. I hope we can engage as much as possible so it's more attractive to be active here.

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Hi! I'm here to engage 👋
On which sub did you used to hang out?

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Doing good here.

Thx for these spaces, Lemmy is really enjoyable and Reddit is flushing down so fast!

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Doing a bit more mildly optimistic. Lemmy has great potential!

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lemmy.world

Not even sure if I saw any posts on buyfromEU. I just saw a picture somewhere with alternatives to various platforms, and it had Lemmy. I had been looking for an alternative to Reddit anyway, so thought I'd give it a shot. My first day here, I got banned from like three Reddit subs and got multiple content takedowns and warnings for up voting Luigi adjacent comments/posts. At that point I was done. Deleted my account yesterday.

I just scroll through the main All feed. Seems like a cool place so far. I'm using the Photon UI because I like how it looks on PC.

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cabbagereply
piefed.social

Between Mangione in the US and the Buy European movement, I feel like we're attracting the right kind of crowd. If https://50501.chat becomes a central hub of US protests we'll basically have the entire western resistance gathered on Lemmy.

Thrilled to have you here!

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feddit.org

Still not sure about the best Android App, I've tried Interstellar, what seemed kind of unfinished. Now I have Voyager, what seems better so far.

Furthermore I miss some Sub..Lemmis? like r/bida (am i the asshole), r/Staiy, r/LeopardsAteMyFace .

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I basically struggled with the default sorting on home, which is the most 'active' topics. So I saw older posts what was really confusing, because it looked like I don't receive updates. But I found the desired setting in meantime 👍

The sort icon also is very uncommon.. I might fill an issue on Github.

Edit: Got it.. its because the icon of the current chosen sorting shows up, not a generic sort Icon.

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I've tried them all and Summit is what I settled on. The dev ia really active too.

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comfyreply
lemmy.ml

Furthermore I miss some Sub…Lemmis?

We just call them communities, or comms. Some people suggested "lemmings" but it didn't really catch on.

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comfyreply
lemmy.ml

Actually I think 'lemmings' was suggested as a demonym (like 'redditors') but I think others felt it was an insult, suggesting we would follow each other off a cliff 😄

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lemm.ee

Still confused. My app connects me to a single one of the two instances I joined and I managed to get myself in a position where I get separate notifications from separate posts on those instances. So I've been going back and forth between my app and Firefox. Still a bit confused....

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jlai.lu

You should only have one account. The instance you choose is only responsible to store your data, you will still be able to view all communities on all instances

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jlai.lu

If one thing is to be remebered from this last wave of inscription that is OP was kept busy.

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lemm.ee

Thx! I'm still learning the ropes here but so far so good.

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lemm.ee

I am having trouble with the absence of centralized communities. For many many topics communities seem to exist on multiple instances and that splits up the user base and discussions it seems. I get that it is an inherent part of the design, but it hurts my experience.

Also the number of users seems to be too low still to create a lively environment. I hope that changes but so far the number of posts and comments on those posts seems a bit low compared to what I was used to.

Having said all that, I love the app (I am using voyager) and the general vibe of the people on here. Let’s hope on more users and a continued constructive community!

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lemmy.world

Thanks, I love it so far. Been feeling a little guilty for staying on Reddit after the API changes but felt too daunting to learn how to fediverse. Glad I finally pushed myself to do it. (Sync helped a lot too since I had it for Reddit before and was/is awesome!)

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Welcome ! I don't know Sync but people seems to like it for Lemmy and there is lot of other choice to try for.

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lemmy.world

Would love to get a good replacement for r/hardware. Otherwise it‘s really nice!

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rumbareply
lemmy.zip

good replacement for r/hardware.

[email protected] has some promise, light on conversation, but we could fix that by going there and talking :)

[email protected] has a lot more people in it, but the ML servers are hit or miss on community.

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feddit.org

I am happy I joined (in past 14 days or so). So far I like it a lot. In the past I tried lemmy and was confused how it works. Somehow I thought when I post something on mastodon it can also be targeted to lemmy (posts or replies), but I think I largely misunderstood and that put me off for some time. But when I found out about this sublemmy I had to try again and this time with success!

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I'm confused about this too, I've subscribed to the hashtag #buyeuropean on mastodon and I see posts from this community here over there? 🤔

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Thanks. What could be the reason some reply comments arent loading? Is it some kind of Lemmy bug?

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Glad to be here. Switched to vivaldi. On my way to delete amazon, paypal, microsoft and google accounts. Using Signal + an own hostes emailadres from germany. Thinking im on a good way

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