Spyke
rbn
sopuli.xyz

Who else was waiting for the plot twist? I thought she dumps him because his voice sounds like a drowning pig in panic or so... :'D

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Scubusreply
sh.itjust.works

After my girlfriend gained the ability to smell, she dumped me. She hates roses now though

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rbnreply
sopuli.xyz

How do you suddenly gain that ability? Are there implants for smell as well? Or did they extract some lego bricks that she stuffed up her nose as a kid?

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As she apparantly liked roses before and now does no longer, I read it as 'she was born without the ability to smell'.

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I misread the first twist as "she's dead" and thought anon's love life just took a turn for the worst.

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aussie.zone

If someone is deaf from birth and gains hearing from implants later in life, you whisper in their ear and they can't see your lips they won't understand because they have never heard the audio before. Is this correct?

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edricreply
lemm.ee

Yeah. Unless she is only partially deaf or had hearing before and lost it, she won’t understand him.

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Sign "I'm going to say I love you"

Say "I love you"

Idk, probably fake cuz 4chan but it made me feel feelies so idc

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lemmy.zip

In the beggining he said after a while she noticed or something like that so it means she had partial hearing loss.

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slrpnk.net

I figured that she noticed him visually, a shadow was cast or she saw movement. Anon also said that she heard her mom "for the first time" when she got the implant.

Taking all this into account, while the greentext seems to have avoided the first label of homosexuality, the verity of the story nevertheless has to be put into question.

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Yes, but it’s not just deaf from birth people. Your brain has to wire itself to understanding the signals from the implant

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frazwreply
lemmy.world

How could you possibly know what a visual representation of a sound sounds like if you've never had the relationship between the two pointed out to you??

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frazwreply
lemmy.world

Reading lips is a visual representation of a sound. A teacher teaching you to read lips is only the relationship between two visual representations. Written word and moving lips. I think my point stands.

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SkunkWorkzreply
lemmy.world

Yeah I misread your comment I thought you didn’t understand how a deaf person could learn to read lips, but you were talking about the relationship between sound and lips. Hence why I deleted it immediately. Not sure why you could’ve still replied.

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Ah didn't realise you deleted it. It was in my inbox in sync and I replied directly there.

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If your whispered in their ear, then yes, if you've never heard English you can't understand it

I didn't see that in the post - lip reading would still that gap nicely, as would signing and speaking at The same time

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I like to think based on how this story is worded she always had implants but never knew to turn them up

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Just make sure to get a thin one and wiggle it a bit, the screw is tiny and waaaay down there. ^please^ ^don't^ ^do^ ^this^

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lemmy.world

So it’s fake because 4chan. But also it’s fake because even if you’re late deafened you need to learn how to hear after getting cochlear implants.

Also because it’s rare for adults fluent in sign language with a supportive network to choose CIs unless late deafened

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Malfeasantreply
lemm.ee

Also "she gave me her number." And? Did you call her?

(I guess I'm dating myself here because texting is a thing, but...)

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I’m 30 and can’t imagine calling someone in response to being given a number. My entire life my number has been for texting

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She would have had to learn to hear, learn to speak. Perhaps she couldn't understand them, perhaps all the meaning communicated was in sign language

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Malfeasantreply
lemm.ee

Don't be silly, there are no women on the internet.

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Of course you can! This is Lemmy! Being offended for other people is half the posts.

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Oh this is the gayest green text I've seen in long time /s

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lemmy.ml

This is really cute, but the first thing you should've said to her is the cheesy pick up line from the day you met her.

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Hears her Mom for the first time... which means she's never heard words before... how the fuck does she know what "I love you, please marry me" is supposed to mean? It's just a jumble of new, incomprehensible sounds...

Being able to read and write doesn't mean you can understand spoken language, or speak.

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Deaf people know how to read lips to understand people who don't know sign language. Also "hears for the first time" might be an embelishment in the story - lots of people are partially deaf and can hear something, just not enough to understand the words and they revert to lip reading.

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don
lemm.ee

She scribbled her number on the note? What number was that?

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lemmy.ml

Kind of occured to me Gen Z prolly doesn't use phone numbers

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odiumreply
programming.dev

Nah, we do text. Kinda country dependent actually. In the US, asking for insta or snap instead of phone number is fairly common. But text is also common.

In many countries (mainly south america, south asia, and SEA), whatsapp is most common, and that uses phone number as well.

East Asian countries each have their own thing that not many ppl elsewhere use.

Discord is common among more nerdy ppl.

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superkretreply
feddit.org

next time I meet an attractive woman I'll ask for her Lemmy handle. Let's see how that goes.

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Yeah, just ask her for her instance and dump her if it's .ml.

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What if we exchanged public keys 😳😳😳

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They also did at my uni, but it was for group servers for classes, clubs, etc.

It's not really the first medium of communication when you meet someone.

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I just met you, and this is crazy. But here's my socials, tweet me maybe???

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What number was that?

That number was Albert Einstein's number. Then everyone in the library clapped.

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