Spyke
lemmy.world

The way me and my friends just turned into apes whilst playing games in the same room together is a feeling I miss.

We all still play online occasionally and still have fun but having the whole room drop laughing when someone hits a bullshit headshot is a hoot.

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I have only gotten the apes feeling playing Helldivers II when I'm with 4 other people who pull through the entire missions with me, regardless of we win or lose on the extreme difficulty.

It's the sudden bullshit that catches you off guard that has your sides hurting. A few days ago, we were holding off bugs, the transport started countdown "bro, get on the ship!" "It's too late for me" "Bro you got 14 seconds!" "There's no other way" just as a 500kg crushes his body and blows up the charger a step behind him . "Bro, you had to sprint 3 meters!" "It was the only way" "Guys poor one out for liberty."

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kibiz0rreply
midwest.social

Board games have been a pretty effective way to recapture that feeling for me. When a single dice roll or card flip wrecks everyone's plans and the whole table erupts at once, that's a good time.

Video games, especially online, feel a little too disjointed these days -- like our consciousness isn't synced up the same way as it is when we all know we're looking at the same thing at the same time and holding our breath.

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kratoz29reply
lemm.ee

What board games do you recommend?

Do you use voice chat with your friends playing online?

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Checkout tabletop simulator there’s a ton of different games in the workshop.

I think my friend group has the most fun turning games we know into absurd games. Like in uno, we’d turn on all the bullshit settings on so people’s hands are being swapped left and right while other people are picking up 50 cards.

I’m partial to pretending I’m a less pos version of Steve Harvey on Family Feud. You get to ham it up when someone replies with an answer that obviously is going to have sexual answers.

Tabletop Simulator has like real board games too but I can’t get my friends to read any type of game rules so that’s when I give up and start doing stupid shit

And yeah we use discord to talk

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Some of my favorites that have a higher frequency of "major upset" events. It really depends on your group, and how they like to play.

I stick with pretty quick and accessible games, because we frequently have to teach new people and I hate spending 3 hours on one playthrough of a huge game and then the newbie never gets a chance to try again with their new understanding.

Favorites:

  • Wizard reliably makes our whole table lose their minds
  • Love Letter takes sudden drastic turns and is so quick to play
  • Bang! (the dice version) has as much treachery as it does chaos
  • No Thanks! is an exercise in collective sadism
  • Nanuk has perhaps the best "oh shiiiiiiiiiiiii-" moments with a combination of hidden information, bluffing, push-your-luck, pleading for help, backstabbing, and high-stakes card flips

Bluffing games:

  • Coup
  • Skull
  • Cockroach Poker

Card games with sudden win conditions:

  • Five Crowns
  • Mahjong
  • LLAMA

Asymmetric information games:

  • Secret Hitler
  • Codenames
  • Mysterium Park

Not as frequent, but sometimes perfect for the right crowd:

  • Three Dragon Ante
  • Get Bit!
  • GUBS
  • Ca$h n Guns has foam guns that the whole table points at each other at once, Mexican Stand-off style
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IMO it depends on the games. I've been playing co-op games with cousins, and you can get that same feeling. Like, everybody fighting together to take down a boss in Don't Starve Together.

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lemmy.world

Got my kids into halo LAN.

The only thing missing is enough players for a good infection or pirates. Just a big gutted my oldest is into mountain dew.

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I had a job where we'd play Unreal Tournament at lunch and it was hilarious to hear them shouting at each other over the cubicle walls.

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lemmy.world

I feel like we all independently invented the absolute LAN party classic of halo system link:

Hang em high with rocket launchers & plasma grenades only.

Nearly as iconic as blood gulch IMO

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Halo CE Hang ‘em High on the original Xbox with Rockets and Grenades (we didn’t specify… frags were game too) will always be one of my favorites.

That, and Sidewinder CTF. Those were some of the most intense hours of my young adulthood in college.

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lemmy.zip

What is preventing you from organising that again?

I'm still having LAN parties at +30. The only thing that changed is the frequency and the games.

We are really into Pummel Party at the moment.

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Yep, two on second shift. Another on regular but everyone got families and kids with little time.

Rare is the day when we get everyone together and it mostly just ends up drinking and doing some bullshit like who's the most similar to each character on The Man From Earth but can't decide so have to assign an alt for everyone and pull up a spreadsheet lol.

After a couple games of Um, Actually.

And even then, that was only 3 people out of the old group of ~10. Lost half of them to republicans and their dumb shit from being young turning into dumb shit as adults lol.

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We do too. Now it's catered with delicious smoked meats and kegs of beer instead of frozen pizza and mountain dew.

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The AKI lineage of wrestling games for us (WCW vs NWO, WCW Revenge, Virtual Pro Wrestling, Wrestlemania 2000, No Mercy, VPW2). Good times.

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For me it was Quake II on SNES - in like 2005, long after SNES' heyday. My buddies never knew that I had spent months playing the campaigns by myself, practicing with the railgun.

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doleoreply
lemmy.one

On a black and white tv, too. Somehow.

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I split an RCA cable so my brother and I could play on 2 old Commodore 64 monitors, each half-covered with construction paper.

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lemmy.ml

I miss LAN parties... Duke Nukem 3D, Doom, CS, Diablo, Alien vs Predator 2, Quake and the successors of those games. Good times. Online is nice and all, but nothing compares to playing the night away with friends in one room

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Seriously.

I went to a party last year where we brought gaming laptops/steam decks to play online games together. It was really cool and recaptured the magic.

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i had some lan parties a few years ago at my apartment. best time of my life, everyone would come over and play something

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AVP2, nice. That's one most people don't mention.

I played that a few times with friends/cow-orkers late at night in an office where I used to work. I scared the hell out of one guy when I just walked over to his office when he was playing as a marine. He was so keyed up thinking about sneaky aliens and it was so dark that he didn't see me coming. I wasn't even trying to scare him, just walking over to talk to him.

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programming.dev

Well this hits home for me.

My first experience playing Halo was checking it out at a friend’s place in college in 2001 and proceeding to play several hours of split screen co-op all night. It was awesome.

My most recent experience playing Halo was earlier this evening, playing split screen co-op with my son. We ran around the island in The Silent Cartographer just blasting the shit out of covenant, our fellow soldiers, and each other. Though admittedly a lot of the latter was me running around like an idiot while the kid blasted my corpse high into the sky. It was also awesome.

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I sent that image to the guy from college. It was the first time I’d messaged him since 2016. He responded within seconds with “those were the days.” Then he asked about the family and we discussed what games we play with our kids now.

Mine is about to start 2nd grade, so still pretty young, but I can always enjoy some chaotic Halo with occasional friendly fire. (Skulls enabled to give unlimited ammo and grenades — extra chaotic!)

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My neighbors and I had a LAN set up, and we played this regularly. It was awesome.

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lemmy.world

My friends and I used to hold sleepovers a play games, usually single player. We had roles: Player, guide reader, peanut gallery. And we would just rotate, stepping in if we knew one was better at this than the other. I played Kingdom Hearts with them like that, and Fatal Frame now that I think about it. Dang.

Edit: I love seeing how many people had a similar friend/game set up. Warms my heart. ♥️

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sveritreply
lemmy.ml

We did this with Resident Evil and Silent Hill. One dude was playing, the others watched it like an interactive movie, giving hints and suggestions. It was so great.

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We did something similar, it's how we saved all people in Dead Rising. We used to do this for so many single player games, it was such always such a laugh, and we got to finish games I probably wouldn't play by myself.

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gibmiserreply
lemmy.world

Man, we only got coop Descent going with my family. Would have been nuts playing with more people.

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lemmy.world

I used to play by dialing directly to my friend's computer via modem. He only had a 66MHz processor, and I had 100MHz. So if I came at him blasting away with the plasma cannon his machine couldn't render the frames fast enough, and he'd die. So he'd creep around the map with charged fusion cannons to one-shot me.

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gibmiserreply
lemmy.world

Peak strategy based on unfair circumstances, that's funny

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The cool part was that it both leveled the playing field - because he knew the maps better - and made it really fun game of cat and mouse.

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lemmy.world

Get kids and play halo and other old games with them. I bet the feeling will be similar, yet different. Sharing the games you played in your youth, reliving the moments and creating new ones.

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Plus you can kick their asses if you don't tell them about the game's secrets. I used to play Mario Kart with my young niece and nephew on my brother's old SNES. They loved it but they had no idea about the power-sliding so I could beat them at will. They also never grasped that when you're leading the race the players behind you get better pickups.

I'm not a monster - I would sometimes let them win when the crying got too annoying.

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lemmy.world

It was halo 3 custom games and race tracks for me. Halo just is 't the same anymore.

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Mongoose death races in forge on Sandtrap using lots of plasma coils…

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lemmy.world

It blew my mind back in the mid 90s the first time I played Doom in lan with a couple buddies. His dad had some sort of tech job and set up a couple desktops in the basement for us.

MORE THAN ONE COMPUTER IN A HOUSE?!

Best sleepover ever.

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My friends would just bring their computers to each other's house for a sleepover. Along with their 50 pound monitor. I was amazed the little card table we sat at didn't collapse.

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My friends and I played a ton of Doom on my company LAN back then. Getting it set up and working was a challenge but so worth it. Very fond memories.

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Let's see:

  • WoW back when I had friends that played and a decent guild
  • Playing pretty much every co op game with my best friend that we could find.
  • Trying to beat the last level of Halo at 3am while having way too many energy drinks and one of us always managing to fuck something up while driving the warthog
  • Playing Crota's End raid in Destiny 1 blind with my friends when it came out and trying to get through the maze with the lamps
  • That summer me and my girlfriend were both unemployed and we played hours and hours of Dungeon Defenders

Everyone either has kids now or travels too much or just isn't interested in playing anymore. It's sad those days are probably forever over for me now. Maybe once we're all in nursing homes there will be a resurgence in lan parties, instead of bingo for our generation.

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Maybe 2002 2003 my friend and I invited one of the lonelier kids from highschool to my friends house for an overnight gaming night. Turns out the lonely kid has an og Xbox and a dreamcast.

End up playing Marvel vs. Capcom for a few hours then completely beating halo!

One of my fondest memory's.

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I hosted a lot of LAN parties around that time. More for UT99/Diablo/Starcraft but yeah those were good times.

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lemmy.world

You're just missing genuine community and human interaction. It is a huge lack of it in today's world. But you can fight back just you know group up with your friends and have that lan party you miss

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MashedTechreply
lemmy.world

Moved to a new town, looking for groups to participate in... Instead I made an acquaintence out of the barista of a coffee shop I regularly go to

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curryreply
programming.dev

Hey, at least the barista recognizes you even if they're told to smile.

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NaoPbreply
eviltoast.org

My issue mainly is that people get married and have children and then don't have time anymore.

It always used to be a hassle to get people to even show up and I feel having families won't make that any better.

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EnderMBreply
lemmy.world

As a married man with a kid, we may have less time than others, but the loneliness is still there for many men.

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You will always be welcome to play some games in my home, if you're ever in the area. I have multiple computers so we can always play lan games.

But what I mentioned is what I hear most of the time when I ask people if they want to hang out. They don't have time, too busy, etc. Maybe it's me and they just don't like me?

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Ironically in our group it's the people with kids who have the most availability/flexibility to meet up, but the ones who are single or don't have a family who are always busy.

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I've never been to a lan party..some of my friends used to go to lan houses (I don't know the English name for it but maybe cybercafes) to play Counter Strike, but not me..my favorite memory while playing games was when I finally realized I was above average on Tony Hawk's Pro Skater. Me and my friends used to skateboard and we played THPS just to watch the character's movie after completing all the levels. I was finally good at something, never had been good at videogames, that felt amazing! Completing some levels in one ride and being praised by it, oh the good old days.

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In high school, took a networking class, the teacher of said class was the district's IT specialist. Somehow our school accounts in that class has admin access to the entire network, which allowed me to do shit like install Counter-Strike across every machine on the network. There was always a gane going after that, and even some teachers were joining in. One of them asked me to get Diablo installed too but unfortunately, that game actually checked the CD-Key even for LAN so it couldn't be played the same way as CS and I wasn't going to use mine for it lol.

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sh.itjust.works

Mine was Goldeneye. LAN parties weren't a thing when i was a kid really. Now get off my fucking lawn.

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The last time I ever enjoyed online gaming with others was Halo 3. At the time, my siblings, cousins and I who were all close, had moved to different places, were in our 20s and didn't have kids. We would call each other and all go on halo 3 as a group. Then we started getting married, having kids, nobody had time to game at the same time. We mostly all drifted away and don't keep up as much as we did in those days.

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I was at Full Sail in 2003-2004. Say what you want, but the point here is that people there LOVED games. We'd set up 2 TVs in the living room, and 2 in the bedroom, and go crazy for hours. A single game of single flag assault on Blood Gulch could last hours. Then we'd play FFA to pick leaders, then go again. After 2-3 games the hype would dwindle, some would leave, and we'd go to Munchkin. Then occasionally poker. Then Denny's for breakfast because it was early in the morning and class was in a couple of hours on Monday.

Talk about a feeling of belonging. Definitely chasing that feeling still, and not ashamed of it.

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lemmy.zip

Unreal Tournament was so much better than Halo

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slrpnk.net

No need to pit the two together. They both hold a positive nostalgic memory

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lemmy.zip

HEADSHOT

HEADSHOT- DOUBLEKILL

MULTIKILL

ULTRA KILL

.....MMMMMMM MONSTER KILLL LLLLLL

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oh i forgot the killing spree shoutouts

killing spree

rampage!

Unstoppable

....

G O D L I K E

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It was all good and well until my mate who was hosting the server kept using bots and was telefragging everyone.

But this game was amazing when it was first released

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One Friday, we had a beamer/projector as a loaner, we had friends staying over and an extra xbox was in the house already as XBMC client, and we could do 4v4. That was so crazy, all of us in the same room. It was almost impossible not to get swept up in the intensity. 'that high', no ragrets.

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sep
lemmy.world

Crying!
I do not remember the year. But i think we played dune and command and conquer. using null modem serial port links, and long homemade cables. I had a machine with 3 serial ports. A few years later we upgraded to a thin lan nic using coax and a hub with a coax port. For those with cat cable nic.
Played Red alert, red alert2 then a decade stright of playing CnC renegade and wolfenstein ET on the internet. Then the battlefields series ehile that was fun. Nowdays Helldivers 2 almost scratches that itch. It just needs a 32 player rush mode ;)

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sh.itjust.works

Such great games.

My friends and I were too poor/parents weren't nerdy enough to get into PC gaming. So we had red alert set up on two PlayStation 1s with a link cable, and two big ass CRTs pointed opposite of each other.

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Never got into consoles. My parents saw the utillity in a computer. And now i have 25 years in tech ;)

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I was to young to get the networking screen in just the right settings when me and my brother were playing Red Alert. Luckily for me, 3 streets over, the dad of a friend in class got it set up over there, so i did get to experience it once or twice!

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grrgylereply
slrpnk.net

I had access to a very similar setup in my friend's older brother's basement. Lots of Need for Speed and Total Annihilation played in that basement 🥹

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sepreply
lemmy.world

I forgot about total annihiliation!
Was never big on car games since supercars 2 on amiga ;)

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Chee_Koalareply
lemmy.world

Look up Beyond All Reason for a very competent FOSS remake of TA!

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Ohh looks slick. Bookmarking this for later ;) thanks!

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Literally me getting all my friends around with laptops to play halo CE at 15fps, the one friend even powered through using only a trackpad. Legend.

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I get this feeling when thinking about playing Starsiege: Tribes back in the day. I spent hours and hours playing that game.

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mander.xyz

For me it was team fortress and counter strike at my first office job.

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Second. Sniping that damn scout midair as he concjumps the moat in 2fort.

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My very first job was working for an airline reservation company. The company was on the East Coast, but we were in Denver, so we stopped getting many calls after 7 or 8PM. So we did what any reasonable group of people would do in that situation. We installed Warcraft 2 on our computers and got paid to LAN. The game even had a pause function, which we had to use on the off chance we got a phone call.

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lemmy.world

And now the times are changin',

Look at everything that's come and gone,

Sometimes when I play that old six-string,

I think about you, wonder what went wrong

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I miss spending hours using forge to build a pair of bases, then try and invade each other for capture the flag.

Hmmm, which of these 6 teleporters takes you to the flag, and which 5 dump you into a trap...

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lemmy.world

Yep exactly. But with WoW 12 years ago. It was genuinely the best time of my life. I still tal about that era.

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I still watch Machinima and the great kodo song and cinematics with nostalgia. My alarms are wow soundtracks and I alternate my messages between between portal and the horde captured the flag sounds. Great times indeed.

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I just had a similar enough experience this sunday, playing boardgames with my gf and her friends (because my own friends were busy)

Before that, the highest high I got was around 2016, getting the gang back together for a lan party at my apartment. 5 dudes playing a couple of games and then finishing with Counter Strike 1.6. One of my friends was a hypercompetitive asshole and kept getting angrier the more he lost, which was fucking gold. Everyone else was simply laughing at how "serious" he was taking it

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I was/am kinda hoping that with the slow adoption of VR/AR that we can kinda bring hanging out on the couch taking turns on games together.

There are apps like Big Screen that already let you share a screen together and hang out, but not easily play games and you can't share controls. EmuVR let's you share controls and hang out in a room with people but only retro games via retroarch.

If we could get a mix of the two where I could just put on my headset/glasses (in the future) join my friends room and we both kinda exist in each other's real life room via AR sharing screens it would be pretty good.

This is probably like a decade away, but for those of us with IRL friends who have moved really far away so hanging out in person frequently isn't an option, it could be a ray of hope.

Would still rather just meet up and crash over at one of our places with takeaway pizza taking turns on Resident Evil 1 until 3am.

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lemmy.world

Eh, I've found highs just as good in many other games since then. Currently getting them in Warframe, started playing a couple of months ago and having an absolute blast. You'll never find the exact same "high" from something in anything else, let those moments be and welcome new ones. You have that memory, it'll never go away and you'll always be able to get some of that feeling from the memory itself.
It's the same with love, some people spend their whole lives trying to find a specific kind they once had, and by doing so they push away all the new kinds that are able to become just as strong and important.

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Warframe is certainly one of the more fun games I've played recently but it doesn't come close to the Halo lan party days or WOW raids when I was in college. I don't think that's a failing of Warframe though. It's just me being broken inside and having a hard time getting friends together anymore.

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Venerosoreply
lemmy.world

Yeah he is. I haven't watched his movies recently but I should

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Chemtailsreply
lemmy.world

The feature length stop motion film he did recently is a masterpiece in every sense of the word. Big recommend

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Went to vocational school after high school because I didn't want to do 13th and 14th grade. The program designation was "electronics" but the back half was loaded with CS. The networking classroom split time between the day and night courses... in the days before user profiles. It was a shitshow. The night folks did not take kindly to our NUKEM workgroup setup, but it made for fun lunch breaks.

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This is why I still play Dota 2 with my buddies on discord, made new friends, some local but most online in Dota 2

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Glory days of Halo Reach / (hot take) Halo 4 / (even hotter take) maybe even a little bit of Halo 5 (but we don't speak of the early days of Master Chief Collection) were my favourite era of Xbox multiplayer.

Halo Infinite is pretty good as far as mechanics go, but the community aspects are a shadow of its former self, and I'm not sure 343i ever completely understood this.

(I'd probably say "I wish we had Bungie back" but as a Destiny player I'm pretty sure Bungie is slipping too.)

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Why do I always feel like one of the very few who fondly remembers this feeling with Super Smash Bros. Melee? Still do, with Ultimate.

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Hells yeah. Halo CE was the shit. There was a reason Halo 2 had midnight release lines down the block.

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