reading through the list of events I’ve lived through made me oddly sad.

Yaaay I just had mine two weeks ago :) I hope you found a great doctor and can start getting the care you deserve

Again, I would love to do that, but disc golf courses feel genuinely unsafe. Sure it’s “their problem” but I do not give a fuck if it’s their problem or mine if I’m dead or beaten.

I agree, I wouldn’t mention this to your manager OP. I’d just start leaving a few hours early whenever you feel like it/can do it without being noticed.

I’m in a similar position— put in extra work for about a year after being promised a promotion, was told there wasn’t room to promote this cycle, so now I quietly take some half days and spend a lot less time at my desk than I used to.

Mixing phenibut with basically anything scares the shit out of me, the first time I ever took phenibut I took too much and ended up sleeping for ~16 hours. Apparently when my gf tried to wake me up I was fully incoherent and laying in a pool of sweat. I spent the next 48 hours or so too nauseous to move. I’ve taken Phenibut a few times since then but always ~600mg instead of ~1g.

Glad you’re okay!

Lately I’ve been playing with a friend— that definitely helps! I guess I just miss the freedom of playing spontaneously or really zoning out during a round. I was thinking about carrying pepper spray or something but I’m worried about escalating.

I've got a Dynavap and a Zeal! Highly recommend, it covers me well for portable and at-home use. Let me know if you need any help with ball vapes :)

Any of the comments that I have seen about trans athletes has not been that they shouldn’t play, the controversy is about whether they should be allowed to play in a professional women’s league or not.

This is just patently false.