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I honestly don't mind working a lot, as long as it benefits EVERYBODY and not just a handful of hoarders. I love improving things for others.

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Yeah that makes sense of course. You are definitely not the only one. Sounds like you know your limits!

In the end, and in my personal belief, we're all one big community and we have a chance to uplift each other (I know, I know, utopian fantasy much?). It should not be a competition, but a synergy. In my book, it's the effort that counts, not the hours.

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Hi stranger! I love you!

Jokes aside, I'm sure I can't convince you, but I'm sharing this for other readers here in case they find it interesting.

Our brain is fairly complex and deals with unique, complex, but usually somewhat familiar problem patterns throughout the day. To handle this complexity efficiently, the brain tries to run on autopilot as much as possible. I think the brain is one of the most energy-hungry organs in our body (either that, or the Mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell).

When you're stressed or on high alert, you carefully weigh every word. BUT when you're relaxed and comfortable, your brain slips into these autopilot scripts. That's when these verbal "muscle memories" can kick in.

Based on this scenario, if you can slip into autopilot mode where you naturally say "I love you" to someone, chances are high you're regularly surrounded by loving relationships where this phrase is common. Your brain has basically created a shortcut for familiar social interactions.

So to this OP, get rekt lol. you're actually outing yourself as someone who is NOT experiencing a lot of love in your life! Hope I'm either wrong or this changes for you in the future. CHEERS.