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Poignant post on the state of things

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Help me understand please, how is it a survival need? Maybe back in the 1800s when you were working a farm and needed to produce extra pairs of hands to help? Nowadays it seems to me that while it might be nice to have a proper family having children is a financial burden that many can't bear, whether they want to or not

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How much for cuddles?

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I don't know, from my limited view into the kink community if this was a sub/dom setup he wouldn't need the incentive, the subs I know of in the lifestyle not just the bedroom are legitimately dedicated to their dom counterpart and would do their damndest to keep on top of their duties, not have to be coerced into doing them by a tacky chart

I'm no expert though, I just hang out in a sub focused discord

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Dressed up for a solo butt stuffing session, what do you think?

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For me, a session starts with like an hour long shower, doing a deep clean (mostly because I enjoy it, not cause it's truly necessary) and doing some body shaving and just getting nice and relaxed. I usually then get some level of dressed up (cage at a minimum), and then I get started fucking myself. I built a dildo mount rig that's basically a pillar that I can adjust the angle on from horizontal to vertical with a padded base for me to kneel on. A session usually goes like 40-90 minutes, but my longest has been like 4 hours. I wear the cage because I'll lose my self control and want to cum early in, but that kills the horny and ruins the session. This way, I'll have to interrupt what I'm doing and go back over to the shower if I want to cum, and I really don't want to stop hahaha.

(https://www.redgifs.com/watch/luminousgainsboroflicker if you want to see a session in action)

I personally find the difference between a good session and a great one is all in my headspace. Getting dressed helps with that, I usually do thigh highs and arm warmers at least. Making cute moans and whimpers helps too. I also usually read erotica while I'm going, half to fuel the fantasy and half because my adhd brain can't just do one thing at a time, no matter how great it is.

It's been kind of a weird time, going on this journey of self discovery and finding out how subby I am and not having anyone to be subby to/for lol.